emmaodet:


That was my thought too.
I don't even know what to believe again on nairaland and have decided maybe helping offline is better off than online.
The english is to good for a cold water hawker.
Though they say - ti a ba di oju ki eni buruku o koja, ti eni rere mafi koja a oni mo meaning if we decided not to do good again due to being paid back by ungrateful lot, we won't know when to help again even when the grateful and appreciative one will pass us by.
Will go through the thread and if am convinced, will help

Rewards come from God. If she genuine kindly assist. Parents need to start thinking about quality life for their kids. Open accounts for each babies and save even if it's 500h monthly... I'm sure it will accumulate to a sizeable amount when they turn 18yrs old.

Ishilove:

Madam you shouldn't have used your husband's number. Tell him I will contact him later. Or ask him to contact me.

Thank you.
I have told him your message.

emmaodet:


Ishilove are you for real? Or someone else is using this your moniker presently?
You have been on nairaland for a long time and if you attest to it, you are more or less standing as a refree to the woman.
I respect you a lot on nairaland and will bank on your judgement.

Thank you for the confidence. The unfortunate reality is they are genuine and not scammers

Eeya at Dooj sorry for the insult. You can look for a small job with your SSCE result. May God help you.
I mean after the lock down oo

Ishilove:

Thank you for the confidence. The unfortunate reality is they are genuine and not scammers

Thank so much ma.
We have received your alert with so much joy and appreciation.
Your type is rare.
Am grateful Anty.

Alennsar:
Eeya at Dooj sorry for the insult. You can look for a small job with your SSCE result. May God help you.
I mean after the lock down oo

Thank you Ma for your words of advice, am grateful.
I have accepted your apology, I have no reasons to hold any grudges against you.
Thank you.

SweetCunt97:
Rewards come from God. If she genuine kindly assist. Parents need to start thinking about quality life for their kids. Open accounts for each babies and save even if it's 500h monthly... I'm sure it will accumulate to a sizeable amount when they turn 18yrs old.

I appreciate your advice and recommendation Ma.
But things are not as easy and smooth as easily said.
Begging here haven't been a easy decision, but God knows best.

I have gotten an alert of 2k from an anonymous lady.
Whosever you are, God bless you and bless all that concerns you.
Am grateful.

emmaodet:


You see?
I had the intention of helping but i have my reservation.
I guess it's better to help offline.
I'm really sorry for genuine people who really needs help on nairaland because eyan buruku ti ba eniyan rere je.
Humans have a way of abusing good things or intentions

Cc Ar iza

This is one of the reasons I told you the other time that sometimes it's best to help and leave the rest to God.

I would have helped Op but my hands are fixed right now. May God send her help.

Dooj:

Thank so much ma.
We have received your alert with so much joy and appreciation.
Your type is rare.
Am grateful Anty.

You're welcome ma'am

Ariza:
This is one of the reasons I told you the other time that sometimes it's best to help and leave the rest to God.

I would have helped Op but my hands are fixed right now. May God send her help.

Amen.
Your attention to help alone means so much to me.
Thank you sir.

Dooj:

Amen.
Your attention to help alone means so much to me.
Thank you sir.

I'm a lady.

You are welcome.

Ariza:
I'm a lady.
You are welcome.

My apology Ma. Thank you for the clarification.

Wawu
My apologies Dooj. Those bad eggs have really affected our way of giving online.

DriggityDre:
Wawu
My apologies Dooj. Those bad eggs have really affected our way of giving online.

Apology accepted sir.
I understand your point.

Dooj:

Apology accepted sir.
I understand your point.

Alright then. My regards to your family. I could've dropped a token but there's something I'm doing right now that required a lot of money.
I hope you are alright?

DriggityDre:

Alright then. My regards to your family. I could've dropped a token but there's something I'm doing right now that required a lot of money.
I hope you are alright?

Am alright sir.
Am fine.
Thank you for your good intention.
May that project you are currently running be a huge success.
Amen.

emmaodet:


That was my thought too.
I don't even know what to believe again on nairaland and have decided maybe helping offline is better off than online.
The english is to good for a cold water hawker.
Though they say - ti a ba di oju ki eni buruku o koja, ti eni rere mafi koja a oni mo meaning if we decided not to do good again due to being paid back by ungrateful lot, we won't know when to help again even when the grateful and appreciative one will pass us by.
Will go through the thread and if am convinced, will help

My written English shouldn't be a hindrance to you helping me sir.
I have SSCE to my name, at least with that am supposed to know basic means of communicating in English Language.
Thanks.

emmaodet:


Ishilove are you for real? Or someone else is using this your moniker presently?
You have been on nairaland for a long time and if you attest to it, you are more or less standing as a refree to the woman.
I roespect you a lot on nairaland and will bank on your judgement.

.

Hmmm a moderator on this forum has scammed a member on this same forum before

tabithababy:
.

Hmmm a moderator on this forum has scammed a member on this same forum before

hmmmmmmmmmm

tabithababy:
.

Hmmm a moderator on this forum has scammed a member on this same forum before

Hmm are you for real?

Ishilove, if you say you know them we will take your words but why don't you give more details about this couple? it's not about giving them money, how long will you continue to give them money? it's to tell us more about their condition so that we can give advice that will help them learn to fish. Instead you contacted them and we don't even know how to come in here. Who are they, how did you know them, why are both husband and wife begging like this, what about their families? it seems strange that you're acting this way

Mizwisdom:
Ishilove, if you say you know them we will take your words but why don't you give more details about this couple? it's not about giving them money, how long will you continue to give them money? it's to tell us more about their condition so that we can give advice that will help them learn to fish. Instead you contacted them and we don't even know how to come in here. Who are they, how did you know them, why are both husband and wife begging like this, what about their families? it seems strange that you're acting this way

All I can say is they are a family that have come into hard times and are doing the best they can to survive.

I'm learning not to judge all cases hastily because we can't know what some of these people go through until we walk in their shoes. In the case of this family, their shoes are filled with sharp stones that cause the feet, as well as the heart to bleed.

I will respect their privacy and won't say more than this.

Ishilove:
I'm learning not to judge all cases hastily because we can't know what some of these people go through until we walk in their shoes. In the case of this family, their shoes are filled with sharp stones that cause the feet, as well as the heart to bleed.

I will respect their privacy and won't say more than this.

.


And she keeps getting pregnant

Ifyjos:
Op and the guy that confirmed are both partners in crime , scammers. May thunder fire you criminals

Have you try to confirm and investigate her?

Dooj:

Am alright sir.
Am fine.
Thank you for your good intention.
May that project you are currently running be a huge success.
Amen.

Madam, I just sent you a PM. Reply me or send me a PM if you don't get mine.

tabithababy:
.


And she keeps getting pregnant

It's a bit more complicated than that. Where did you read that she keeps getting pregnant, by the way?

These folks need all the help they can get. They even need it more than the average person. It is understandable that you are being sceptical.

J111333:
Madam, I just sent you a PM. Reply me or send me a PM if you don't get mine.

Good morning sir.
Yes, I have seen the PM and I replied.
Sorry for the late replies sir.

Ishilove:
I'm learning not to judge all cases hastily because we can't know what some of these people go through until we walk in their shoes. In the case of this family, their shoes are filled with sharp stones that cause the feet, as well as the heart to bleed.

I will respect their privacy and won't say more than this.

Please there's nothing like privacy in this case, you know why? because they have cried out to the public for help, some of us are willing to help even if we can do more than just give stipends that will finish in a few days.

Dooj tell us what exactly is the problem, what kind of job are you and your husband willing to do. This is not a case of just giving money to eat, you need something to sustain you so that you don't need to keep begging.

Stop getting pregnant, don't bring kids into the world to suffer, it's not fair. Do you or your husband have any skill? what jobs can you do?

Mizwisdom:


Please there's nothing like privacy in this case, you know why? because they have cried out to the public for help, some of us are willing to help even if we can do more than just give stipends that will finish in a few days.

While you're right to a certain extent, it is not in my place to speak about their challenges and their private lives. It is left to the op do that if she wants to.