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You are right and you are wrong...
You should fight for your love

Some guys sha......why was he pretending all these while that everything was ok.....meanwhile he knows he's having doubts about u.

Thank ur God....u dodged a bullet.

Your upcoming husband-to-be never talk wetin be em problem. I think it's way beyond tribe. Your boyfriend and his family are yet to tell you their problems with you.

The answers are right in front of you

And she said she broke up with him.....

Bini and igbo no dey blend. Go ask. They never blend. Go find owioba marry. You both dodged bullets

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All the pointers are there for a very potentially worrisome union, particularly from your boyfriend's family.

I'd advise you both move on. No be every relationship or feelings go lead to successful marriage.

Good luck.

Truth is you acted out of emotion, but he has severally failed to make an impression that he's backing his decision to wife you irrespective of his parents decision.

He needs to make a stand

i hate all this tribal bullshit. One guy once came here to complain that his fiancee is an 'osu', bla bla bla.

You boyfriend should man up and take control of his damn life. I respect my mother and i strive to always please her. But there are certain choices she cannot make for me.
If he loves you, he marries you.

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You should fight for your love

I really want to fight for it but I am scared getting married to a family who do not like me or treat me differently. Also, I would have felt better fighting for it if he made me feel that way

I'm only concerned about the kind of IT work you do?
CokeBar

Pierced:
Some guys sha......why was he pretending all these while that everything was ok.....meanwhile he knows he's having doubts about u.

Thank ur God....u dodged a bullet.

Thank you

God!!!!......
when e reach marriage,tribal issues day piss me off......
My dear it is well....
I really don't know what to advice

CokeBar:


Thank you

It's not worth fighting for especially if u guys are based in Nigeria.

U only stand a chance if u are abroad......where it won't be easy for them to come visiting any how

Davash222:
Your upcoming husband-to-be never talk wetin be em problem. I think it's way beyond tribe. Your boyfriend and his family are yet to tell you their problems with you.

I would have thought same if I had met his parents or if my boyfriend treated me badly.
The brother whom I met constantly ask after me and sometimes I even speak with his wife.

CokeBar:


I really want to fight for it but I am scared getting married to a family who do not like me or treat me differently. Also, I would have felt better fighting for it if he made me feel that way

Yes you are right,
Its not advisable to marry into a family that they don't like you...
I will just advice you guys to find a way to convince his parents. If you are unable to convince them, my dear sister, just move on

Cakephp:
I'm only concerned about the kind of IT work you do?
CokeBar

How is that a concern?

Well, I believe you guys can still be together if that's what both of you really want. From your write up, you said he is the youngest and all his older siblings are all married to igbo women so I believe this ethnicity battle can be won, since he will be the only exception to his parents rule of
getting married to igbo chick's. The ball is in your court and your bf just need to show his parents he loves you and you mean the world to him(and I think he knows: Every thing depends on how I present you to them) but if I may ask, you didn't tell us if your bf ever had the intention to get married to you. Don't assume things.

Hmm the n!gga x just passing time with you, eating yuh okro while looking out for a better one... Seems d n!gga x a bit sissy, tell him to grow some balls and define what he truly wants or u walk, buh my advice to you would be to Walk anyway...

BlissB:
God!!!!......
when e reach marriage,tribal issues day piss me off......
My dear it is well....
I really don't know what to advice

Thank you, I appreciate!

CokeBar:

How is that a concern?

since you wont disclose I'll assume its yahoo yahoo

Froshloaded:

Yes you are right,
Its not advisable to marry into a family that they don't like you...
I will just advice you guys to find a way to convince his parents. If you are unable to convince them, my dear sister, just move on

We haven't spoken for days.
Thanks for your advise.

Ikjosh04:
Well, I believe you guys can still be together if that's what both of you really want. From your write up, you said he is the youngest and all his older siblings are all married to igbo women so I believe this ethnicity battle can be won, since he will be the only exception to his parents rule of
getting married to igbo chick's. The ball is in your court and your bf just need to show his parents he loves you and you mean the world to him(and I think he knows: Every thing depends on how I present you to them) but if I may ask, you didn't tell us if your bf ever had the intention to get married to you. Don't assume things.

He isn't the youngest, his elder brothers all married Igbos.
Yes, we always talked about marriage... we were also planning migrating together, we wrote IELTS together... we have family type of discussions.

Headlesschicken:
Hmm the n!gga x just passing time with you, eating yuh okro while looking out for a better one... Seems d n!gga x a bit sissy, tell him to grow some balls and define what he truly wants or u walk, buh my advice to you would be to Walk anyway...

We are not sexually active... so that isn't the case.
Thank you for your response

Cakephp:

since you wont disclose I'll assume its yahoo yahoo

Okay, thanks

CokeBar:


He isn't the youngest, his elder brothers all married Igbos.
Yes, we always talked about marriage... we were also planning migrating together, we wrote IELTS together... we have family type of discussions.

Oh ok, try and work with what I wrote earlier.
Best Wishes

Ikjosh04:


Oh ok, try and work with what I wrote earlier.
Best Wishes

Okay, thanks for your input

MARX77:
Truth is you acted out of emotion, but he has severally failed to make an impression that he's backing his decision to wife you irrespective of his parents decision.

He needs to make a stand

Gbam

You know blood is thicker than water.. It won't and will never be easy for him going against his parent's wish.. I'm sure you would think, why can't he man up and tell his family what he wants, he might do that but guess what? They might end up hating you.. You know what happens when your in-laws hate you? He is taking a very big decision that will either mar or man your lives... You should be surpporting him instead.. He is torn between blood and love.. It's never easy..

Drince:
You know blood is thicker than water.. It won't and will never be easy for him going against his parent's wish.. I'm sure you would think, why can't he man up and tell his family what he wants, he might do that but guess what? They might end up hating you.. You know what happens when your in-laws hate you? He is taking a very big decision that will either mar or man your lives... You should be surpporting him instead.. He is torn between blood and love.. It's never easy..

Hmm... thank you for this