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Why Do Girls Run Away From People That Make Them Happy? by papaDOA: 2:11pm On Sep 10, 2023
[color=#000099][/color]The question of why girls sometimes run away from people that make them happy and stay with the ones who don't is a complex one, and there is no easy answer. However, there are a few possible reasons that may explain this behavior.

* **Fear of commitment.** Some girls may be afraid of commitment, and may therefore avoid relationships that seem too good to be true. They may worry that if they get too close to someone who makes them happy, they will get hurt in the end.
* **Low self-esteem.** Girls with low self-esteem may believe that they don't deserve to be happy, and may therefore sabotage relationships that could make them happy. They may also be drawn to relationships with people who are emotionally unavailable or abusive, because they believe that this is all they deserve.
* **Unhealed trauma.** Girls who have experienced trauma in their past, such as abuse or neglect, may have difficulty trusting and forming healthy relationships. They may be drawn to relationships with people who remind them of their abuser, or who are emotionally unavailable, because this is what they are familiar with.
* **Fear of change.** Change can be scary, and some girls may be afraid of what will happen if they leave a relationship that is familiar, even if it is not making them happy. They may worry about being alone, or about not finding someone else who makes them happy.

It is important to remember that everyone is different, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question. If you are a girl who is struggling with this issue, it is important to talk to a trusted adult, such as a therapist or counselor, who can help you understand your own motivations and develop healthy coping mechanisms.

Here are some additional tips for girls who are trying to break the cycle of running away from happy relationships:

* **Challenge your negative thoughts.** If you find yourself thinking negative thoughts about yourself or your relationships, challenge those thoughts. Ask yourself if there is any evidence to support those thoughts, and remind yourself of all the reasons why you are worthy of happiness.
* **Build your self-esteem.** One of the best ways to overcome fear of commitment and low self-esteem is to build your self-esteem. This can be done by taking care of yourself physically and mentally, setting goals and achieving them, and surrounding yourself with positive people.
* **Seek professional help.** If you are struggling to overcome the urge to run away from happy relationships, it is important to seek professional help. A therapist or counselor can help you understand your own patterns and develop healthy coping mechanisms.

Remember, you are not alone. Many girls struggle with this issue, and there is help available. With time and effort, you can break the cycle and find a happy and fulfilling relationship.

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Re: Why Do Girls Run Away From People That Make Them Happy? by joceey(m): 2:18pm On Sep 10, 2023
The truth is deep
Re: Why Do Girls Run Away From People That Make Them Happy? by Stawner16(m): 2:23pm On Sep 10, 2023
Because girls love chaos. Even if you make them happy, you’ve gotta still put them on an emotional spiral.

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