I had this insight to remove my family from the public.
I know God can fix us.

What's your old moniker?

The person below me have said it all.

Can't you collect money from that man that is showering you with gifts and give to your husband to rent a house and kick-start his business if your claim you truly love him

This life aint nollywood... his suffering today does not guarantee a good life tomorrow...
So your parents aint wrong for wanting something better for you...

But, you are in a better position to judge his potentials..
If you think he has great potentials, then by all means, stick with him..

Also work on yourself ma'am, nothing is stopping you from being a provider to your child..

You dont always have to depend on men...this is the 21st century..

I hope your husband appreciates and knows he married a good woman.

Some women will not even wait for anybody to tell them to end the marriage, they will start keeping sugar daddy immediately financial problems start.

The second guy above me has a valid point. I will still buttress on his last paragraph...

Don't depend on men for survival....work on yourself. Good luck

There are people out there without any plans for tomorrow's feeding, your house rent challenge is of little importance when compared.. What's the worst that can happen? You leave your husband, affecting you and your child psychologically and regretting it later.. And with the amount of fraud going on around the country, who's to say your write up is even legit?.

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Is this another format or what?

Omihanifa:
Can't you collect money from that man that is showering you with gifts and give to your husband to rent a house and kick-start his business if your claim you truly love him

bukatyne:

What is it

And you'll tell me there's something like real love

Omihanifa:
Can't you collect money from that man that is showering you with gifts and give to your husband to rent a house and kick-start his business if your claim you truly love him

I am not traditional but where I'm from, this is capable of killing the child and the man in the end. It is a very bad counsel.

see format see as he she package d fm

Foodqueen:
Is this another format or what?

it is

It is not difficult to weave a story....a new format.

Umu nwanyi

Story has many red flags. Even a new user.

Stop looking for excuses to leave the man. Woman up and leave him. He'll be alright at last.

I do hope you won't leave this new man once financial problems come in.

The mere fact that you created this thread shows that you are hesitant about it, you are giving it serious thought. You are simply looking for one or two people here to nudge you on so that you'll jump ship and follow the new man.

Madam, you know what is right for you, do it!

The only lesson am learning here as a guy is that...

1) Nothing like true love, just make your money and women will come after you with all the love.

2) Before you marry, ensure you have a stable source of income that can stand the test of time.

Aunty I just want to ask you 3 Questions.
1, Since you married your husband has he been treating you well? like does he respect you?

2, Before all this hardship started was he providing well for you and your child?

3, Is your husband currently doing his best to get out of his present situation?

If yes is the answer to all these questions then I assure you if you leave that man you I'll regret it .
Remember not all that glitters re gold.
What if your new husband tomorrow he lose his job or anything and life becomes hard, will your parents also advice you to leave him? That's Gold digging.
Remember you promise your husband for better for worst. hv faith, have patience, pray for &With your husband. led your hands on his head and pray for him and you will see positive things will begin. to happen .
Tell your family though you love them, but you can't do such evil by leaving your husband on his hour of great need, even God won't be happy with you if you do.
Try also to find something doing so as to assist your husband
Don't leave him and God will see you guys through.
But if you still insist, I assure you'll regret it

pls, help us pay for an accommodation, so my family can stop humiliating him like they do now.
We have seen a self contain of 140k. Pls help.
Our location is Abuja.

Is this the new format?

Your family ko

Mehn! Forget it ! Nigerians are smart. Almost everyone on this thread knows that this story na format to cashout 140k

If Oyibo get the kind sense wey Nigerians get eh, Slawomiir and im boys for don learn carpentry by now

Op, damn you niggarr


To My business!!!! I'M STILL YOUR BEST PLUG FOR FAST PROCESSING OF UNN TRANSCRIPTS. OTHER SCHOOLS WILL BE READY SOON (UNIZIK IS NEARLY READY)

Foodqueen:
Is this another format or what?

na another format.... It all starts with emotions.

Missnewhrt:
our rent expired in Oct last yr and we couldn't renew it due to the fact that my husband's contract job came to an end early last yr, and throughout the pandemic, no salary for me. We managed throughout.

My parent offered to help. We moved to my family house,(me and my 6rs old son) my husband left after some days because he was not comfortable. He presently stays with a friend and sleeps in his shop.

Since I came back here, everyone have been advising me to push him away and chose a better man who can take care of me and my child became I'm young and beautiful and I can correct my mistake of marrying my husband

Someone is coming already and everyone love his packages with all the gifts he brings. My aunty already told him I'm having problem with my husband and we're divorcing. Which is not true.

The pressure is much here. I can't even pick his calls in peace any more without them pokenosing in our discussion, i sneak out to see him. They make me feel like i'm wasting my time on a poor guy and suffering with our child. I don't want to push my husband away, i dont want to bear children with multiple men, he has been so good to us, just that things are not working well right now, but I believed, staying together with him, we can go through it together

I love my parents as well, I know they meant good for me, but this decision is too hard for me.

Pls, help us pay for an accommodation, so my family can stop humiliating him like they do now.
We have seen a self contain of 140k. Pls help.
Our location is Abuja.

I know before the yr runs, we will get back on our feet and we will be able to meet up with subsequent rent. Pls help.

Collect 140k from your man friend. Scammer

Okay o

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I understand ur dilema & want to help. Do u have feelings for this new guy & does ur husband know about dis? Be sincere in ur answer let me see how i can help out

Missnewhrt:
our rent expired in Oct last yr and we couldn't renew it due to the fact that my husband's contract job came to an end early last yr, and throughout the pandemic, no salary for me. We managed throughout.

My parent offered to help. We moved to my family house,(me and my 6rs old son) my husband left after some days because he was not comfortable. He presently stays with a friend and sleeps in his shop.

Since I came back here, everyone have been advising me to push him away and chose a better man who can take care of me and my child became I'm young and beautiful and I can correct my mistake of marrying my husband

Someone is coming already and everyone love his packages with all the gifts he brings. My aunty already told him I'm having problem with my husband and we're divorcing. Which is not true.

The pressure is much here. I can't even pick his calls in peace any more without them pokenosing in our discussion, i sneak out to see him. They make me feel like i'm wasting my time on a poor guy and suffering with our child. I don't want to push my husband away, i dont want to bear children with multiple men, he has been so good to us, just that things are not working well right now, but I believed, staying together with him, we can go through it together

I love my parents as well, I know they meant good for me, but this decision is too hard for me.

Pls, help us pay for an accommodation, so my family can stop humiliating him like they do now.
We have seen a self contain of 140k. Pls help.
Our location is Abuja.

I know before the yr runs, we will get back on our feet and we will be able to meet up with subsequent rent. Pls help.

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Send me a DM please, there is no problem that doesn't have solution

Missnewhrt:
I don't have feelings for the new guy and my husband don't know anything about him. If he do, he will be so disappointed and broken.

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