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Peace be still by Mimiey: 3:28pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
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Re: Peace be still by Blakjewelry(m): 3:47pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Chill time they say heals wound |
Re: Peace be still by Brooke60(f): 3:50pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
I have lost a brother and same year lost a relationship. I took my break to allow myself to grieve and in the process don't make another person bitter. He tried, he was trying to be there but nahh, I want myself to deal all alone. Its either you are there (let him see your efforts) or you wait till he is done. Losing someone close is different, the emotions that comes with it is way different. You just want to go blank! 4 Likes |
Re: Peace be still by Nobody: 3:58pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Have you tried to visit him. Relationships don't start and end online. Get in touch with his family. Make an effort, okay? Just let him know that you are there for him. Losing a loved one isn't easy. You should know that. It's normal that your boyfriend would be withdrawn. He's grieving, don't hurry him to get over it but walk with your guy though this trying period... For christsake it's just been 3weeks and you're complaining. Expect him to be moody for months. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Peace be still by Nobody: 4:05pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Blu03: He needs people like you. |
Re: Peace be still by Bluntguy: 4:08pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Give him time. If he is the financier of the funeral, it's either you are excess luggage at this time or he is engaged in some financial dealings to see his dad's burial. Let him hustle, he will be back for you. I am not saying you have been relegated to the background because of his dad's death, it's just that he knows you will always be there for him. |
Re: Peace be still by Nobody: 4:09pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
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Re: Peace be still by Nobody: 4:14pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
FarFromAverage:i've lost several relatives, so i know how much it hurts. It has been years but i still feel the pain. It's a bit ridiculous that a lady is complaining cause her guy isn't communicating as he used to before, not that she has made much effort to get in touch. Except call him, which i think is useless in this scenario. A grieving partner needs support. Our 'aunty' doesn't seem to get that. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Peace be still by nzeobi(m): 4:20pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Are you not supposed to be grieving with him. |
Re: Peace be still by Nobody: 4:25pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
Guy man has seized the opportunity to blank you. Yes he's going through emotional trauma from the loss but not a cogent reason to shut you out. Rather now is the time to get closer and console him and with you always by his side, he'll get over the loss in no time. If he's avoiding you, my dear, its a red flag. He's trying to breakup. Do your findings to know if hea seeing a new girl. Even if he's not seeing anyone yet, I still feel he wants out of the relationship. Move on. Don't call him again. Space kor. |
Re: Peace be still by PatriotTemidayo: 5:00pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
The loss of loved ones is the hardest emotional wreck anyone can ever have. It changes people's paths in life, if not carefully handled. Now I am wondering why all the both of you shared in the past few weeks is just "Hi/Hello", if you don't want that guy to go with the wind of Mourning, carry your two left legs and go and see him in person. He'll want to resist you, but tell him you have all the time to stay around him to heal. This singular assurance will raise him from his psychological death. I am speaking from a very painful experience. I lost my mum and then I lost my mind. It took me 3 years to realize all the sacred relationships and bridges I've messed up. I walked away from my relationship simply because I detest everything in life. I moved to a city where no one can remind me of my mum. I cry when I watch movies that has to do with mother's eating the fruit of their labour and I activated a complete incommunicado mode with my extended family. Like I said, he's genuinely mourning. He needs the scent of a woman to heal fast, stop chatting with him from the comfort of your phone, find a way to go be with him in person. If you truly love him and wanna do anything to help him heal. My 2 scents. 2 Likes |
Re: Peace be still by vincentjk(m): 5:24pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
When my dad fell seriously ill, it affected me both physically, psychologically and my sense of reasoning changed automatically. Even before his death I had deactivated my Facebook account, left both WhatsApp and Instagram as a result of grieve and mourning, at a point people thought I was loosing my mind and i was totally off all social media for the next 6months then decided to login back again 3weeks isn't enough to mourn a loved person, just visit him often if you can 2 Likes |
Re: Peace be still by Nobody: 7:15pm On Feb 05, 2020 |
That's it. Self-centeredness and entitlement mentality at work Blu03: Sorry for your loss dear. My heartfelt deepest sympathy ma'am. |
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