Your marriage is bad, you and spouse used to love each other, weitin happen? Two lovebirds have turned into roomates or bitter enemies, every arguments has turn into war, your neighbor are tired of seeing you fight. Before You could not wait to see each other, now you cannot stand each other. You will do anything to avoid your spouse. Weitin happened? Your family and friends are telling to divorce but for the sake of the children and other conditions, you cannot leave. Your wedding was the talk of the town, now you wondering what went wrong.

They say marriage is the course where you can get your certificate before taking the examination. Some people just marry without taking premarital counselings , just trial and error.

If you do not put God first in your marriage, how can the marriage last? You do not pray, you do not fast

Go for marriage counseling, do not be too big to go for one. You do not know it all.
Learn to forgive , if you cannot forgive then how can you forgive your spouse

Learn to communicate in a healthy way, your spouse is not a mind reader. Words weigh heavy, abusive words is a no.

Your inlaws should not settle your arguments, they will pick side. Get neutral elders that you both respect if you cannot solve your differences.

Learn to love each other and cover each other mistakes. Your spouse is not perfect and you are not.

Do not cheat either emotionally, sexually, financially in any fashion

Instructions for Christian Households(AH)
21 Submit to one another(AI) out of reverence for Christ.

22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands(AJ) as you do to the Lord.(AK) 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church,(AL) his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands(AM) in everything.

25 Husbands, love your wives,(AN) just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her(AO) 26 to make her holy,(AP) cleansing[b] her by the washing(AQ) with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself(AR) as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.(AS) 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives(AT) as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body.(AU) 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[c](AV) 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife(AW) as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.