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Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Anuoluwa12345: I said this on the premise that his father is 76years old and probably has a weak heart (thus that's why the OP is skeptical about telling him directly)... Read the thread again, the OP hinted on the above Now the question I asked the OP is thus: If you were a 76year old man with a weak heart, would you want to be told that the child you've spent your resources growing is not your child?? I hope you understand the premise now? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by geezynoni: 3:25pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
FreeSpirited:Ayiii |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Sunday2021: 3:27pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:it is better dead that training a child who you thought is your child , that is actually not yours. The truth will not kill him, the truth will only set him free. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by shedy03(m): 3:33pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:Who u wanna hurt? Ur mama, dada, or bros? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by simhosting: 3:35pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Your dads might have known this for decades. But decided to keep it away frequently you. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Chigold101(m): 3:38pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
AreaFada2:Ị nụ kwa Who is talking about paternity test here. Some of these men know things but for Peace to reign, they overlook. Them some, because they are guilty they overlook also. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by jacoik(m): 3:39pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
FreeSpirited:lolxxxxx hahahaha I swear guy, wickedness has no other name than your name. U say what the DNA test comes out he isn't also the man son? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by murmee: 3:42pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:Good and appreciative Children with quality sense. Kudos to them! |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Oyerinde16(m): 3:43pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
There is a high chance your father already know and kept it a deep secret, He will hate you for going this far to get the secret and spilling it... watch your back and only reveal it if kasala wan burst... allow sleeping dogs to sleep |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by murmee: 3:47pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:How sure is this so called friend? Did he conduct a DNA or is the friend the actual father of the son in question? Questions! |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Ashirioluwa: 3:47pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:There is one thing that is going on around the world now…… it is called “MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS” I don’t know why you put another man’s problem on your head. Leave your dad and the poor boy alone. Since you are now Medical/DNA expert I will advise you to find out if you are truly your dad’s son before you expose both your stepmom and your mom. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Nijaghana: 3:51pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
If u decide not to tell ur father before he pass away, what impart do you think the news will have in your heart everytime you see him, your conscious will never be at rest oo. Your father meant not know anything concerning the paternity of the child, I will ask you some questions How old is the said boy Is your father and step mum still together how your very related to the boy Brother you are trying to release a time bomb and you know what a time bomb can do. First I will tell u, your father friend that break the news to you and advice u to tell your father might be the biological father to that boy and he want his son back. Secondly before you tell your father make a diligent investigation to be very sure because ehhh. I will give u some advice if u will take it Don't worry yourself concerning the issue, go back to your father friend with a recorded device and begin to question him with wisdom concerning the issue of the boy because before e said it, he might know everything and record all your conversation. Secondly, if u can discussed it with the boy with the recorded evidence then you and him will come to a conclusion and let the boy throw the bomb first to the mother and the party involved will start fighting themselve, so u will not be the one that throw the bomb. Listen your father will not die,it is better for u to say it bfore his death so everybody will know his position. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by murmee: 3:53pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
obinoral1179:Then let them go to your dad by themselves and break the news. Don't risk your life! |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by danot1030: 3:53pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Tell him to carry out the second option and if he is adamant then spill the bin showing him the evidence. What I hate most in it all is that the mother will be tormenting the legitimate children with the illegitimate knowing well that she brought him from another man o. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by promiseland245(m): 3:54pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
TELL YOUR FATHER. HE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO KNOW. YOU ARE THE FIRST SON AND THAT'SYOUR RESPONSIBILITY. YOU KNOW YOUR FATHER AND BY NOW, YOU SHOULD KNOW THE SUBTLE WAY TO TELL HIM SUCH NEWS AND HE WOULD DIGEST IT MILDLY. IF YOU DO NOT TELL HIM, YOU WOULD FOREVER CARRY THE CROSS ON YOUR SHOULDERS AND BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY IT'S GOING TO BE HEAVIER THAN YOU THINK WHEN SUCH INFORMATION FOREVER STAYS BEHIND YOUR LIPS. Footnote: In all these, where is your mum? (Every letter was written in capital letter so you know how serious I am). Juliusmomoh: |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by rolams(m): 3:55pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Mr Man, it's very important you conduct the DNA test now. Your Dad is old enough to handle pressure. He has seen a lot in this life. You may not be able to handle this in future. People won't like to listen to this story when your Dad is gone because they will think you want to deprive the innocent boy his entitlement. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Henrypraise: 3:57pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: Telling your father might make him despise you even if you thought you did yourself and your sibling a favour, most especially he feels some connections to that your step bro or his mom... You should watch the movie "inception" then learn how to make someone do what you want them to do thinking they thought it oit themselves, that way, you don't come off as a bitter jealous brother... Hope you get the drift |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Gfh1: 3:58pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
How |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by grandstar(m): 3:59pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh I just lost my dad. My mum passed away in 2019. My mum was the first of three wives. I doubt my dad left a will. My mum had 4 of us, his second had 3, and the last had 4. Now,what if my dad or the family requested a DNA be done to ascertain the true blood children of my dad before anything is dished out? I doubt any of my full siblings would want it. The DNA would change nothing as we would still consider them our siblings should any not turn out to be his. I know I'll pass as I'm a carbon copy of my dad. Blood is thicker than water and love is the thickest of them all. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Tobianojoel(m): 4:06pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:Your so called brother may belong to your father's friend. It seems he wants his son back. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Zeezenho: 4:08pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Guyman no wan share property |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by grandstar(m): 4:11pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
FreeSpirited: Truth be told, you're correct. I watch this American paternity program, the Maury Show. There was this episode where a mixed race lady said her half sibling couldn't be her dad's as the man they called their dad is Puerto Rican (They are mixed race like Jennifer Lopez) while she was black. The dark skinned half sibling was distressed by this all and kept urging for understanding When the DNA test results were read, the dark-skinned daughter turned out not to be his biological daughter. The results also came out negative for the light skinned who was insisting the the dark-skinned daughter wasn't "her dad's".The dark-skinned was loving it And ehat did the dad do? He went to hug boyh of them,. He might have sensed long ago they weren't his and still loved them. Even if he knew for the first time that day, he was their father from the cradle up. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Tushmanny123: 4:11pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
My advice is, instead of telling your dad, Tell the bastard's mother instead with proof, then wait and see what happens but be careful with the women. If you tell your dad directly and it cast, people might think you are desperate to get rid of your step brother. Pls do this nd see how easy it will be. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by ibraheemlamar(m): 4:15pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Pity your mama and your brother |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Oxb90: if it turns out he is not his father's son, I doubt the paternity of. the half brother will be the matter at hand |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by henryobinna(m): 4:20pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Oblongata:At this point(assuming the news is true), the little guy is no longer his step-bro anymore. Just a stranger. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by frozen70(f): 4:21pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh: There are some certain things that are pure secrets, and problems that are hidden. They are best left the way they are to avoid heart attacks Who is that guy to you Do you have good relationships with him Are you sharing the same mother Do you have anything against him Or you just want to create a problem that you may not solve for the rest of your life Pls, leave your dad to do his home work and save yourself from being mentioned |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by berryPee(m): 4:22pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
is your mum still alive? If yes, please let her be the one to tell him so that the shock will not be devastating Juliusmomoh: |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by AreaFada2: 4:23pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Chigold101: Reverse psychology. Only a very foolish and guilty idiot man will do so. But as it is, let the father know. One cannot assume that he already knows. |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by Mydazz(m): 4:27pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
If there is nothing else at stake then let the your dad have his peace,...... you don't know what that news can do to the man,..... even his supposed family Maybe the question should be what will you gain from telling ? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by sandammy(m): 4:27pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
OP are you guys of same mother? |
Re: Should I Tell My Dad That My Step-brother Is Not His Son ? by macjireh: 4:28pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Juliusmomoh:how are u sure u are ur Father's son? |
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