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Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by 042Trend: 1:08pm On May 04, 2020 |
Girls grow up to treat their husbands the same way their mothers treated their fathers. That's was why I didn't marry my ex in 2012. Smart girl. Works with one of the leading banks in Nigeria. Slim-thick, chocolate, tall and strong muscular legs Just how I like it We were destined for the alter decided to see her parents. until I We drove to her parents house in the villa. Coming into the compound I no ticed a semi-paralyzed man at the corner of the house with sadness all over him. No one paid attention to him and his clothes were dirty. I felt he was a madman or something but was distracted by my girl's mum and siblings circling around me with salutations. We got into the house and as a solid Igbo guy, 1 brought one carton of omega schnapps for the father like tradition dictates. On asking for the father to present the drink, I was told dismissively that he was the man outside and the mum wanted to accept the drink on his behalf. I was shocked! What?? I asked my babe and she said it was a long story. ignored her and went to the man. Introduced myself and gave him my present. When the man told me his story, I wept. Brethren, pray that you marry a good wife. To cut long story short, I confronted the woman and she was more interested in my bank account and how I will assist with their building project. Suddenly some of my babe's aggressive behaviors begins to make sense. Then we grew apart cos I refuse to do whatever the mother says. Ladies, don't let your toxic mum lead you astray. Sources: CodedHits 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by josen16322(m): 1:13pm On May 04, 2020 |
wen a gentle by nature man married a beautiful higher killer as a wife wat do u expect happy endin or a calamity |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by SweetCunt97(f): 1:23pm On May 04, 2020 |
Unfortunately love is blind. |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by bist: 1:24pm On May 04, 2020 |
He who fights and run, na fear de catch am. |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Mindlog: 1:35pm On May 04, 2020 |
For both men and women, when intending to get married observe how the guy's father treats the guy's mother while men should observe how the lady's mother treats the father because behaviours tends to be learnt, consciously and unconsciously. Irrational behaviours of parents tend to be normalized and children take such scripts into relationships and ultimately, marriage except for some who intentionally recognize those behaviours, challenge them and set motions for intentional change. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by crackkhaus: 1:45pm On May 04, 2020 |
He dodged a bullet, M16 bullet. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by bukatyne(f): 1:47pm On May 04, 2020 |
Is CodedHits a sister company of CodedRuns? |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Nickymezor(f): 1:48pm On May 04, 2020 |
Hmmm |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Nobody: 2:08pm On May 04, 2020 |
bukatyne: How did you know about codedruns? 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by bukatyne(f): 2:11pm On May 04, 2020 |
Plead: Don't get ahead of yourself Nairaland has buzzwords; one time, it was CodedRuns. |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Nobody: 2:12pm On May 04, 2020 |
bukatyne: You don spoil 3 Likes |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Richy4(m): 2:12pm On May 04, 2020 |
I thought there was a long story that needed to be cut short |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Nobody: 2:15pm On May 04, 2020 |
Mindlog:you can train yourself to correct this notion 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by bukatyne(f): 2:20pm On May 04, 2020 |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Mindlog: 2:21pm On May 04, 2020 |
southniyikaye: Which notion? |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Vyolet(f): 2:55pm On May 04, 2020 |
The man is innocent because he told his own side of the story. 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by dominique(f): 8:15pm On May 04, 2020 |
Maybe he treated his family like the man in this thread below https://www.nairaland.com/5827261/how-win-wifes-heart-back After they've been sucked dry by mistresses, they'll now bring their broken pieces back and expect to be given royal treatment. If you see any aged man neglected or mistreated by his wife and kids, ask about how he treated his family during his hayday. By the time you get the full story, any ounce of sympathy you initially had for him will automatically fly out the window. Not saying they're no bad wives but our society was designed in a way that men get away with a lot in marriage which a woman ideally wouldn't. 6 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Lamanii22(f): 8:43pm On May 04, 2020 |
Right, one's mother's toxicity can have an effect on one... One just has to be careful.... It could lead one astray OP, you're right. So right. |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Uyi168: 9:16pm On May 04, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:.. Marriage is an eye opener.. |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by Nobody: 10:01pm On May 04, 2020 |
@op, you did the right thing. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by bestabigaelever(f): 10:13pm On May 04, 2020 |
Thank God I have a good mother My daddy got 3 wives and my mum still stood by him My mum is the 1st wife though |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by kapelvej: 10:18pm On May 04, 2020 |
042Trend:If this is true then you have done well |
Re: Man Reveals Why He Refused To Marry His Girlfriend After Meeting Her Father by CAPSLOCKED: 8:54pm On May 05, 2020 |
042Trend:IMPOSSICANT! |
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