Lol .. She was expecting ticket to go to Dubai
She just receive the one that will send her out of the house.

Any child that calls a man, Daddy of Father is his. DNA or no DNA.
In Igbo culture even if the woman was pregnant for another man and the other pays the bride price. When the child is born, he or she belongs to him that paid the bride price.

I read some comments about switching and I am shocked that seemingly educated people can reason like that...a baby that still has the DNA of the mother but not the father is swapped? shey una dey alright sha. .

this life no balance.

Women are scum aje

explosiveskull:

Am just talking in relative to the fact that a child I've invested such love on for 3 years I can't let go or halt, so I'll seek any avenue to make sure she dosen't feel any shortchanges in her upbringing despite her mother's ineptitude.

I am also not against taking care of the innocent child. I have a soft spot for kids myself and I know how hurt the man would feel to let go of his "child" after 3 years of bonding.

The bone of contention here is taking the woman back. It is morally wrong and dangerous for the man to just take her back like that. She might take him for a fool and keep up with the lifestyle and could eventually jeopardise the man's life. But then again, I am not against forgiveness... I feel bad for the guy.

Beverlyjean:
Look at her washing plates in america ...but here some of my friends will say men should b doing dishes ...I will cook wash and do the dishes for my husband... if u wanna destroy ur marriage, ur luck

Tell them...

Paternity fraud should be criminalized.

Any woman who tricks a man into raising another man's child should be jailed.

I really felt for the lady.

J111333:
Lord have mercy.
Inasmuch as a lot of women cheat in marriages just like men too, a good percentage of the blame should also go to the nurses that swap babies by mistake or for monetary gains.

You must have given birth in a jungle for the nurse to have swapped your baby

PrinceMajestic:
I hate to see news of this happening to men, a man ignorantly investing on a bastard child and a hoe wife. Pls let FG declare nation wide DNA tests for Nigerian children and compulsory DNA tests 24hours after birth. These our dirty women are too heartless and all caution to keep safe from them will be appreciated, how are you all even sure your dad is your father? For me I'm the only twin prince among dozens errbody knows! Y'all better check the authenticity of your parents

Conduct DNA test at your own peril. Instead of the man to safe his heart and avoid needless enquiry, he just take a step that might haunt him for life. When the little secret is with the woman only, or kept away from both, they have family and children but now that it's open, he lost a daughter a wife and then a family.

What about the man that got her pregnant? No one is putting the blame on men for chasing, wooing and promising heaven to everything in skirt whether married, single, old or young.

Kemimarch16:
Some women have mind to do something like this o is it that they don't have conscience or what

98% of women are the same, so stop the conscience talk

Ginaz:
A friend slept with a girl he saw and liked , two months later she came with a pregnancy story . He denied strongly the pregnancy was his , which made the girl’s family to arrest him at his place of work , humiliated him greatly in presence of his workers.

He hated the child so much that he never visited to see the baby . But sent money for upkeeps, as for the girl , the hatred he has for her is second to none . His family is the peaceful type so they took the child as a member of the family and sometimes send token to the girl .

My friend went to do a dna test last month , only to find out the baby isn’t his .

Imagine all the trauma he went through . He cried so much cos he knew he wasn’t responsible for the pregnancy.

True story 100%.

Chai

paulolee:
so he found out earlier and waited for hee birthday to surprise
her with such an "amazing birthday gift" and the shameless
and wicked woman is still giving stupid excuses..
the nice man still went ahead and gave her till monthend to leave his house
he is a real man but i think he behaved soo calm maybe because of the kinda environment are in..
if its my country, na village she for take celebrate that her
birthday..
the man seems to be the cool type and i wish to be like him
when i grow up, his only mistake was making a hoe his wife
and he learned the hard waY....

No be her birthday Bros. She say it's "not even my birthday

explosiveskull:
To me that man should adopt the girl. It is not her fault and shouldn't suffer for the stupidity of her mother, infact, it it is me, I'll marry that lady well and forgive her cos of the small child cos there is no way that for three years, you'll tell me you've not invested some love on the little innocent angelic girl.

Weak men everywhere!

The man in the video did the proper thing. You should learn from him before it's too late

enedoboy:

He pretended as if he got her a valentines day gift, of which he had kept the details on the DNA result in the gift.

98% of una fit do am

This man na correct bad guy.

He deserves a mention in the Guinness World Record.

loneprof:


You say that because you haven't experienced that level of betrayal on a personal level. Adopting a child is one thing, marrying an unfaithful and untrustworthy woman is another. There's no guarantee that she's not a constant and consistent cheat. There's no guarantee that she won't do worse... In fact, a woman like that could end up killing the man.

To me, that is the worst thing a woman can do to a man in a relationship. Giving another man's pregnancy to your fiance and you want him to accept just like that... I hear o.

Kindly ignore that weak explosive skull

J111333:
Lord have mercy.
Inasmuch as a lot of women cheat in marriages just like men too, a good percentage of the blame should also go to the nurses that swap babies by mistake or for monetary gains.

Stop trying to give excuse for this. Cases of nurses snapping babies is lilliputian.
If you know What my eyes have seen and what my ears have heard, you will be in awe and shock.
Have you seen where a woman had 3 children but her husband is not the biological father. Can you say all the 3babies were swapped.

legionISproteus:
Weak men everywhere!

The man in the video did the proper thing. You should learn from him before it's too late

Idiot everywhere

kokaneprodigy:
no one noticed she never apologised or took responsibility, instead initiated emotional blackmail.

Men are scum indeed.

na this type go born 4 children from different men, and cry for explosiveskull, he will then proceed to adopt the children while she goes on to get a fifth child. After the sixth child, she may pity him and allow him use the seventh slot for his own child.

philip0906:

Craze man

Stupid man

Mo3891:


Ok

Let's weigh this like a sensible human

What she did vs what he did

*She cheated on him
*Made him work hard to pay for her and another man's child
*Decieved him everyday of the relationship

*****

*He made a video showing he isn't a father to the child the woman he loves , spend his painfully gotten money on

its better you do not judge this story until you hear from both sides and be convinced to make a proper judgement. if you see up there i did not even condemn the woman. my issue is why this kind of video has to be up there in the internet. this is a lifetime tarnishing piece either she has a better story to tell to make you change the opinion you already have of her or not. e be like say una never learn from the naija boy wey kill himself because social media already killed him. As for me, i wont judge this case until i hear from te other end..

positivevibez:
What if a rogue nurse switched that baby at birth

thats a point

Dat guy is a true Nigga

Exmilitant:
What about the man that got her pregnant? No one is putting the blame on men for chasing, wooing and promising heaven to everything in skirt whether married, single, old or young.

Why are saying this as if women don't also chase after d1cks.

alfredilly:


Conduct DNA test at your own peril. Instead of the man to safe his heart and avoid needless enquiry, he just take a step that might haunt him for life. When the little secret is with the woman only, or kept away from both, they have family and children but now that it's open, he lost a daughter a wife and then a family.

What if the real father of the child comes later in future to claim the child? Its better he did the DNA test now.
Its the man and daughter i feel so sorry for. I can't easily let go of a child I've trained and groomed as my own for 3years, even if i found out the child is not mine.

It's not an easy decision to make but the man doesn't have a choice. The wife is plain evil

Elder0001:


How does this correspond with the topic of the thread?

BTW, so cooking and washing dishes is what makes a marriage stronger? Please receive sense.

Calm down, many of us understand her point of view. She did well

That " but she loves you" got me pissed off. So she knew along yet, kept it secret.

Beverlyjean:
Look at her washing plates in america ...but here some of my friends will say men should b doing dishes ...I will cook wash and do the dishes for my husband... if u wanna destroy ur marriage, ur luck

Omo ogbon
You're the real thang