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Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by roymary: 2:06am On Feb 03, 2011 |
Well; no long stories; its not bad but because we are humans and we know we are pretty unpredictable. You don't wanna covet another man's wife; You don't wanna take yourself back in time and repeat all the stress you went through when she left. You are just experiencing this but some of us had more than one instance. What do we do? We stopped living in fantasy lands and we move on. Its all in your head and you gotta get a grip and let her go; she's long gone- you know. Now; you are toying around with another man's wife. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by dayokanu(m): 6:25am On Feb 03, 2011 |
armyofone: |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by ifyalways(f): 9:12am On Feb 03, 2011 |
Poster,block her from ur friends list @ FBK. Blacklist her number then delete it. Move on with ur life. While u both are reminiscing abt the good times of the past,dont forget there is a man and probably kids involved. Besides,whats so special with ex's that people these days seem to be fixated with them Nothing good wud come out of any relationship with an ex,not to talk of a married ex. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Fidelo726: 12:13pm On Feb 03, 2011 |
There is only one solution this. quench the fire before it consumes you.[color=#990000][/color] the thing wey dey sweet dey kill.[b][/b] |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Sagamite(m): 12:49pm On Feb 03, 2011 |
ifyalways: She would most likely get her fix somewhere else if not with him. Her marriage to the man is virtually doomed at this stage. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Fidelo726: 1:59pm On Feb 03, 2011 |
The danger of ex's coming back to start communicating is that it might ignite old passion and it can lead to one partner trying to accomplish an unfinished business. So, BEWARE. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by ifyalways(f): 3:40pm On Feb 03, 2011 |
Sagamite:True . . .But let it be the next man. Fidelo726:why are married folks still communicating with ex's? If the ex was so good,why the break up?I just don't get it. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Sagamite(m): 4:11pm On Feb 03, 2011 |
ifyalways: If he has spent the 5 years with her, he has most likely developed the protector complex. He would have a little thing still left in him that kinda of urges him to protect her, to make sure everything is OK, worry about how things are going or would end with her. Even though the responsibility should be someoneelse's, the fact she is calling him would make him feel like it is an indirect call for help. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by eghost247(m): 8:51pm On Feb 03, 2011 |
Yeah But there should be a limit dont get too close |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by vescucci(m): 10:04pm On Feb 03, 2011 |
@op, gradually withdraw from her. You can be very good friends with married people of the opposite sex but there's a reason why exes are exes. They were confused then, you'll be confused now. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by MrRambo: 10:59pm On Feb 03, 2011 |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Ranoscky(m): 8:14am On Feb 04, 2011 |
eghost247:True! vescucci:Word! |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Nobody: 8:46am On Feb 04, 2011 |
IF THEY MEET SUDDENLY THEY CAN CHIT CHAT AND EXCHANGE PLEASANTRIES. NOTHING MORE BEYOND THAT. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by armyofone(m): 2:27pm On Feb 04, 2011 |
dayokanu:what did i do eh, how are you |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by dayokanu(m): 5:30pm On Feb 04, 2011 |
Freezing here, Superbowl weekend and snow everywhere. Waiting for you to come over and lets keep warm together |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by orekinky: 11:08pm On Feb 05, 2011 |
You dont need to keep discussing anything with her, not even for anything. Her new man might just be the non-tolerative type and can overhear you guys since its based on you people's past, please let sleeping dogs lie, it will not be of good to either of you to break up now, she is attached to a soul now, let them enjoy themselves, tell her to create time for her new man, Pls let her be. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Sagamite(m): 1:15am On Feb 06, 2011 |
OP, are you still around? |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Nobody: 9:55am On Feb 06, 2011 |
people should watch Casablanca already. Of all the gin joints in all the towns in all the world, she walks into mine Captain Louis Renault (Claude Rains) i'm not implying any gay connections, thanks. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Nobody: 1:33pm On Feb 06, 2011 |
no |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by tlops(m): 4:27pm On Feb 06, 2011 |
back off, since she is now getting emotional (atleast it sounds so). |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Ipsi(f): 11:57pm On Feb 06, 2011 |
that's a big problem nowadays that women aren't patient anymore. The hardworking underdogs are always overlooked. Anyway please stop talking to her abeg you are providing a much needed distraction and if she is getting emotional you really don't want that attachment. also if she left you because you didn't have enough who says where you are now will satisfy her? please don't even think about it. She chose her path you followed yours. Don't go back. Remembering is all you should do. if it was your wife talking with her xx the way you guys do how will you feel? You really don't want a woman's emotional wahala o. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Ranoscky(m): 3:16pm On Feb 10, 2011 |
Ipsi:I also don't know why! Ipsi:True! Ipsi:Word !!! Ipsi:Exactly! Ipsi:Million $$$$$$ question! Ipsi:Am telling you !!! Nice post, Ipsi! |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by richyrich4life(m): 8:39am On Jul 17, 2012 |
The million naira question is, "OP what do you want from her?" If you are not wishing things were different btw the two of you, then you have nothing to worry about. In that case, you can simply tell her about the wonderful relationship you are in (even if there's none). That way you've subtly informed her that nothing can transpire btw both of you But if you find out you want something from her... then there's trouble You can decide to save everybody pains by ignoring what you ache for and start reducing the frequency of the calls... Or you can damn everyone and jump into the hot cauldron with both feet. That way you'll come out scarred & you'll have broken a marriage. |
Re: Should Ex's Talk To Each Other by Tgirl4real(f): 1:34pm On Jul 17, 2012 |
persist: I have been 'disengaged' from a lady for over two years now after dating her for like 5 yrs. She decided to marry another person cause she thought I was not ready financially and mentally for the marriage. I now reside in the UK and we got in contact again on face-book and started exchanging messages (Just pleasantries) .Of recent she dropped me her phone number and I decided to call her after much rumination. We started gisting and got talking about why she left and said I might not be where I am today if I did not leave her and stuffs. Sincerely, i would have said there is nothing wrong with an occasional hello, hi once in a while, but in this your case, I would suggest you back off. it's clear she hasn't gotten over you. Twas circumstances that made her move on when she did. Before you know it, she will start regretting her actions and comparing you with her hubby. I hope she has a good home right now, if not, you can break her marriage. |
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