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Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by NOwazobia: 9:01pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Kelvinskillz:and you still have to quote the whole teraja! ![]() |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by jefe03(m): 9:01pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Draslo: Don't complain to anybody when your child destroy your room because you seize his/her phone later on the future 1 Like |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by gassbee: 9:02pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
No need for flogging, just use your hands n do n some spanking |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by frozen70(f): 9:03pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Prism: Flogging was part of Those days But with this present generation, counseling is the way out I think you should just advise her but am sure, she is just pouring her anger on those little children You may not know what she is going through that made the children to be the recipient |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by fredoooooo: 9:04pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
It is but nit all the time... |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by dave601: 9:04pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Prism: Flog your child when necessary, please (especially 2 and above). You don't want him/her to grow up and become a spoilt brat. I think some young parents get soft with their children because of the media or what they observe from rich men's kids. Such will end up breeding a terribly rude, badly behaved ones. The Bible says if you Beat him with a cane, he WILL NOT DIE (prob. 23:13). Just don't cane with hot anger or lose your temper in the process. God bless. 1 Like |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by drewcee: 9:06pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Ode ti de. Anamu. slawomir: |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Enimin: 9:06pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
DaddyFreeze2020: Hello retārd
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Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by TimeArena1(f): 9:06pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Metting out physical discipline on your child isn't as vicious as the Gen Z generation of adults are trying to make it come off. Communicating with kids, work. Spanking them with their size of cane also works. Just find out which of these techniques works for you and make sure you raise them in the fear and admonition of the Lord. God forbid we raise kids that would make us regret birthing them. |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by harmony75: 9:08pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Toddlers are to be spanked in the bumbum I no dey miss that one I'm breastfeeding you and you bite me oh mehn I will spank you your papa go tell me thank you! As they grow you introduce the Cain. It is very important to discipline your kids, not every situation you have to Cain a child they become very stubborn if you don't discipline them with love � so please sometimes punish them you have already passing the msg. 1 Like |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by ADecadeAddict: 9:09pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
An African child should get a whopping |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Seankhalifa: 9:09pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Den no flog Me... but u see d knock and slap na reset button... especially when u dey close to babe where u dey eye dat yr ![]() |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by UnknownQueen(f): 9:09pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Whatever rocks or sinks your boat. |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by sweetman2022: 9:16pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Better don't let the whites deceived you when it comes to punishment. Certain punishment works for us here do to our upbringing and environment. Anybody flogging a toddler should be arrested..haba they are too small. You just spank them. Moreover use what works for you as parents. Don't try to copy others just study your kids and apply necessary punishment that can bring them to order. 2 Likes |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Draslo(m): 9:16pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
jefe03:Many of the best things we're using now such as the computer or phone you're using to read this, and almost every day to day items were invented by people who don't flog their kids and adults that were never flogged as kids. Let that just sink in. The world is moving forward. Spare the rod and spoil the child no dey work again. Those words were written thousands of years ago. Haba! Them flog me tire...na me spoil pass. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Spandau: 9:16pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Prism: Please make a clarification. Is it spanking or flogging? |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by dave601: 9:18pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
flemsy15: Bro, caning a child (2-15) when necessary is good. From my own personal life experience, and having dealt with different levels of students as an educationist. It doesn't always work with older children, but it's perfect with anything 2 to roughly 9 or 15. But once they get immune to flogging, then it's too late. You might as well be trying to correct a healthy He-goat. Cos you failed to start earlier. And being rude, wayward or stupid as become normal or praiseworthy to him/her. The bible says you shall Beat him with a rod, and deliver his soul from hell... (Provb 23:14). God bless. 3 Likes |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Which one is child abuse in trying to correct a child? I want to believe for every age you listed, there's a size of cane. Every child needs some form of dicipline to help shape them into well behaved humans however care should be taken in carrying out such disciplinary measures to avoid abuse. For toddlers, I'll suggest a little spanking here and there to make them know when they've crossed boundaries. My twin has a two year old who's been potty training for sometime now. When she gets carried away and pees on herself, she gets a little spanking on her bumbum and this has made her more conscious and she quickly runs to the bathroom/potty whenever she's pressed. Now, she hardly pees on herself. Spare the rod and spoil the child. 1 Like |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Advancedman(m): 9:21pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Prism: By your definition Teenager no dey go school? 2 Likes |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by rickyrex(m): 9:21pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
I went through hell in the hands of my dad. I almost hate him for flogging me mercilessly ... And today i am a father... I don't flog my kids and when my wife do, i give her a sad look . I only scold at my children. 2 Likes |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by GboyegaD(m): 9:22pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Prism: It depends. I don't believe in flogging a child however, there are times you need help a child remember what you have warned him/her about but definitely, not a toddler. Notwithstanding, tou can spank a toddler to help pass a message something is wrong. For example, if my toddler needs attention and you are not giving it to him on time, he tries to inflict pains on you with his fingers. A few taps have helped him reduce it. |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by NaBanga: 9:28pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
No there is no reason to do so. Most people in the Western world have shied away from this. It creates little angry monsters that grow into angry hateful adults. You can't even watch a Nigerian movie without insults and shouting. It's because it's hard to find a Nigerian adult that doesn't behave in that manner. Look at all the frustrated people in Nigeria, then look at the smiling faces in the Western countries. Forget the exceptions you see online and tv of violence in the West. The good far outweighs the bad. 1 Like |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Theunbothered: 9:29pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
DaddyFreeze2020: Stop using that Jewish fiction to justify torturing babies. |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Advancedman(m): 9:30pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Prism: Ask yourself why do babies beat people or haven't you seen babies fight. It's a natural thing correction is not necessarily beating yet due to natural configuration of human even babies in the womb fight, but unethical flogging is bad. Every child understand flogging by default even when babies bite during breastfeeding as habit they are spanked. So it's not a Yoruba thing wait till you experience it yourself. Invention of Antichrist in form of western adulteration and distortion of nature is probably the baseless sentiment you are considering and if you are from the South East also watch it has some parents from that region only practice parental negligence not what true Igbo discipline entail. |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Lordofalmajiri(f): 9:32pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
rickyrex:Sir you're not doing them any a good honestly |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Lightorder: 9:33pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
MasterJayJay:yes o . That one make sense. Na the rod be that |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by foolbuster: 9:33pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
flemsy15: You are being racist against yourself. All men are equal. Emancipate yourself from mental slavery |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Protein0: 9:33pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
boxer022:Exactly. It might not be what she termed flogging tho. Just a way to correct when necessary. Some children of nowadays can be very stubborn and troublesome ![]() |
Re: Flogging Toddlers- Is It Really Necessary? by Protein0: 9:34pm On Sep 18, 2022 |
Prism:You have kids yet? |
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