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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Heavensent01:Maybe you can explain why some girls even have as much as 7 bfs or side niggas and still keep her main guy. You can't tell me she doesn't have sex with all most but the main guy isn't aware. He 'd believe she s such an innocent and a virtuous woman. Check that guy, it may be you. Times have changed man. Women play the game better. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Thorondor: 6:33pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
My galfriend believes commenting on a gals post on Is cheating. Now she sneaked into my laptop and saw a friendly chat I had with Dolly Castro on onlyfans one year ago and voila. She has been accusing me of cheating day in day out. Parked out of my house Me I kukuma mind my business and say THANK GOD oyibo woman na roller coaster .. too much fun too much headache |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Verysmart101: 6:33pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Cheat cheat cheat just dey hungry you since.Abeg shift |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Verysmart101: 6:36pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Jennyclay: I wanna ask u just one question.Can u put ur hand in fire and expect another man to feel the pain? Cheating back will make u no different from him and u both will suffer the same consequences |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by akaahs(m): 7:03pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Lalami3232:Even in the Bible, there is a record of adultery only the woman was brought forward to be stone but the man is no where to be found. |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:Na so una dey take fail exam. simple question you no fit answer but you dey say you fit Bleep all your husband friends and neighbors and still love am die! i know say you be woman, na only una fit reason from anus like this 1 Like |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Connected1: 7:16pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Palema007:Some things do not evolve. 1 Like |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Heavensent01(m): 7:28pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Maryjane001: no it can't be me, I married 30years old lady staying in a rugged area as virgin and tested her before and after marriage and she's still herself some ladies have dignity, stop identifying all ladies with you generation of glorified olosho 1 Like |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Connected1: 7:29pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Simran94:You are funny. It's very easy na. Denounce African Citizenship and go to the Continent where they practice what you like. You go just sit down dae type nonsense in order to defend something. No Race of Men treat women better than the African Man, Nigeria to be Precise. Ask those black women in foreign lands whether one person send them message. |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
[quote author=safarigirl post=111612963] Even if he give her AIDs, people no go still understand. You will be hearing "for better or worse..." Na why sometimes, when some men die, their wives don't even mourn them. They just keep it moving. A lot of women are emotionally detached from their husbands. They have left the man already in their minds, the marriage is just for show and more often than not, they don't even have sexual relations[quote] At the bold, even in the days of our foremothers, this right here has been in existence. That is why at old age, men suffer at the hands of their wives. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Connected1: Really? Is it the northern men that are according to their culture allowed to marry underaged girls who haven’t even reached the age of puberty yet and forcefully sleep with these girls while they groan in pains? And then these same underaged girls get pregnant for their “husbands” and become mothers at 13, 14 years old while their mates from other cultures are still in school? Is it some of the eastern men, where widows are being ridiculed publicly immediately their husbands die, where widows have their hairs scrapped off by so-called in-laws after the death of their husbands and are made to parade the community under scotched sun dressed in black? Where widows are being thrown out of their husbands houses by their in-laws and loose everything they have once their husbands die? Is it the southwest men where if a married woman doesn’t bare a child for her husband at the first year of their marriage would be sometimes thrown out of their husbands houses and another woman would be brought in as a substitute? Or if her husband dies, she and her children would be sent back to their parents homes so the in-laws can take over the husband’s properties? A country that sees women as nothing if they aren’t married? Where men see hurting women(cheating on their wives) as their birthright? You want to compare that to the western countries where no one stigmatizes your inability to get pregnant as a woman, or where women aren’t judged by the fact that they decided to remain single and not get married? Or a woman’s success isn’t tied to a man? The African Culture treats women like OBJECTS of sexual satisfaction and reproduction, nothing else. You go just sit down dae type nonsense in order to defend something. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by SURElee(f): 7:47pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
No, it shouldn't be. Let them stay o! When the cheating partner knacks them HIV, they can then leave or remain and be chanting HIV isn't a death sentence blah blah blah stop the stigma... |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by elated177: 8:01pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Call it what it is --- adultery. Adultery is more than enough reason to send your wife away or separate from your husband. In fact, scripturally speaking, it is the only basis upon which divorce is to hold. No one should condone adultery. No reason is enough for adultery. Marriage is marriage. Is there anything like illegal marriage. Marriage is a union between a man and woman. Any other relationship or union, which anyone may refer to marriage, is null and void. So says my Scripture. 1 Like |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Heavensent01:Many ladies have their dignity intact and wouldn't resort to cheating as payback even when their partners is a cheat. These days, women prefer to walk away from such marriages/r/ships with their sanity intact than turn to wailers in Shiloh. Generation of glorified oloshos?. Well, seems you patronized a good number of them in the good old days. After all, olosho no go boom if customer no dey... In all, cheating is cheating. Men shouldn't justify cheating to suit their ego. Let's learn to call a spade a spade. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Valkrie:Cheating is cheating irrespective of the gender involved. If a partner cheats, it's up to the other spouse to choose to forgive and forget or walk away. I don't support cheating as a payback. But what I see nowadays in marriages amazes me. Oga would be having sidechick while keeping his marriage "intact" while madam gives him children that are not his.... Fire for fire generation. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by DEMZEE(m): 8:23pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Maryjane001: That's why most men are miserable in their marriages and they don't understand why Once a woman cheats, it's the end She will start weaponizing sex for compliance from u and she will make u pass through hoops to gain her sexual access Women are born followers and can't serve two masters It's called evolutionary biology 1 Like |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 8:30pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
makavell7:Your rambling makes absolutely no sense to me. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Mjpem23(m): 8:36pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee: We are both expressing our views and perceptions on this issue sister, why’re you using styles to disgrace yourself? |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by DEMZEE(m): 8:42pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
olabrinks: TRUE FEMALES ARE MORE FULFILLED HAVING CHILDREN, GETTING AND STAYING MARRIED RATHER THAN MAKING MONEY AND HAVING A CAREER OR BUSINESS |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by DEMZEE(m): 8:43pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Simran94: THE MISERABLE FEMALES ON EARTH ARE FEMALES WHO ARE IN THEIR 40s, SINGLE AND CHILDLESS MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT WOMEN SEXUAL AGENCY ISNT EVERGREEN, ITS PERISHABLE |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by DEMZEE(m): 8:44pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Simran94: THE MISERABLE FEMALES ON EARTH ARE FEMALES WHO ARE IN THEIR 40s, SINGLE AND CHILDLESS HAVING A BUSINESS OR A CAREER MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT WOMEN SEXUAL AGENCY ISNT EVERGREEN, ITS PERISHABLE |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
DEMZEE: So according to you, a woman in her 40s who is single and childless is Miserable? No wonder… 1 Like |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 9:12pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Simran94:Some of these folks think the world is defined by their delusions. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:Lol, the reason I said No wonder ![]() ![]() They will be fine 1 Like |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Connected1: 9:28pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Simran94:I understand you are a woman and it's evident You talk too much. All the same, Nigerian/African Women aren't restricted from going to other countries/continents to live. So I don't understand these rants of yours, the society isn't a bed of roses, If I should list the stigma men face in this country you will just keep quiet. I don't have time for that and I don't have time to explain to you that everything can't go the way you want it. |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by BigBashiru: 9:32pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Maryjane001: Only men are allowed to hv multiple partners.... any woman who cheats must be sent packing and she has to go live with those partners and leave my house..... @iyaebe any comment?? |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by BigBashiru: 9:38pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Simran94: Don't mind that person. He doesn't know dat not every woman wants to get married.... |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by BigBashiru: 9:40pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
DEMZEE: Men's sexual agency perishes too.... it just only lasts SLIGHTLY longer. Which girl wants to sleep with buhari ![]() |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 9:55pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Mjpem23:You've Segwayed into something else now. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee:you dont sound too bright so ill just ignore! |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by nedekid: 11:10pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Then it's likely you will have a failed marriage, so do not bother the venture. On the other hand, ladies like you might even be the most tolerant when faced with actual reality. Nobody says cheating in a marriage is right, but fact is it is more palatable if it is heard a man did it compared to a woman. Unfair as it may seem, that is the reality. |
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:50pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee: Na so ooh, my brother... ![]() No time for bullshiit... Make we dey cruise on with one another... Stay blessed, bro. |
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