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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 3:51pm On May 03, 2020 |
They don't deserve you....Life goes on |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by UTEWUOJO: 3:52pm On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me: NYSC brought them together of course, and that is why I want HND NYSC to be different from that of DEGREE. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by lorenzos1: 3:59pm On May 03, 2020 |
Op put yourself in her father's shoes, you train a girl, you give her the best form of Education you can afford in the Country, Now she is of marriageable age she brings someone that is way less qualified and Educated. To be honest with you, what kinda of Jobs will people with OND/HND get in Nigeria, only a handful of them get good paying Jobs, the discrimination is systemic , and most of them end up with low paying and contract Jobs. You clearly do not fall into her social class and you didnt even attend one of the best Polytechnics in Nigeria. My advice forget love now, go and work on yourself, improve your skills,Education, Get a good Job, make money. Girls will come and you will be proud of yourself.... Now you can easily be taken for a Gold digger. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by carpdiemz: 4:01pm On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me: See mumu, with your university and all the bsc all of over Nigeria how many jobs have you got? And what technical skills you got ? Just theory with no applied.... lol it’s obvious you are one of the local morons that beat there chest of being a useless university graduate with nothing to show for , u better go and learn a skill , a polytechnic graduates who studied quantity survey would feed you and your family without stress, if you like graduate from one of the glorified university in Nigeria , when you travel out of Nigeria to get a the same yeye degree u got u yuh still gonna start from scratch..and by then you would remember I said it’s all glorified . get some exposure bruv 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Jamesrock(m): 4:07pm On May 03, 2020 |
ENIGMATIC2023: Nahh; the guy don’t deserve them!!! Why can’t he up his game |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Adegunle4(m): 4:11pm On May 03, 2020 |
Frezhkid10: I disagree with you ...I don’t know what your course of study is tho...but this is not entirely true. I have HND and BSc certificates in Architecture...each has its own specific edge over the other in career development. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by kaytolee(m): 4:12pm On May 03, 2020 |
PureGoldh: Pure gold say it is all.....be a man if she yours she will surely come 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by WriterX(m): 4:12pm On May 03, 2020 |
Two things I vow never to do Choose a career for my kids Choose a life partner for my kids Dont quote me, it's a choice, my prayers is that I fulfill my duties to them as a parent emotionally, physically and spiritually . 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by akinszz: 4:17pm On May 03, 2020 |
davidadenrele:in one word, he should just do everything possible to impress the gal's parents. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by stuffs4me(m): 4:18pm On May 03, 2020 |
carpdiemz: Typical rantings of a major failure.. It is nobody's fault that you failed your exams. Deal with your failure. You hate people who have achieved the success that you have failed to achieve. You hate the universities just because you were not intelligent enough to make it to the universities. You are a failure and will forever be. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by carpdiemz: 4:29pm On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me: I don’t have time to be ranting with you , it’s obvious your are suffering would have employ you but I don’t need dull brain like you , u must be the first person to have a degree in your family a failure and a fool forever.... a champion at producing bastards. U gonna regret u start the curse .... u will continue failing and forever u shall . Had my university degree abroad and not in Africa 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by adexpa(m): 4:59pm On May 03, 2020 |
AkupeMBANO: We can not say categorically that he is a gold digger cus he said they met during NYSC and he might not probably know her background then. My own observation is that the guy is not ambitious, dreamer and a goal getter and the man saw that in him during their conversation. Not everyone will start big but our dedication and determination to be become big drives us to greatness, the man himself might not start up big but he worked his way up through dedication and duggednes and those are the basic attribute the man expected but the guy could not present his manifesto to reflect those things. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by tobijas001(m): 5:08pm On May 03, 2020 |
landmark86: Let's be realistic here, can u send ur daughter to private university for B.Sc and M.Sc, sending millions of naira and she now told u her BF is a factory supervisor. The man no get fault o |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by seuncyrus(m): 5:11pm On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me: LOL , the last part of your post really got me laughing . Funny enough , if the roles were reversed this is exactly what the men would say. most people commenting on this thread are just being unecessarily emotional 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Seyong10(m): 5:46pm On May 03, 2020 |
BigJoe19:They don't know 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by deleo16(m): 5:58pm On May 03, 2020 |
humilitypays:that's is the real education bro thumps UP 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by stuffs4me(m): 6:00pm On May 03, 2020 |
carpdiemz: See this grand failure oo.. Pls answer the question Mr. Failure. 1) Who's fault was it that you failed your exams? 2) Who's fault was it that made you faile JAMB so many times? 3) Who's fault was it that made your parents to waste their money only for you to fail in school? Olodo wey you be 4) Who's fault was it that made your life into a wasteland? 5) Who was it that made your life a permanent failure? The answer to the above is yourself. You are the course of your wasted and failed life. You are here getting stomach pain just because people are succeeding in life. It is your type that will fall sick just because your neighbours are succeeding in life |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Tumbulum: 6:05pm On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me:if you live long a enough life will teach many lessons. Poverty in Africa is a big problem that people mistake love for gold digging. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Reader530(m): 6:07pm On May 03, 2020 |
12345baba:It's not about Bsc...She is from rich home that's why she was sent to Private University.... Public university students are also poor and they are not in the same social class with private universities |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OasisT: 6:16pm On May 03, 2020 |
Alaganature: Brother, the whole stuff narrated was part of my life experience and I advised base on my experience and how I escaped the embarrassment. I am sorry of I by any way insulted the OP . I was rubbished by a polytechnic lecturer in Federal Polytechnic Ede who happened to be a foster father of the lady then and how I responded was what I advised and I ended up marrying another person that is better than the one I was rubbished because of |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by erospecial: 6:43pm On May 03, 2020 |
Certificates/degrees are man-made hence sinking sand!
What a foolish man the girl's father is!
What degree has Buhari, Tuface or Burns Boy? 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by erospecial: 6:49pm On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me: And your proud kind wants to go to heaven or even a church goer presently! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by erospecial: 6:55pm On May 03, 2020 |
seuncyrus: hypocrites and heartless souls everywhere. yet these fake souls go to church and mosque claiming to know God in their pride. in civilized societies, academic or financial status aren't factors in relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Akinwaley11(m): 7:00pm On May 03, 2020 |
In Kiss Daniel's voice..........laye..laye o, baby mi ko jo |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by highbee02: 7:15pm On May 03, 2020 |
OriOko88: E pain u |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by highbee02: 7:17pm On May 03, 2020 |
elefind: I don't insult people, Do your research very well before disgracing yourself in public |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 7:18pm On May 03, 2020 |
landmark86: OP, don't be deceived. It's not really about BSc/HND Stuff, moreover your write-up attest to the fact that you're scholarly to a good extent. Her dad only said the best thing that would make his daughter see reasons for his disapproval. Certainly, he knows his daughter better than you, and how best to get her to comply even if she struggles through it for a while. OP, the real reason is because you don't measure up when ideally, you should be far above her or at least at the same level, and not just academically. I believe her dad is a Yoruba man, and God help you if he is from Ekiti State. Meanwhile, you shouldn't feel bad at all, nor hate the man rather you should thank him. Why? In reality, he saved you from future misery, not necessarily from him but his daughter. Because that thought pattern is not exclusive to her dad o. I dare say more resides in the lady though she is not exhibiting it at the moment. And to be honest with you, it's not the fault of either of them (both the one showing it now and the one that will show hers later). They are rich and connected while you're not. You just don't measure up. Sorry, but that's the raw fact! See, it's not easy to get a husband these days, particularly with continuous pressure from parents so she is settling for you because she is out of options. But she would crumble your ego countless times in the marriage as she would re-echo that and more to you. You said she is good, bla bla bla. Of-course, she's got to be. It's only a crazy lady seeking marriage that wouldn't be good. Have you even placed her on series of tests to confirm important virtues? Or you're among gullible guys whose senses have been overtaken by supposed love, only to get shocked at what they married? Anyway, she is not living with you so you don't really know her content as you think. And don't wait till that time when she would start displaying it to you in the marriage because that would be the day you would realize that her dad was really nice with his. For me, love isn't enough for marriage. In fact, I think a man should enter into a relationship with a lady he loves but only marry a lady he is confident he can live with, all the days of his life. If you forcefully go ahead and marry her, the only way you would make that marriage work is for you to actually become financially successful. And if you ever become successful, it would already be too late because the marriage would have been severely battered. In fact, you wouldn't see her as someone who patiently (humbly) lived with you throughout the struggling period. And depending on your type of person, you could successfully ignore the anger/malice that would have brewed up over time and live with her happily ever after. But some things are easier said than done, that is even if you ever become successful. Because the atmosphere that would continually be generated in that marriage would easily breed poverty/misfortune, repeatedly. It would have been manageable if her dad was the one that accepted you and she is the one struggling to because her dad would always fix her head on your behalf during the early days of the marriage and also help (connect) you to quickly become successful to balance things up. So Oga, help yourself by coming down from that horse you are trying to mount and go and marry a lady you would be able to successfully head without foundational issues (unending headache) as such would guarantee your marital and financial success, and all other forms of success in life. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by highbee02: 7:25pm On May 03, 2020 |
OriOko88: While your reply portrayed u to be someone suffering from schizophrenia |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by spiceadole: 7:26pm On May 03, 2020 |
igbowoman: Lol...Illiteracy is bad! This one didn't branch school. So quick to spite venom. Evidence of bitter marriage |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by openmine(m): 7:33pm On May 03, 2020 |
nitoriolohun:True! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by highbee02: 7:35pm On May 03, 2020 |
elefind: A graduate is a person who has successfully completed a course of study or training, especially a person who has been awarded an undergraduate or first academic degree. Can u c d word ESPECIALLY |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by openmine(m): 7:42pm On May 03, 2020 |
humilitypays:Exactly! |
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