I don't know if there was a time in the past when love was real maybe before we were born or it's a scam programmed into our subconscious minds by the media I just hate listening to relationship experts both on radio and tv or anywhere because they make matters worse.if you are living in this computer age and you still believe in love you are being misled big time and reality will lash you hard there are many reasons why you shouldn't take love serious as a guy or lady .

1)ladies and guys claim the love but still cheat

I live close to a school environment if you are the shit girls and guys do but still claim they are in a relationship I am no saint though i have my own share of sexcapades.i once had sex with a lady who claimed she has a boyfriend she loves dearly I didn't question her though.

ladies are the ones who carry the whole soul mate crap on the head they keep selecting and rejecting guys because they are looking for their spec that a good thing though but when they finally find their spec after they will still find flaws in him and next gbam they cheat with another guy why will you cheat on someone you claim dearest to you is that scam .

2)materialism

okay the computer age is here social media and fashion are at their peak can we just accept that we live in a very tempting generation and forget about that thing called love because 99% of the time it will fail matter the effort you put words sustaining it.women are far more hypergamous now more than ever in human history especially African women they all put a financial stable man above all other men the richest man is the most attractive man women are indeed smarter than men.

3)people loose interest easily

It is more like a psychological problem these days relationships barely last two months before breakup that's because there are too many options and greed is at its highest these days everyone feels the urge to dump and move on to the next flashy thing.

let's be guide nothing like love.

Ftc

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