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Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Loveabove(f): 10:12am On Sep 02, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: Sure. Thank you for your concern you especially. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by aisha1314(f): 5:05pm On Sep 03, 2023 |
Loveabove: This is really said honestly. It saddens my heart to read things like this. I understand you have good intentions, you are willing to care for them but just not able. That is understandable. I suggest putting them in an orphanage especially as you mentioned you're now unable to pay your rent. You can't be homeless with children. At least an orphanage will give them a place to stay. But maybe, since you say you love them as your own children you could tell the orphanage you don't want them being adopted so that in the future when things are better for you, you could get them back. It's sad that their father is most likely a deadbeat who doesn't want to be involved. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Kobojunkie: 2:41pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Loveabove, how far? Did you find a place for the boys yet? Have you at least had the talk to them explaining why you need to put them in an orphanage and the advantages versus the disadvantages of going homeless with them? Please do not hide anything from them about what is going on and what your intents are so they are assured that you are not also abandoning them like their father and their mother before you did. (YES, to kids, even when a parent died, it does feel like an abandonment --- rejection even.) |
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Loveabove(f): 10:57am On Sep 09, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Thank you for your concern. They have been contact online and offline asking me to hold on with them for a while and they will get back to me. So they are still with me for now. |
Re: I Want To Take My Late Sister's Two Children To Orphanage by Kobojunkie: 12:19pm On Sep 09, 2023 |
Loveabove:Ok. Please make sure those kids are equally aware of the situation so they don't get the wrong idea ---- like thinking you are trying to sell them off. At that age, the imagination can run pretty wild. I do hope you can find gainful employment soonest so you don't have to be separated from those children at all. |
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