Goldenrod1:
Na only 3 of them remain for this country


Hold her firm

i dey tell you! na this kind of relationship dem dey call "he who finds a wife finds a good thing" unlike others blood sucking pussies around the world now

this guy get long and your case be like person wey no get problem but dey use hin hand cause or bring problem for herself

Walahi if i get girlfriend wey dey tell say say make we no spend pass 50k for wedding sef i go dey dance all through that year ni

your girl is the opposite of What Naija girls are known for and i'm happy for you man. just move with the flow.

Humanoid01:
Which kind wahala be this? The only thing I have to say is you have created an avenue for ladies on this forum to bash men.

Swissheart:
My question is how come you were 27years on 04th July and you are 29years today? How are you growing?

I really wonder why people lie with mere stories for anonymous folks to read. Worse still, he registered seven years ago. One will think he has commonsense.

She's now a shareholder in your life. Just make sure you treat her fairly]

Wow.... guy you are very very lucky... please hold her very tight and don't let go.

After your wedding, you can take her to Ghana and spend about 3 days or so... there is no gift you give her that is enough or can equate to the love and commitment she is showing you... you just have to display enough affection towards, that's all women need.

All the best

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

She is the last of her kind
Hold her firm

Girls like this are rear to find bro. Hold her dearly and show her love for all her support, prayers, advice etc. Good luck

Are you really matured for marriage?
You are just creating a problem where there's none.

My advise is this. Give the N500k to your lady and let her handle the wedding expenses, since you don't know anything about financial management. You will be shocked that there will be left over (change) after the wedding.

Also make sure she becomes your financial manager after your wedding. Don't get involved with any business or any financial commitments without her consent. She sees ahead and know more than you know.

Confirm Stupidity

nice one ,but pls comma gimme the girl

Mumu post, if the babe ask for big wedding ceremony problem, now she is asked for low key wedding wahala.


Na wa ooooo

Goldenrod1:
Na only 3 of them remain for this country


Hold her firm

Hahahaha laugh wan kill my enemies truth truth remaining two since the guy don collect one nor like my stupid girlfriend

Ninobraw:


Even if she cheat on me I am not ready to break up

Just negodu! You are not doing well!!!

You better wipe this comment before she reads it and while at it, please change this mindset that is almost characterized by low self esteem.

Marriage is not the same as boyfriend/girlfriend relationship as you will soon come to find out. You have a wonderful woman no doubt and I hope you treat her right after marriage but you must both maintain and continue to hold each other to high standards.

Wish you all the best.

Rare for a 24 year old lady to be that financially buoyant, and helpful, you guys should come together and plan it well, and see how to cut off some unnecessary expenses, but remember this is post COVID 19 Era, things are usually expensive. Once you guys draft your plans together, you would see if there's a need to up the budgeted amount or even reduce. Marriage na just one day, the journey is a lifetime, no need to impress anyone, you both should plan on what pleases you two most importantly

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

As an event planner, let me plan you a 3m wedding please.
I really do like customers like you.

Runs?

phyya:
I don't know why I don't think this story is true sha. You guys have been dating for three years. She was 21 the time she met you and she just gave you 2million naira? What was she into then abeg?

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Ninobraw:
if you check properly you will see that I open this account more than 5 years ago so I might not take the date of a thing serious

[/s]You guys just wake up from your slumber and create silly threads for traffic.

Crap.

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.

She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.

So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.

There is nothing you can do for her to equate what she has done for you, just try as much as grace enable you to love and cherish her, make her happy as much as you can. But don't try to make her happy against her wish. I think when it comes to spending, try as much as possible to listen to her provided her advise or view does not deprive you of reasonable love for your family members or any other person.
She is a homely kind of girl, use the excess money to complete the building, that building is more important to her than extravagant spending on the wedding. Furniture the house to a great taste and she will be happy to call it her home

Oluromantic:
Get her a van or car she can be using to buy her goods or medicines

Get her a van and she will appreciate it so much....

This one enter.
Which movie is this that a 24yr old is kind and mature like this

Swissheart:
My question is how come you were 27years on 04th July and you are 29years today? How are you growing?

Madam, madam.........

BiggyB242:


I dey tell you, this guy don hold one already remaining 2. God direct me make I see the next one.

One of them is in prison for life. The other one is physically challenged

maiyee:
fake story obviously, she was 21years when she gave you 2million naira?

I'm curious even if she started University at 15years it takes 5years(at least) to complete nursing school plus NYSC 1year, so technically she started working at 22years, how come? She gave you 2mill at 21 years?

Oh! "Her parents are very rich" you forgot to add that lie

You don’t get the joke. The Op is as fake as his concocted story. Go through his mentions and posts. He posted a story on 4th July claiming to be 27 years old and now 29 years? Op must be eating fertilizer.

You sure say you dy 29 so?

i think you should not agree with her for a man of your status you should be thinking of 2.5M for your dreaming weding

It's obvious she is wiser than you, I know u want to impress her, but know what will mk her Happy n do it.
She is very futuristic n sensible

I am finding it hard to believe this post.
A 24yrs old has 2m from nursing job?
And money to open a chemist shop too?

My question is at what age did she finished secondary school?
How many yrs did she do study nursing or learn nursing?
How much are auxiliary nurses paid in the hospital?cos I believe she didn't study nursing in the university
So many questions to ask on this. Please let's learn to post reality mbok

Na me to get the last one.. Her kind of lady isn't available anymore..

This guy is a Martian, they don't think before they act. Gerrroooooouuuut of here!!!

Fake Story!

She was 21 when she met you and a nurse yet gave you N2m she was saving before meeting you.

How much is the salary of a nurse? How long has she been working to save N2 million?

Secondly, you claim to be 29 in your thread, yet you claimed to be 27 years on July 4th, SERIOUSLY?

Thirdly, your story sounds too fictional! Your previous thread only shows you are a troll.

If I jam this kind of babe..... We are getting married straight!!!!