I used to know two friends in Lagos, Tunde and Emeka. Both were young businessmen with big dreams, but their lives took very different turns, teaching some unexpected lessons along the way.

Tunde was always out and about, enjoying life to the fullest. Every weekend, you would find him at the hottest bars and clubs. He’d roll up in a flashy SUV or sleek sedan, dressed in the latest fashion, always surrounded by friends. His social media was filled with pictures of lavish parties, expensive drinks, and lively events. It seemed like his life was one big celebration.

But behind all the glamour, Tunde was struggling financially. His business ventures often strained, leaving him with mounting debts and empty pockets. It seemed like every new investment turned into a financial disaster. His love for the high life meant he spent more than he earned.

Emeka, on the other hand, was more reserved. He enjoyed himself but didn’t flaunt it. While Tunde was out partying, Emeka was busy making smart investments in different types of houses in Nigeria.

One day, after a particularly wild weekend, Tunde met Emeka at a local spot. He was feeling the effects of his partying and was frustrated with his financial situation. “Emeka, I always see you calm and steady. How come you’re doing well while I’m always struggling? You don’t spend like me, but you seem to be enjoying a better life. What’s your secret?”

Emeka smiled and took a sip of his drink. “Tunde, no be secret o. I just make smarter choices. While you’re enjoying the high life, I invest in different types of houses in Nigeria.”

Tunde raised an eyebrow, confused. “Houses? How does that help you?”

Emeka explained, “I started with bungalows because they’re affordable and easy to maintain. I rent them out, and the money I make from that, I use to buy duplexes. Duplexes bring in more rent. I even have a semi-detached duplex in a good area.”

Tunde listened closely. “So, that’s how you manage your money?”

“Exactly,” Emeka said. “I also invest in apartments. Studio and one-bedroom apartments are always in demand in town. I look into affordable housing and cooperative housing so I can expand my investments without spending too much.”

Emeka also explored modern housing trends like container homes and eco-friendly houses.

Tunde, trying to lighten the mood, said, “Emeka, you sure say you no dey miss out on the fun? Sometimes I wonder if you enjoy yourself at all.”

Emeka laughed. “I enjoy myself well, but I balance it with smart investments. My investments give me more enjoyment and peace of mind than any party could.”

Tunde thought about Emeka’s advice and decided to make a change. He realized that while his friends were still buzzing from the latest nightclub escapades, he needed to rethink his approach. Emeka’s words were the wake-up call he didn’t know he needed, yet he didn't yield.

Years later, Tunde’s financial troubles worsened. His flashy lifestyle caught up with him, leaving him struggling. He wished he had taken Emeka’s advice to heart.

Emeka, meanwhile, thrived. His various properties provided steady income and security. He was comfortable, content, and still enjoyed life in his own way.

In the end, Tunde learned a hard lesson: living large without planning for the future can lead to a life of regret. Emeka’s approach, while less flashy, offered stability and long-term rewards. It’s a reminder that sometimes, the real “fun” comes from making smart choices and securing your future, even if it means skipping a few parties along the way.