Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by ashawopikin(m): 6:09am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Auladimeji: The relationship I'm in now,my mind no dey the relationship, na sex be my own,when I'm done,I'll dispatch her bro dispatch her quick make she no hook you o |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by citizen202(m): 6:10am On Nov 11, 2020 |
The day she told me she had this friend abroad who sponsored her through school....I can't be a backup boyfriend joor.. |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by galantjoe(m): 6:12am On Nov 11, 2020 |
My current relationship died the day, she said she will be charging me money for having sexxxx with her. I gave her a space for a week. She called and asked if there was a problem, I said NO. she came over to my home for all night free pussssy. I am into the relationship because of free sexxxxx, the day she go demand money I will vamouse 7 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by PHOTSEE(m): 6:15am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino: This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.
I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.
Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.
It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. Let her be the one calling you. encourage it by give her little token in call card and save your self these stress. 3 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by ashawopikin(m): 6:16am On Nov 11, 2020 |
omooba969:
So you expect him to fight his family ehn...WOMEN! that na excuse, maybe him don chop her tire |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by frenzydilz(m): 6:16am On Nov 11, 2020 |
We weren’t sexually compatible. And she’s the first in her house with 8 siblings. Her dad is 62 and the last guy is just 2 years. Was looking forward to marry her, but nah 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by stubbornman(m): 6:17am On Nov 11, 2020 |
chyzoo4u:
She actually called it off before you mahn ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Obviously Bro....she wanted to eat her cake and have it.... I just got through with Nysc and got a contract Job that wasn't paying too much but was okay at least, babe was rushing me with her needs and etc. Comparing me with her friend's boyfriends that were into crypto currency (Yahoo ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) ) ..... Her demands were choking and when she felt I couldn't meet up one way or the other, she found someone and made that statement. You wanted me to stay and be friends with her atleast but I told her this is a breakup and a beef inclusive.... She has broken up with Prince charming and begged me to forgive her, which I did but will never go back to my vomit. 13 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by stubbornman(m): 6:17am On Nov 11, 2020 |
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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by NACE13: 6:25am On Nov 11, 2020 |
We were having dinner when I asked her if she'd be cool if I went into yahoo yahoo (internet fraud), and she said as long as it doesn't involve blood, she's cool with it. I lost my appetite that night. We were doing more of quarreling than making love or goofing around. Every visit or phone call ends with arguments
The day she started withholding sex; This is someone who didn't care how tired I was, she'd always mount me every damn morning. Even begged me for sex when I was having mild malaria. Thank God I still had a FWB in the neighbouring state to help my situation. She has this ugly character - because she's got this killer figure with a pretty face. So many guys were literally at her feet begging for a chance. She was shocked the day I told her I'm over and out.
Another chick said she'd kill me if she caught me cheating on her. It was funny for like 20 seconds. I ended it when I called her one day after I travelled to another state, I immediately called her when I arrived, and this was like few minutes past 9pm. Babe told me she was tired while I was talking and hung up. I called her back scolded her like a little kid, while she was apologizing I hung up. She called back like 3 more times, I didn't pick. The following days, she blasted my phone with calls but I refused to pick. She got the message and stopped. That was how the relationship died. Till date, we haven't spoken.
Another chick or should I say bimbo I dated was a BS relationship. It started and ended with nothing but sex (I enjoyed it to the last, I gotta admit). We can't have a meaningful conversation without sex involved. She once posted in her WhatsApp status "No money for me, no sex for you". It ended when I visited her, was going through her when I saw a message where her ex told her he missed the sex, her reply was " hmmm". The following replies from her felt like it was gonna happen, and she's a sex freak too, so yeah. 8 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Goalnaldo(m): 6:25am On Nov 11, 2020 |
gowonmaharajah:
Mr goalnaldo why una dey curse yourself just bcz you wan woo a lady?not worth it na human being she be na.no be mammy water ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) No be lie Sha. Na because he sure me die I can never cheat. I will make sure I don't do such again going forward. Thanks bro. 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by folake4u(f): 6:31am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Auladimeji: The relationship I'm in now,my mind no dey the relationship, na sex be my own,when I'm done,I'll dispatch her Hmmm ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) |
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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 6:35am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino:
This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.
I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.
Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.
It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.
I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.
So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.
Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.
I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.
I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.
I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.
Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.
I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.
As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.
Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.
So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.
You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.
She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.
Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.
Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.
Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.
This is exactly how my story went too.... called it a stop yesterday.... she get mad at every little thing and hang up at the slightest argument.... I’m sick and tired of that shii 5 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by warlord24(m): 6:42am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino:
This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.
I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.
Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.
It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.
I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.
So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.
Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.
I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.
I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.
I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.
Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.
I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.
As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.
Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.
So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.
You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.
She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.
Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.
Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.
Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.
You need serious flog for dating such a girl.. like me want to flog hell comot your body.. u well so? Na by force.. oya let me hit you.. Bro, you are not the freaking main BF... 11 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Kehinde2017: 6:45am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino:
This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.
I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.
Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.
It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.
I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.
So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.
Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.
I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.
I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.
I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.
Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.
I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.
As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.
Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.
So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.
You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.
She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.
Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.
Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.
Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.
Guy, how could you read my mind? Exactly the same scenario and even more of that happened to me. No rest of mind, just trouble, trouble and problems all of the time. It was always about me showing the love and not receiving it back. I guess it's because she's a girl from the hood. Most of them are dumb and can't handle a mature conversation. 7 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by teddyK(m): 6:48am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Where for Edo State you dey? folake4u:
Hmmm ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by rubyjan(f): 6:57am On Nov 11, 2020 |
luminouz:
Ehya. I get.
Take care aiit?
Guys here are drooling over you already.
You dey Reign ooooo!! ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) Yes so, as per US things. She better start preparing visa for 100 guys on nairaland ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Lucyspa: 7:01am On Nov 11, 2020 |
He was too stingy. I asked for something the third time, he refused and the manner with which he refuses my request was appalling. Meanwhile, i met a new guy that was giving me things and doing what my bf refused to do. I broke up with him and honestly, he was not expecting it. I was so pained that i wanted to tell him that his sex game is wack but my friend told me not to. 5 seconds man. No jokes. 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Starhearts: 7:02am On Nov 11, 2020 |
slawormiir: Damnnn niggarrrr Isoright...we real niggarr ain't got no story concerning this topic because we real niggarrs don't do relationships. We just see women as swimming pool..our own na to swim shaperly and move on
We don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used We don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before we started swimming We don't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after we are done swimming our own And we don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with us as we are swimming We just swim our own sharpely and move on. Real niggarrrz bang pussy and move on. Who dey supply u weed 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Expert17: 7:07am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Lucyspa: He was too stingy. I asked for something the third time, he refused and the manner with which he refuses my request was appalling. Meanwhile, i met a new guy that was giving me things and doing what my bf refused to do. I broke up with him and honestly, he was not expecting it. I was so pained that i wanted to tell him that his sex game is wack but my friend told me not to. 5 seconds man. No jokes. Always asking for something, go get a job.. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Ginaz(f): 7:12am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Lucyspa: He was too stingy. I asked for something the third time, he refused and the manner with which he refuses my request was appalling. Meanwhile, i met a new guy that was giving me things and doing what my bf refused to do. I broke up with him and honestly, he was not expecting it. I was so pained that i wanted to tell him that his sex game is wack but my friend told me not to. 5 seconds man. No jokes. Lol sis. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by ashawopikin(m): 7:14am On Nov 11, 2020 |
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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by Ezi1993(f): 7:16am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino:
This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.
I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.
Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.
It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.
I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.
So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.
Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.
I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.
I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.
I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.
Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.
I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.
As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.
Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.
So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.
You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.
She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.
Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.
Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.
Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.
If she's a very good person,,why then did u put up all this complain about her ![](/faces/huh.png) ? 6 Likes |
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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by chib4true(m): 7:21am On Nov 11, 2020 |
SkyRicks:
Frankly speaking ladies are funny, you offer you sch boy sex but you man you want to keep till marriage.... And you think in your reasoning you can play a man.. unless his the anger type and a taker For her mind nah she's making a point to the husband to be. She's not an easy catch 1 Like |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by shantti(m): 7:24am On Nov 11, 2020 |
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Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by mariahAngel(f): 7:24am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino:
This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.
I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.
Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.
It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.
I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.
So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.
Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.
I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.
I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.
I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.
Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.
I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.
As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.
Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.
So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.
You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.
She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.
Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.
Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.
Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.
You have been emotionally manipulated and drained!!! Stop making excuses and leave before you make the biggest mistake of your life. 9 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by tegafej(m): 7:30am On Nov 11, 2020 |
The day she made subtle comments of insults at my mom.
I knew we was done. 2 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by jikins(m): 7:32am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino:
This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.
I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.
Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.
It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.
I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.
So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.
Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.
I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.
I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.
I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.
Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.
I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.
As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.
Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.
So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.
You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.
She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.
Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.
Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.
Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.
This is emotional torture bro. Let her go you deserve better. Girls plenty outside don't die on her matter. Free am so you can free ya self. 8 Likes |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by faithfull18(f): 7:34am On Nov 11, 2020 |
When it was over ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by SmellingAnus(m): 7:35am On Nov 11, 2020 |
Rockyfancino:
This girl is like a NEPA switch. She's selfish and doesn't reason with ration. Can you imagine, you will be talking to someone and she will be happy, the next minute you call her, she's her mood has become low and it now looks as if you're forcing her.
I would call her for at least 30 mins trying to cheer her up and I will be met with disdain. If small thing should happen, her mood will just change, no joke can take it out.... The next day, she's still like that.
Sometimes, she'll reply me like I'm her worst enemy. To make it worse, she'll say she has nothing to say after I might have talked and talked.
It sounds like nothing, but this has been going on for a very long time, as if someone is forcing her in the relationship. To make it worse, she'll sometimes act like she's madly in love.
I keep telling her mood is like weather and she should please try and just reduce it. I later stopped calling her like before because, I don't know they what mood I'll meet if I called.
So many times, I'll talk to her for like one hour about the things she's doing that's bad. I keep telling her the same thing for a very long time now, thinking communication is key.
Something happened yesternight, she ended the call. I called her back trying to tease her back into the mood. For like 30 seconds, I was doing hello, hello, I almost thought it was the network when I was about hanging up she said she can hear me.... Okay, fine. She later then told me there's nothing to say again... Damn, she keeps saying this many times and it has started to make my head spark.
I was angry all through yesterday for personal reasons, but people can never know because I don't show it and I talk normally. Despite my state yesterday, I kept my cool after she said there's nothing to say and just told her good night but I was angry deep down.
I called her this morning (yesterday morning, it's 1:16AM currently), she didn't pick. But I didn't call a second time, because my head was just ringing 'I have nothing to say.' I don't want to be a fool again to call her and I'll be taking to empty space. So I lefty phone in my room and stayed in the sitting room all day and she already left 2 missed later.
I came back this night, called her severally and it was just doing busy. I messaged her online (luckily she was online) about the matter and immediately I tried again and it went through. Thinking now, it may be that she blocked me.
Anyways in short, she was mute at first again when she picked. Later the matter escalated and she was saying that I didn't call back. I was trying to explain why I didn't call but she was not listening... I later waited till she calmed down.
I was telling her I didn't call because I didn't want embarrassment whereby I'll be talking to her and she'll just be mute as if I'm talking to the wind. I told her I knew not calling her was wrong but she didn't listen, I told her this about 4 times.
As she was later calm, I saw it as an opportunity to explain to her that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I was telling her that I don't do 1/3 of what she does and I don't often turn things against her. In the beginning of the relationship, she used to be unhappy and complain a lot when the chance comes of how I don't listen or pay attention to her I'm summary.
Now, she's got attention and she acts so bad sometimes that I wonder if any man will actually stand that. She's done so many terrible things that I cannot even mention it here but I am a forgiving type.
So, this night will I was later telling her everything about herself again that is not good for us, I talked for over 1 hour and I actually thought maybe for the first time I was really getting to her. I was even happy that maybe she'll realize that she herself cannot stand what she does to me if it's done back to her in return. I also told her that I should have called her earlier in the day.
You won't believe this girl made me realize I was wasting my saliva and she just kept quiet on purpose, and that the only thing I was doing was turning the matter on her head, and that she was going to sleep. I couldn't believe my life at first, it really pained me deeply. She was even even telling me how I can keep on blabbing if I want. I told her to get out of my phone and I hung up. I didn't even know I could become so angry and hang up a phone on someone, it just happened spontaneously. Immediately, she blocked me on WhatsApp... She had even been saying it during the course of her ranting that she'll block me.
She used to say, she's stubborn and stuff. The funny thing is she'd say that's the way she is and I should accept her that way.
Like, she can't take what she's doing to me if it's served back to her. And how she doesn't even feel guilty of what she does is what baffles me.
Very selfish human being. Another annoying thing is her Motigbo and Ok when she's chatting. This girl will say anything she likes (not that she uses insultive words tho) and I'll just keep my cool and let it slide, I will even call her the next day.
Damn... I didn't know I can be this patient in my life. Although, I guess the reason I stayed this long in it is because she's a really good person who I believe if she can just eliminate that aspect of her, she'd be very okay.
I use 2 be a fool like you... 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Did You Decide That The Relationship Was Over? by friendl: 7:38am On Nov 11, 2020 |
They no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall 1 Like |