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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Kay512: 9:51am On Jul 07, 2020 |
bukatyne: LOL. I would say she was an “easy-catch” for him. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by AfroKnight: 9:56am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Why are ladies talking as if marriage is supposed to be a righteous punishment for this man? Is happiness not part of the ingredients of a good marriage? The woman is not happy too. Why punish yourself just because the man would feel the heat too? That’s self-destructive. Ollins, divorce her as soon as your lawyer says you can. It’s for your own sanity and hers. As for the kid, he/she would be better off with two sane parents separated rather than living with two bitter parents. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Clefayomide: 10:01am On Jul 07, 2020 |
My mom always say this to me " make sure the lady you're having flings with is someone you know you can marry (your spec) should in case of pregnancy. But as it is now, I'd advise you to make her into your kind of woman 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by IamGbanks(m): 10:02am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ollins: If this story line is true, then you (the writer) is as confused and untruthful as the father of all lies. Look at your statement: " Had a fling with this girl" " knew in my heart that I didn't love her" " Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman" And you had a sexual relationship with a person you knew in your heart you didn't love, who has a character opposite of all you wanted in a woman? Fine! Yet you kept banging her p*$$y constantly, only Devil knows how long this lasted, maybe six months plus. All of a sudden you now hate her! Because you have seen someone out there better or perfect that her, a marriage out there perfect than yours. My mother once told me a word of wisdom "all our problems are caused with our own hands and actions" Better love her up and enjoy your marriage if the story is true (I repeat for the second time), or "end up in had I know" 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Brightgem(f): 10:14am On Jul 07, 2020 |
mrchineke:Who is this one? Do you realize you just made a threat of killing someone? Just because you are on the internet you can talk as you like. Anyways my life is not bound to be lost in the hands of another human being, because I'm also careful not take stupid decisions and I watch my company, so the day I will meet a demon like you who has the intention of killing, God will take you first to that 6ft under you so desire such that I never even get to know you existed. Let everyone be responsible for their actions. You don't like a woman but can sleep with her recklessly to get pregnant and I should be sorry for the person? I don't waste my sympathies on nonsense. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Raymeg7(m): 10:17am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ollins:haha brother, I dey laugh because people like u always think is all about you you, do u think that she don't have her own dreams, or are u thinking u are all she wants in life, baba she wants dangote son too, all u need to do is tell her what u dislike in her, let her work on it, then if she refused to work on it, that is when u can take a walk, because who ever u are going to marry again, u will still find fault, people like u don't know what u want, I don't stick my thing in a girl I don't fancy, how did u get in there when she has all this fault u mentioned. Brother work on yourself and her too thanks |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by siegfried99(m): 10:21am On Jul 07, 2020 |
donbachi: Wawu |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by DexterousOne(m): 10:28am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Unnerve: Funny |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by sorepco(m): 10:29am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Don't listen to that divorcee. He is from a broken home! ollins: |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Ybaby: 10:29am On Jul 07, 2020 |
UjuJoan2: Ssssshhhh I didn't want to say so too..... but I believe he was part of the buffet .... fear woman but when he said Yoruba girl....sigh! She may have been waiting true true... Yoruba girls can wait. (I am Yoruba but mo to ja) |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Harddie123: 10:33am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Abi idiot and dindinrin ni eleyi ni...u put yourself in d mess all in the name of flirting around with ladies...is it until when we tell you that brain is an app before you start using it.... everyone like you that want to flirt and dumb d lady may God always put you to shame...she is not educated abi take her to Babcock, convenant or landmark University and sponsor her...foolish guy. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Swinger60(f): 10:35am On Jul 07, 2020 |
gudvibz:I disagree. If the bond is not there, is not there. I have been there and know how it feels. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Biodun1929(m): 10:38am On Jul 07, 2020 |
bukatyne: Lol! Exactly. Why would you have sex with someone you claim not to like and not use condom? |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Happymoney: 10:39am On Jul 07, 2020 |
You allowed your third Leg to control you,and that is the price Is only God's mercy that will help you. Repent from Your Sins Receive Jesus as Your Lord and Personal Saviour Ask for His Mercy |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by CsRockefeller(m): 10:39am On Jul 07, 2020 |
IamDavid: I know, everyone wants a piece of Igbo ladies They are like the Jewel in d Savannah. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Biodun1929(m): 10:40am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ImaIma1: ...and not use a condom. Why would anyone have raw sex with a person they don't like. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by CsRockefeller(m): 10:45am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Raymeg7: You just made me remember that Michael W. Smith's song. I'm going back to the heart of worship Where it's all about you It's all about you Jesus. Make I go download am. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Chigold101(m): 11:00am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ELKHALIFAISIS:if he is sincere he will tell you he still wants to fuc.k around. He doesn't want to settle down yet. Or he is looking at other grasses he considers Greener, which in actuality is not. The problem is from the guy... Simple |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by do4luv14(m): 11:01am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Oga pls carry it, its your cross, be thanksful say, you dont finger the devil here, you are talking of her character, when you were banshing her you no remember ni? There is always a way outta it man, start by polishing her up a little, take to fun spots, try and get to know her, you can make her to have all those quality you need in a woman, brush her up to ya teste man, then come back and tell us how many goals you score ollins: |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Chigold101(m): 11:03am On Jul 07, 2020 |
veave:I actually had to quote you because I am replying to your advice to the guy. Talking of murder, who told you that the lady won't murder the guy if he leaves her now after making her a mother, she probably didn't plan for? What mess is more than a guy getting a woman involuntary pregnant? As much as I understood in this post, the woman is not the problem, the guy is. He should stop looking at other side thinking it's greener and build his home. That's the simplest thing for him to do. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by do4luv14(m): 11:05am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Hahahahahaha sister you badt gannn,,, seriously its sometin about the gal, that give him a strong pile, to drill the hole, after him don see oyel finish, e no wan refine am bukatyne: |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by dahoney1(m): 11:23am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Bro it is not that you don't love her. the problem is, she didn't meet up to your spec. I will advise you to accept her the way she is. then the love will come. if not you can never lover her. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Goldp5988(f): 11:24am On Jul 07, 2020 |
U die there, till death separate you. And you are now a Dad, that should make you know her and try to make things work. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Abdool9222(m): 11:25am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Bro let me tell no one is perfect,their surely b something in her dat u like build on dat.u can change her to ur own taste.but d secret is that their is someone else u love and adore try and forget d girl and move one.remember ur daughter too deserves happiness in her marriage so make someone's daughter happy |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Dextre(m): 11:55am On Jul 07, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Nah we don't have sex with who we love...we make love it's different But he should get the Bleep out this one,marriage nor be by force,nothing should bait one into marriage in 2020. They shouldn't raise a kid in a home where no love exist |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by smallboy2000(m): 12:02pm On Jul 07, 2020 |
donbachi: abi |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Testimony1988(m): 12:05pm On Jul 07, 2020 |
You failed to zip up, if not you would have taken your time to pray for the right one, |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by adegeye38(m): 12:08pm On Jul 07, 2020 |
ollins:God is Love, Love is God, anyone that does not know God, cannot truly Love. Give your life to Christ and then Love her, the way God commanded you to Love her |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by adegeye38(m): 12:10pm On Jul 07, 2020 |
ollins:God is Love, Love is God, anyone that does not know God, cannot truly Love. Give your life to Christ and then Love her, the way God commanded you to Love her and your marriage will turn around, even though the foundation of your marriage was faulty, God can show you mercy and help set the solitary in your home, but first, give your life to Christ |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by donMIG(m): 12:11pm On Jul 07, 2020 |
If u spread her legs u beta learn to love her n live wit her Man no b we go put asunder! |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Auxtan(m): 12:44pm On Jul 07, 2020 |
Ningen:Mr man in as much you made sense you have to realize divorce doesn't usually go down well for the divorced wives. You think a once married woman to marry again is that easy? C'mon man that's peak selfishness! OP knows his only probs is on the lack of education/exposure characters exhibited by the wife but he won't tell us, he supposedly thought she'd fix up. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Ayt27(m): 1:19pm On Jul 07, 2020 |
donbachi: I love this comment |
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