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... by Nobody: 1:27pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
I'm depressed and tired of everything. And no it's nothing concerning finance. Every day I ask God 'Why was I born into this damned country?' He's yet to give me a response, and I don't think he ever will. The leaders here are so corrupt, the boys are criminally minded, the girls are overly materialistic. This country has no future. You come out of your house to take a stroll and the weather is so hot, the heat from the sun can literally fry your brain cells . What kind of life is this for goodness sake? Sometimes I just feel like it's better to be dead so I can live eternal life with my father in heaven–I mean isn't it better than being in this world witnessing evil things happening everyday in this cursed nation? I'm so tired of everything... I wish to leave this country some day and I'm working on it. Till then, I'll remain depressed, tired and confused. 3 Likes |
Re: ... by wis3(m): 1:32pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
you'll be alright. jus 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: ... by SweetBuns(f): 3:36pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Quit jerking off first See if your outlook on life’s many events change or not 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 3:46pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
SweetBuns:da fvck?! You think I'm some sexually frustrated dude or what? Some of you just come online and spill trash about someone you know nothing about. Quit being a complete idiot. I don't jerk off FYI, I have girls and if none are available I patronise online hook up girls. I'm just not happy with how things are in this shithole and by God's grace I'll leave here for airheads like you to enjoy 3 Likes |
Re: ... by Jesterinjay: 3:49pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
E get who never tire for this corntree ? 2 Likes |
Re: ... by Nobody: 4:25pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Descottes:Descortes is this you? |
Re: ... by Nobody: 4:31pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Hello Rose. I hope you are good |
Re: ... by 7victor(m): 4:32pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Try to create happiness for yourself. Trust me, no one on Earth really cares about anyone. No one cares about your happiness. If you want to be happy, try to arrange events which will make you happy. For example, you can create a time table with events which make you happy so that every time you wake up and remember what you will enjoy that day, it will ginger you and that will be the beginning of happiness for you that day. Let's look at the following time table: On Monday, you travel to a nearby local government where there are tourist sites, just to see the sites. On Tuesday, you go out and buy different types of cakes and drinks and enjoy or you buy full chicken/turkey and prepare it for enjoyment. Wednesday, you go and watch football. You watch your favorite team play. Thursday, you get to the nearest museum to see things. Friday, you watch an interesting movie. Saturday, you go to stadium for exercise or work out. Sunday evening, you go out to buy drinks and chill. I don't say you should follow this time table. What I am saying is that you should create a time table of things that interest you and follow the time table. You will surely start getting happy. You will start feeling fulfilled. Even if people around you are driving expensive cars and live in expensive houses, do not worry about them. To you, they don't exist. Behave as if you are the only one who exist because truly, you don't exist to other people. No one really cares that you are alive or dead. This is important because most people measure their happiness based on what they have as compared to what others have. They measure their happiness based on how others treat them or think about them. You have to stop measuring your happiness on a human being. It is not about going abroad because there are people in the USA and Europe who are rich but are depressed and sad. There are well to do white people who have committed suicide because of depression. They were not sick or poor, yet they killed themselve. Do not put your hope on human beings because no human being can give you happiness. No one even think about you this moment. The best someone can do is to say or do something that makes you sad. My people use to say that human beings are dark and evil. For example, someone is sad and went online to complain that he is sad. People came online and began abusing him, adding to his sadness. People are only waiting for opportunities to make you sad and depressed. That's why there's so much abuses and insult online and everywhere. When once you know that everyone is only out to make you sad, you will stop focusing on people, but will rather focus on making yourself happy. 7 Likes |
Re: ... by Konor: 5:04pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
I understand you bro. Nigeria is in absolute tatters . A country where anything goes. The worse part is that there seems to be no light at the end of the tunnel. Things are getting worse. |
Re: ... by 7victor(m): 5:50pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
7victor: Also you have to know that no one in this life is truly happy except he or she has something that is giving him or her happiness. That is why you must arrange things which make you happy and form it into time table. Some rich people are depressed and sad because they fail to use their riches to arrange good things that could make them happy. Also, if your depression gets chronic, you should see a counselor. 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 5:50pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
7victor:I appreciate your contribution |
Re: ... by 7victor(m): 5:53pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Descottes: Thank you Sir. 1 Like |
Re: ... by 7victor(m): 6:29pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Another thing you can do which I have tried and it gives me amazing happiness is to get intimate with nature. Anytime there is cold air, you should make sure you feel it on your body. Sometimes, we can be moving and the air is blowing on us but we don't feel it because our minds are fixed on something else. But from now on, try to feel it and tell yourself that you are enjoying air and you will start getting happy. Try to enjoy sunrise and sunset. Make sure you hear the cock crow very early in the morning. When it is about 2am in the night and everywhere is quiet, try to put your mind on the sound of the insects that characterizes the silence of the night. If possible, try to go outside your house and take in the beauty of the silence and darkness and make sure you feel the fresh air. You can just stay at your gate to observe. Try to behave like a child by asking questions about nature and about things. Try and observe small things which you have stopped observing since you became an adult. You can observe the different branches on a tree, the different colors on your clothes, the little insects around, etc. Try to observe what the sky looks like every day. The truth is that children are not depressed because of some of these things which we have stopped observing since we became adults. For example, a child can take interest in the activities of insects and continue in it for some days. That is why the white people always organized things like going to the bush to pursue animals. You will see matured white men and women coming to the forest of Africa to pursue and catch animals. They'll be laughing and catching fun. We must just create happiness for ourselves. Remember that God has put happiness and joy in natural things, which if you begin observing and experiencing, will make you happy. 1 Like |
Re: ... by shantti(m): 7:28pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Na the weather own worst pass. Even if Nigeria subsequently get good leaders and everywhere becomes like Dubai. The harsh sun and fiery heat and dust will still be a problem 2 Likes |
Re: ... by shantti(m): 7:41pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
There is nothing in this country that can make an average Nigerian happy. Rice that I bought last month for #750 per mudu rose exponentially to #1200 per mudu when I went to the market this afternoon. I was so mad at everything. A small cup of grounded egusi was #150. WHY DIDNT MY GREAT GREAT GREAT GRANDFATHER GET INTO THE SLAVE SHIP!!!!! WHY DID HE CHOSE TO HIDE THE YAM BARN 1 Like |
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:50pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
shantti:guy!! Me sef tire for the weather. And e come be like say everyday gets hotter. You dare not say you wan stroll outside for afternoon. At times I wonder if Africa, particularly Nigeria is cursed, because I just can't fathom why everything about us is just 'backward'. |
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:51pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
shantti:dude you are so funny |
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:53pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Descottes:So this is you,where have you been hiding, good to have you here again. I hope you are alright, take things easy and don't stress yourself over life issues, you'll be fine. |
Re: ... by Nobody: 7:58pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Iyaebe:I came back for you my dear. I hope you haven't fallen in love with anyone |
Re: ... by shantti(m): 8:02pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Descottes: I swear everything just tire me |
Re: ... by Nobody: 8:17pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Descottes:lol I have, you ran away and acted mysteriously.You wrote up there that you'll call online hook up girls if non of your numerous girlfriends is available, its part of what causes depression(please try and stop that habit). |
Re: ... by liya11: 8:17pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Descottes: Most of us are tired too, But if you keep looking at everyone as thesame and criminal minded, you'd be confused and depressed brother. |
Re: ... by Nobody: 8:28pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Iyaebe:that won't deter me, I get coconut head you ran away and acted mysteriously [/quote] yeah after you pushed me away when I was gradually growing fond of you You wrote up there that you'll call online hook up girls if non of your numerous girlfriends is available,[/quote] I can quit all that lifestyle just for you.. let me be your simp its part of what causes depression(please try and stop that habit)[/quote] LOL 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ... by okpas01: 8:31pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Brother, bad things happen all over the world. You know this world, you don't know the here after. What if u don't end up at the feet or ur father in heaven? If u are trying one way or the other to make country better which is our collective responsibility, u wont be depressed. Do something to change the things you don't like about ur country. U were born here for a reason. |
Re: ... by RedCentaur(m): 10:15pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Wondering why we are here (on earth of all places), is enough to throw one into depression. The struggle to survive, only to answer the ultimate call, death, someday. 2 Likes |
Re: ... by debbydams(f): 4:01pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Descottes:u are not alone |
Re: ... by toujurs: 7:08pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
SweetBuns:Who is this dumb bitch , which one is jerking off again. Are you a road side trader. |
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