Not in Nigeria KingZaddy:
Now a lot of young men out there appear to be searching for what one would call a wife material but the wife material is not really the problem but the qualities that makes up this material… A lot of guys what a good woman as wife but don’t seem to know the qualities that makes a woman worth marrying.
If you spot 8 of these 9 qualities from a woman then hold on a little tighter
Also for the ladies, some of these qualities are not inbuilt but learnt, so I advice you read this and develop these qualities strongly if you want to be taken seriously.
Tip for readers: Guys focus on the Headers, ladies focus on the content of the header
1. One that listen to you first before giving her opinion
You see, the thing is that, no man wants a nagging woman, one who complains and tries to rule, one who has no patience to listen to her partner, one who jumps into conclusion like it’s a sporting activity, one who thinks she is always right and the other is wrong.
As a woman, you should be the first to calm down and listen to him, even if you are right and he is wrong, first listen to him and use the word “I understand you perfectly” before giving your opinion.
Why does this work? Once one party listens there would be no need for Barbarian arguments and it gives the other party the opportunity to be listened to.
Be womanly and loyal in situations like this, it is not because you are stupid but because you are wise.
2. Be your full support
This is where loyalty plays in, in my book ‘Advances Bang drills' I addressed loyalty. Loyalty can be easily misunderstood because ladies think it’s slavery, loyalty is a plague of support for a person and how much you support your man matters a lot. We all have celebrities we love and support, we watch their movies, buy their music, follow them on social media, defend them in society discussions, why not do same for your partner? A celebrity doesn’t even know you exist but your partner does, he is more physical than fiction. Show support dear
3. One that helps corrects you when you are wrong
Sometimes you can be diplomatic about this but make sure you call a spade a spade, say the bitter truth, sometimes it’s what men need to hear so as to reset the male madness. When he errs correct him don’t watch him crumble in his mistakes except of cause you are a terrible person.
Corrections are made not to destroy but to build up, they may not appreciate it at the moment but with time they will love you for it
4. One that quickly stops you from making fatal decisions
It’s important for a woman to be a guide to her man, he is a man yes but every man is full of errors, we all make mistakes… if you find him trending with the wrong people better call him to orser on time, if he is about to invest in the wrong business call it out to him. If your heart is not at peace with something tell him…
5. One that prays for you
Not necessarily wake up at night and yell down the house and wake the neighbours but one that wishes good for her man, she spends time supporting him with wishes and silent prayers… how much good stuff do you wish your man?
6. Seeks your opinion first before friends
This one is a big deal for many ladies, they would prefer to hear from their friends first even in matters that concerns her relationship, this is an error and should be corrected because this habit can tag along with you into marriage. In matters that concerns your person progress, talk to your partner first before your friends, in matters that concerns your relationship issues talk to your partner first before friends
7. One who can prepare you something to eat without you asking or requesting
Men live food big time, a lot of us do. A woman doesn’t need a man to tell her there is no food in the house or I am hungry. One place that women will forever own is the kitchen, it belongs to you and it is your duty to make sure the pots are with exciting contents.
Without being told you should know that you should prepare meal, he’d be surprised to see you cooking already without his consent, he wouldn’t get angry I assure you that, he’d love you instead
8. One that respects her Parents
Never overlook this, I’d she doesn’t respect her parents and talks mannerlessly to them then be prepared for double the trouble
9. One that understands life is bigger than money
I do not wish to stress on this, this issue has already been over flogged.
There is more to life than cash.
GUYS YOU CAN ALSO DEVELOP SOME OF THESE QUALITIES…
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