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Wtf did I just read evil thrives when good men do nothing. I will take the law into my hands

You cannot reduce hatred for an idiot who is sexually assaulting/abusing your sisters. If I were a guy and in your shoes, all hell will break loose the first time I catch/see him in the act. In fact, somebody will meet their maker that day: him. What nonsense.

Incest...tufiakwa.
I would secretly silence him Maka chukwu.


Pls no body should quote me

Naijatask:
So, in 2019, my dad decided to take him in.

One night, I woke up from sleep and decided to go to the kitchen and get drinking water (my room is just outside the sitting room, and you'll have to pass the sitting room before reaching the kitchen).

I observed that my cousin wasn't on the bed when I woke up. I decided to take a peek into my sister's room and there he was standing, jerking off to my sister's face! She was barely 15!

The lights was on, and his grandmother (my dad's mom) who came visiting was also on the bed together with my sisters! Such audacity!

I couldn't even believe what I saw, and tiptoed back into my room and woke up my maternal uncle who was staying with us in order to be my witness.

After witnessing the act, the only response he gave me was Why is she (my sister) feigning to sleep, while he was touching her and jerking off to her face .

I was shocked and couldn't even believe his utterance. Like bro! You was supposed to help me bounce on the stupid slowpoke harassing my sister, (your niece).

He just said that and left. With the little energy left with me, I opened the door, dragged my cousin brother out and warned him never to try such act again (I initially wanted to teach him a lesson he ought to never forget in his lifetime, but I was hugely disappointed with what my uncle did).

Even though I still reported him to my parents, there wasn't any punishment meted out to him.

After that incident, I completely lost the respect I had for my uncle. Agreed he had some issues with my mom (her elder sister) back then, but why extend the hatred to her children?.

After that incident, I still occasionally catch my cousin brother in the night in the sitting room, claiming to iron out his clothes. But I still maintain my anger since it's not as if I caught him going into my sister's room.

What broke the camels back, was an incident which happened last 3 weeks ago.

One of my younger sisters (she's 13) reported to my dad in the middle of the night that he caught my cousin brother in her room, jerking off at her face while trying to remove her underwear.

All my dad did was to woke me up from sleep (saying that he wants me to be the witness), and he was preaching to the boy on how his mom, is his younger sister and that he should talk if marriage should be done for him since he can't hold his sexual desires (like man, you was supposed to call me and we smack the shit out of him together!!!).

I got angry and just left them there.

The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part.

And this happens whenever, my cousin brother is sent to take her to the room whenever she's asleep on the sitting room couch. And also, how one of my sisters told her that he once caught him trying to lift up her skirt while she was fast asleep on the couch in the middle of the night.

Right now, I'm Justin mad at myself and angry at the same time! I feel like a loser, a pussy who can't even protect his sisters.

The bastard is still living with us, in my room, and every day, my hatred for him grows stronger.

Even when my mom told his mom, her only reply was that he's still a kid, and she should forgive him. Someone who's 17!!!! For goodness sake!.

She didn't even called him out to kneel down in front of my mom and rebuke him. Nothing was done!!!! She didn't even spoke to him about the incident.

And whenever my mom makes her displeasure known to my dad, he always says that she hates his family, bla bla bla.

How can I reduce my hatred for my cousin? Or is my hatred justified?

Right now, he has been restricted into coming into the sitting room, anything past 8pm.

But still, I'm still sure things might just go back to being the same!.

My fear right now is, I'll be going for my youth service in a few months time, which means this bastard will be with my sisters unsecured!!!!

The whole family is at risk with such dog in your family

I expected you to tell your dad that he should take this boy back to his parents before he pregnant your sisters

I wish you have enough money for transportation, take him to his mother immediately

Let the worst happen and you will reveal everything out

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I am so sorry to say this…


But sounds like a dysfunctional family!


No offense.

Your parents are being careless....he will soon rape your sisters for sure! What a nonsense set of people! You mean your father cannot let him go? Whew! It is not your problem. Your sisters should protect themselves if your parents will not protect them.

How?

All the girls should sleep in the same room and lock themselves in until the lunatic is taken away for real.

I know hausas dont have so much respect for women's sexuality. But these are children your parents are playing with their safety. What a complete act of irresponsibility!

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You are exactly like your parents and uncle if you don't know what to do.

What a family.

U

Naijatask:


My uncle's behavior made me totally weak that day. Now I'm regretting why I've Still not beaten the daylight out of him

You should have given him the beating of his life, to the extent of him fearing you in the house or packing his things and leaving.

Your Uncle's response, along with your parents' own response/nonchalance, should all make you sick. Both your Uncle and Dad have seen him with their own eyes, yet did not pounce on him. Most responsible males I know would protect their girls with every fiber of their being. It is quite odd that this paedophile and rapist is under your roof, sexually assaulting their girls continuously and those two males have remained unbothered. Your 8-yo little sister also has her own complaints, indicating that she has been abused, yet your mom did nothing. Because you are from the North, I reckon lack of education and ignorance are at play but it does not take rocket science to know that this dude is a beast.

As you are the only sensible and concerned male there, you need to take matters into your own hands to get this guy out of there asap, definitely before you go for your NYSC. If he has done it on numerous occasions, you should have enough pictures and/or videos of him in the act by now to take them to the Police. If not, the next time you see him, get that proof, then go to the Police and request to speak with female police officers. If you are unable to take a picture or video of him, gather your sisters together, take them to the Police and again, ask for female officers, and have your sisters tell them what this guy has been doing. Make sure you take your 8-yo little sister along and have her repeat what she told your mom. With these, unless everyone in the North are all mad, including the Police, they should act accordingly.

J

Op, you are very funny. You are looking for how to reduce the hatred for your cousin when you ought to ask us how to keep the fire burning so you can make him feel uncomfortable and send him packing.


You don't love your sisters at all. Its only a matter of time before that beast rapes your sisters. The youngest one will be the first cos she is the weakest and should I tell you what will happen after?
Your parents will cover it up as a family issue.


You are a guy, and your job is to protect your vulnerable sisters.
That guy is not your family so stop treating him as one. He is an enemy. An enemy out to hurt the people you love. So start treating him like one.


You can even set him up for serious beating by the thugs in your area.
Make him uncomfortable in the house by letting him know he is a rapist and treat him like one.
Warn him never to go close to your sisters or you will castrate him.
If he is in the sitting room with your sisters even in daytime, order him out. Tell him to his face to go inside before he starts wanking in front of your sisters.
The goal is to make him uncomfortable and let him realise you know his plan.
Start accusing him of being responsible for the pain your younger sister is feeling.


Let your sisters know he is a potential rapist. Let them know they have to be careful around him and must not be alone with him and teach them to watch over each other like a hawk.

Naijatask:


The mom, even lives in the same town with us.

Their house is like a 20minute journey from ours.

Send him home let heaven fall apart and let's see if your father will reject you and keep a bad child that will soon ruin your entire sister's future, he may pregnant them and that will affect both family's relationships

Your father can still assist him from his mother's house

His mother knows that he is doing such dirty things, that was why she was not surprise

Your mum too is too quiet to the detriment of her daughters

Ok

What about your mom's family? And your mom, smh, she would rather stick to a dysfunctional family rather than than protect and safe guard her daughters? Smh.

Report the whole issue to your Dad's friend or the mosque clerics. sorry to say but your dad is a big giant womanliness and you are towing that lane too

J

Naijatask:


I wish not to be like my dad sha.

I don't know why, but he kind of seemed afraid of his younger sister, the mother of the boy.

About reporting to a mosque cleric, my mom said she wants to keep it a secret since rumors fly around, and people may think that he actually raped them or something.

She said she fears for thier future (whatever that means).

As for her family, she's an orphan with 5 brothers (2 elder siblings and 2 younger ones) and doesn't have a good relationship with her elder brothers to he honest, and wouldn't tell her younger ones

excuses!! Do something, don't be violent with the boy. Which state are you?report to the ministry of women affairs immediately! Report to the clerics anyways! ACT NOW, jeez

Naijatask:


My mom fears her marriage will crash if she were to take an action.

As such, taking the matter to the police station might just cause the same issues she's trying to avoid.

Thank you, I've definitely decided on how to handle the situation

I guess her marriage is more important than the sexual abuse her daughters are going through right under their parents' roof.

The fact is your parents and uncle sees nothing wrong in incest nor sexual abuse in general, reason for their lame approach to the pervert who is allowed to continue to stay in the house.

"The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part".....The molester is having penetrative sex with an 8 year old right under her father's roof and she complains to her mother but the mother chooses to be "helpless" because she wants to protect her marriage!

In saner climes, all adults in that house would have been arrested and prosecuted for being enablers of sexual abuses, that predator arrested and probably cooling off behind confinement while those girls taken away and placed in the Looked After Children system!

Naijatask:


I just penned down a lengthy message and intend to send it to my dad, once I leave for school today.

All that one is protocol, take action then wait and see the way he will respond

By then you will get to know if he is protecting his family or another person family

I am a woman and if I am the one in your shoes, that guy will leave and never to come back

Prevention is better than cure

mrjojo:
excuses!! Do something, don't be violent with the boy. Which state are you?report to the ministry of women affairs immediately! Report to the clerics anyways! ACT NOW, jeez

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