there's this fine lady i have been eyein in my area, but my fear is that she's married cos i at times do see her with a little boy whom i suspect is her son and at times she do stand wit one man i knw is married cos he has a wedding ring on but she doesn't have any ring, but am afraid to ask her out cos i wouldn't want to toast a married woman. my problem now is that this woman always do look at me in d eyes anytime she sees me and she wont stop til i shift my face off, bt she stil wil continue to look at me til she no longer can c me either cos i've diverted from d road or outta sight

she married and clearly wants a fling

she wil have to come out from wherever she is whenever she hears my voice, just so she could look at my face. this has been goin or for about two months nw and i find myself thinkin about her at night before i sleep. at times i just leave my place for some days so that i wont think of her, but whenever i come back her looku looku begins.

this evenin as i was comin back, we coincidentally were walkin together in one narrow road and she was in front and she never noticed my presence until she turned backwards. her steps dt were hasty slowed down, and she started actin like she was makin call and somehow stopped so i can meet up wit her. as i got to where she was, she was just stan din n playin wit her bb so i just stared at her and wanted to say hi, but d first stupid question dt came out from her mouth was 'is there any problem'.

i was so pissed and asked her if there seems to be any problem and she asked again why i was lookin at her? at this point i was wonderin-but she was d one dt was starin and she even slowed down so i can meet up wit her- why then al dis her questions? i just left her there and didn't say anymore word cos i am nt still sure if she's single. so pls ladies in d house y do you pretend when you love a guy and act otherwise when he comes to u and most times u turn him down? abeg y all the shakara?

Hahahahaha "Is there a problem?" OMD!

Mixed signals. Maybe her husband was around so she had to pretend she wasn't looking at you.

Either way, best thing would be to speak to her next time you see her instead of all that "look me I look you" you both seem to be doing.

@kelz there was no one on the road at that time and i am nt still sure if she's married. like u said i'l talk wit her d next time and i think its a gd idea

You just walk away like that? Na wa for you see clear coast you waste am just like that. You should have talk to her as a man and confirm from her if she is really married. According to your story it’s obvious that she want you to talk to her. But at the same time you don't expect her to act like she is into you, so she her self need to form first and you as a guy need to be bold enough and talk to her.

Before you knw it now she will start looking at you as a weak man, she dey give you green light man.

OP, u be fowl pikin, u r not man enough to speak to a lady and u r here complaining about their shakara. U wan make she just give herself to u easily then later u call her hoe.
Girls need grown up confident guys. Not timid like u.

OP, u be fowl pikin, u r not man enough to speak to a lady and u r here complaining about their shakara. U wan make she just give herself to u easily then later u call her hoe.
Girls need grown up confident guys. Not timid like u,

@itbomb talkin wit her is nt my problem as i can go to any length to get a lady,even enter her papa house, bt what i'm tryin to knw is her status first, cos i dont want to ever ask a married woman out. her landlord is my contractor, i think i'l call him to ask, bt i think its stupid. abeg i need advice from u guys as to what to do. thanks

Then why don't you ask her? is a very simple thing, ok what advised do you want from us.

Let me give you some game (pointers) son. Start out by introducing yourself like a gentleman. If she offers her hand, embrace it with a firm but gentle grip so that she remembers your first touch of that strength and sensitivity. When she happens to look into your eyes return her glance with a warm quick smile, don't try to look into her soul at this point, you might frighten her away from you. Start out with small talk and general conservation and you may find out her status without having to ask her directly.

If this approach doesn't work I will assist you with plan b. I can tell by your post that you are really feeling this Babe.

Why don't you just ask her if she is married?

@afro i de feel d babe @mind, i think thats what i am going to do. u guys are great

Now go and be a gentleman like you should be

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i just spoke wit d girl now cos i saw her comin back from an outin this evenin. when she saw me she just pretended and sat on one chair. i went straight to her then she stood up and walked away formin like she makin one endless cal but came back again to meet me. That was were i started wit my cool dubbs and she was just starin at me happily but was tryin to mask her countenance. i just told her my mi nd and how i feel about her even tho she was playin hard to get. she only said she wont tel me her name but she really do like me

knowin her name is not my problem and her number too cos i already have them from one source, but i want her to tell me by herself, and i do nt wish to call her nw. guys what do u think? i need more advice.

tiniyata:

knowin her name is not my problem and her number too cos i already have them from one source, but i want her to tell me by herself, and i do nt wish to call her nw. guys what do u think? i need more advice. i have got a serious [/b[b]]relationship but dis babe de try me and i must do her strong thing! imagine her askin me dt silly question d other day 'she no reach'

You're actually in a relationship & you're on here looking for advice on how to ask out another woman

@eiregirl, but i really do love this lady sososo much and there's no denyin d fact. 

tiniyata:

@eiregirl, but i really do love this lady sososo much and there's no denyin d fact. 

How can you love the girl? You don't even know her!!! You've seen her on the road a couple of times & you've got a girlfriend How much do you love your girlfriend? Not much by the sounds of things, so let her go!

@eiregirl y are u been so hard on me na? its not fair.

Because you're in a relationship & you're running after another woman. If you don't love your girlfriend & you love this other woman then be a man & tell your girlfriend!!!