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Does Distance Really Matter At All? by lutha: 5:50pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
It has once been said that if there is love and understanding between the lovers that distance does not matter, but have seen brake-ups caused as a result of distance even in a loving and understanding relationship. Kindly give your reasonable opinion please. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by Dsense(m): 6:36pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
OP. It doesn't matter . . .Seriousness matters. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by Godmother(f): 6:53pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
It depends on the people involved. Some people can have a distance relationship and do well, others cant. II personally cannot survive in such a relationship |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
NO! lutha: That's life o. Some people can handle it; some people can't. It depends on the couple's willpower. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by 190: 7:36pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
Yes does Distance really matter wen the dude is in the UK and the other is in the US ( at ogugua ) |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by BABE3: 7:38pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
It depends on the couple/individual; depends on how well they can handle it. But to me sha, it matters, and DISTANCE IS A B[i]1TCH[/i]! (sometimes ) |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by 190: 7:41pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
BABE!: Thank Gawd u said sometimes, There is still hope |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by BABE3: 7:44pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
I said "sometimes" because, distance is not a bitch when I don't want to see the person! Which hope? Abegy! |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by 190: 7:46pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
when there is hope, there is 190 wher ogugua!! my, **coughs** my, **coughs again** kai this cough sef |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
I dey o. Ke kwanu? 9ja and US. No UK and US lol. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by 190: 7:59pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
In your dreams, the location would change under ur nose soon, very soon |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
Lol why you dey vex? 9ja na the location sha. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by 190: 8:08pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
mscheww |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by MMM2(m): 8:38pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
yeah distance really matters, like when u re in heaven n ur soulmate is in hell fire. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by HighChief4(m): 9:31pm On Apr 28, 2011 |
With constant communication it makes it easier |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by Clemcoco: 5:03am On Apr 29, 2011 |
If both parties are "seriously" committed to making the relationship work, then distance will not really matter. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by Nekai(f): 5:18am On Apr 29, 2011 |
Distance is ok if you already have a firm foundation together before the separation. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by esteduca(m): 6:23am On Apr 29, 2011 |
I think exactly as Nekai. Unfortunately my experience with distance relation was nightmare. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by IcyIcy(f): 10:47am On Apr 29, 2011 |
lutha: It's a very tough question to answer if the relationship will work out, it really depends on the couple if they planned to work hard or give up easily. Yes! It's not as easy as anyone thinks, struggles with culture, time difference and the list goes on. Occasional arguments are unavoidable due to misunderstanding, communication breakdown, trust etc. I truly understand the difficulty and hardship as I am in a long distance relationship with a wonderful naija man for almost 11 months now. I can't deny we have ups and down or several times when things gets tough, I wanna quit. We would discuss about giving it up but somehow we cant and still managed to stay together. Hopefully things will work out when he move closer to my country so we can start seeing each other regularly. As to how the ending of distance relationship will be, nobody knows, but if we walk away now we might lose our soulmate without realising. At least we put in effort tried our best with no regrets. Some of the factors are; 1. Age 2. Time difference 3. Culture 4. Understanding 5. Tolerance 6. Communication 7. Individual Character 8. Sincerity 9. Honesty 10. Jealousy 11. Trust 12. Emotional 13. Patience 14. Fidelity 15. Effort |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by kemisuga(f): 11:12am On Apr 29, 2011 |
Icy Icy: U got it right, u talking from experience. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by IcyIcy(f): 1:38pm On Apr 29, 2011 |
kemisuga: Basically long distance does hinder but do close distance relationship work out all the time? No! So what if we are just 500 meters away, sees each other daily but neither party wants to work at it will the relationship flourish? It's still the human factor afterall to achieve success or fail. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by alagha: 2:57pm On Apr 29, 2011 |
distance has nothing to do with LOVE,however it does contribute to certain level of decision taking periods. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by sylve11: 3:40pm On Apr 29, 2011 |
one thing i hate about distance relationship is that the babe might just call u on phone to tell u she had with jonhson. with stammering voice at that . . . really annoying . Of all chicks i have come across distance isn't really favoring me. Staying in kaduna while she's in Warri, can be disastrous, if u know what i mean. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by Dukewawa(m): 9:54pm On Apr 29, 2011 |
Keeping a relationship alive across the miles is no easy task…….so I advise my people before taken any step into long distance relationship always make sure that your ready to face the consequences. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by andy1(m): 10:04pm On Apr 29, 2011 |
jst as BABE said distance is a B1TCH!! Can drive u mad cos u dnt get to see her feel her be intimate with her nd all. So i aint down 4 it. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by MissyB3(f): 10:52pm On Apr 29, 2011 |
Out of sight, in most cases, eventually becomes out of mind. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by Phate07(m): 12:01am On Apr 30, 2011 |
To some extent, it does matter. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by BloodShed1: 12:06am On Apr 30, 2011 |
Long distance relationships only work when you're banging other people. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by Orton10(m): 12:32am On Apr 30, 2011 |
Long Distance Relationship my foot. Phone calls, texts and letters just ain't ma thing. . . . .why clutch on a pillow when there are . . . . . .anysha each to own. Sorry! |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by kobikwelu(m): 8:13pm On Apr 30, 2011 |
at op IT MATTERS!! |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by llemisy(f): 10:24am On May 01, 2011 |
nt matter what matter is just undastanding nd trust,. |
Re: Does Distance Really Matter At All? by kobikwelu(m): 12:51pm On May 01, 2011 |
^^^^^ na today trust and faith are two different things, |
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