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Advise Needed On Living With A Lady As A Guy / 25 Years Living With My Parents / What Does It Mean When A Guy Ask A Girl If She Lives Alone Or With Parents (2) (3) (4)
. by providencia(m): 5:30pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
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Re: . by clumsydyna: 5:34pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
providencia:It's not just about you living with them, but about their influence on your personal decisions. I personally don't see anything wrong with this but would, if they get too involved in the affairs of their son and his proposed family. Though I have experienced second hand, the jealousy of a mother inlaw to the extent that she stabbed and killed the son's pregnant wife. On your part, I would suggest you get a younger help for them, who can do errands for them, it is not your sole responsibility to take care of them, it is not a crime being the last born, your older siblings also have their role to play. The care for your parents could be rotated amongst you all. 1 Like |
Re: . by providencia(m): 5:54pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
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Re: . by Ladylite: 6:24pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
providencia: It may affect your maturity because of some level of dependency, I think the real issue is you are broke or don't have enough money to get a house help or distant relative to help your folks. Move out and live on your own, pay your own rent and get responsible, most people do not feel comfortable when parents are there even if it's the next flat. Move to another city or a far place. Then you can start life afresh. Also it has its dangers but then it will mature you, those ladies who leave you because of it may be scared that after marriage they will still have to live there with you and that's a NO Deal for many of us. You really should stop dating ladies who want sex and really have a mature relationship that leads to marriage, being a last born should not make you the last to mature. 1 Like |
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