JovialJune:


You mother's own must be as wide as a well for you to think every female is like her

Let me guess, you are a son of thousand fathers right? I'm not surprised, only your kind of breed can come up with a -0 IQ comment like yours

Never quote this moniker again.

Talk like your blind mother. Stupid pig, pity the poor dude drilling that bottomless hole you call pussy. Smelly like a rotten fish. Senseless girl don’t go use alum to reduce that well down there keep on. Wide ass bottomless smelly pussy bitch

Even If you caught her in the act she would still deny it. My advice for you is to go spiritual. Consult a traditionalist before you do anything with her and you will get your answers.

Henryfocoyo:
I swear bruh, I tell people forget DNA, if my girlfriend or wife give me pikin way know be my own I go know Asap, talk more of cheating.
When I meet my girlfriend newly way she still dey talk to her ex I know, when she stop I still know, she will always ask me how did you know.
Unless I'm not interested to know

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I would advice you prank her that you need to take her to the place they needed to check if she has slept with another man in other for the necessary things to be done, I bet she will open uo to tell you and please do not fall for her crocodile tears as women r terrible liers

Mopeola:
I would advice you prank her that you need to take her to the place they needed to check if she has slept with another man in other for the necessary things to be done, I bet she will open uo to tell you and please do not fall for her crocodile tears as women r terrible liers

your Brain is top notch. Good girl wife natural

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

Its a painful reality but d likelihood is high. Many men telling u not to worry are very likely cheating with reckless abandon so d pain wont hurt them as much as u if u hav been faithful.

You too use ur sense.

It is not just to ask her; cos she's prepared anyway. Instead, ask her when she's least expecting d question... Like a month after u come back, or if she wakes up from sleep prematurely or when she's too happy or drunk / tipsy. She won't still tell you d truth; have a number of follow-up questions after. 99.9% of the time, she'll deny. Your idea is to watch her language, incoherent answers or body language. Watch out for lack of confidence in her response. This is serious mind game; if you are not smart enough, you'll miss it.

My gf back in the days cheated on me & I found out. She actually confessed. because I had sensible questions and asked little by little over a period of time, until some of her answers were incoherent. I also got some hints too. And funny enough, it was a nl post I read on that fateful day challenging d faithfulness of girls that pushed me.

Goodluck.

JovialJune:
Lol these generation of men are nothing to write home about at all, especially the ones getting married, very immature, clueless, senseless lmao 🤣

If these are the majority male breeds available for marriage, I pity females, because what the hell, lmao 🤣 😂 😆

So d generation of men that used magun to test fidelity, what is ur response for them?

U are a gaslighter. What has ever been d quality of women we marry both in the past and now?

Mtcheew.

Rooneyx:
Her mobile phone will expose all you need to know. Simple and short

Bro, she go don delete all implicating chats na. Delete complicating call logs.

She will def not be stupid to have any form of conversation or nude or action with another man.

So what else remains on the phone to snoop? Whatever remains will be too soft an evidence. In fact, having an informant around is much stronger gameplay, even if that too would likely never be hard evidence.

Omoawoke:
And you think she way say yes if she did

If a woman cheat on you, she will hold that secret even at point of death. She rather die and go to hell than confess.
Unless you catch her with all evidences, otherwise she will never agree she did

But likely, u will read her body language depending on how smart you are with ur questions, the timing and ur observation.

If ure dull, u dont need to travel out at all before she cheats on u.

Bluntemperor:
You questioning is suspicious!
Marriage is based on Trust,so if and since you don't Trust her,she should just moved away from you!

After months apart, trust should come into question.

[quote author=abbey621 post=132905911]Got to believe this is for cruise and nothing else because it seems men of nowadays are no longer men but boys in disguise! As a man you've got to be 2 to 3 steps ahead of your woman. It's either you live in delulu and trust her completely or you do what most of us do which is TRUST BUT VERIFY!

Simple software on her phone allows you to monitor conversations!
Tiny recording device exists that allows you to hear everything.

If you're not into technology but still paranoid, go the traditional route, no need to explain that one too much but Yoruba people are experts!

All in all, the ball is in your court! Above all before you sleep with her make sure you and her get tested, since maritial trust is already compromised.....Ire oooo![/quote

U be real nigga.

abbey621:
Got to believe this is for cruise and nothing else because it seems men of nowadays are no longer men but boys in disguise! As a man you've got to be 2 to 3 steps ahead of your woman. It's either you live in delulu and trust her completely or you do what most of us do which is TRUST BUT VERIFY!

Simple software on her phone allows you to monitor conversations!
Tiny recording device exists that allows you to hear everything.

If you're not into technology but still paranoid, go the traditional route, no need to explain that one too much but Yoruba people are experts!

All in all, the ball is in your court! Above all before you sleep with her make sure you and her get tested, since maritial trust is already compromised.....Ire oooo!

U be real nigga.

MightySparrow:



I understand your fears but if you asked such a question, you would be starting WW3 in your home. No woman would admit to cheating even if caught in the act not to talk of something you can't prove.

However, pray about it very well before you can do anything with her for the reason of the consequences and stylishly throw a joke or a fabricated story about what could happen and watch her reaction.

You be real man

jaxxy:


Asking her out of the blues without any initial hints or reasons might be super awkward and a mood/vibe killer so in order to ask her these seemingly necessary questions u have to follow certain steps.

1, get home greet as normal while observing for any changes in her attitude or conversation.

2. when settled in don't be in a hurry to have anything with her. Start by checking her fones and observe her response to it.

3. if nothing suspicious us found, act like u worried about something and keep to urself abit like u need space.

4. She should get worried and be thevone to ask u if anything is wrong. Then u can state ur worries or suspicions. Then hear her out. Still keep to urself until u get a convincing answer.

No, its too early. Way too early.

He has to pretend like he would never ask d question because d girl is armed and ready for such question on d first day. Dont mind all the people commenting here, they always suspect and question themselves when no one is watching.

The timing of d question and how he tables them watching for inconsistency is what matters.

Avoid directly asking her if she has been involved with other men while you were away. Instead, take a discreet and calm approach to investigate on your own. Be kind and composed as you gather information. Check her phone, including WhatsApp, Telegram, and Facebook, for any potential red flags. Pay close attention to her conversations with female friends, as she might delete messages with others but overlook chats with her friends that could reveal more. If you find anything, remain composed and stoic in your response.

AlphaNugget:
Ask.

You paid her bride price. It is your right.

Meanwhile, OGs can know from how slack the pußsy is 🤥

What is slack, are you playing. Something that she can use some cement and concrete stones to make it very hard like a virgin

Any way don't ask stupid questions except you have 3 different people who gave you evidence of video where your wife was having sex with another man not evidence of standing with another man.

SO, you know who you marry you don't need to investigate her as long as she is not doing rubbish to your face and nobody is bringing clear evidence

No scatter your house ooo

Another Simp spotted

You better ask

If so concerned, why not just go ahead and do the cleansing. Or any repercussions if nothing to cleanse? Or will the cleansing involve her? Just cleanse your mind & you'll all be fine.

Coolboy009:
Oga are u a learner? Even though u marry a virgin she can still cheat on u. woman are not predictable, especially when their men are not round them.

Maybe women in your part of the world are infidels

Faber:
Go through her phone first...

Then from her phone you may see one or two clues...

Steal her blood or saliva while she is asleep and Use it for pregnancy test, before paternity fraud hits on you.

Or you consult a native doctor...If I marry tomorrow, which I dont see it happening, they no born any woman well to cheat on me. I know where I will go and I will be briefed of all your whereabouts. 💯 Tested and trusted

Hello..
Please how can I meet you
We need to chat
Please

Dtruthspeaker:


Ehen, this is the koko. Women love variety of exactly as men do.

But the problem is that marriage is contracted on the basis that no party is allowed to play outside, generally.

However, some couples have very funny contracts. eg like a guy who marries a whorre/club girl, the which the parties know what they were getting into and usually have a plan on how they would respond to it, trust/breach of trust/no trust.

But the Truth people are beginning to see today is that marriage is a very very bad and hard thing especially as wives now real eyes they have the same rights as their husbands, so no more cheating and bullying a woman nto submission as it used to be in the past. So now more problems for the married.

Not every woman cheats

[what if the answer was yes, what next? I bet you your sanity will never be the same. Best is what you don't know can't hurt you. Better don't ask that question period. quote author=pelusi post=132900390]I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.[/quote]

If u cant ask,then rest

If u cant rest,leave her

If u cant leave her, die there

JoeEeL:


Bro, she go don delete all implicating chats na. Delete complicating call logs.

She will def not be stupid to have any form of conversation or nude or action with another man.

So what else remains on the phone to snoop? Whatever remains will be too soft an evidence. In fact, having an informant around is much stronger gameplay, even if that too would likely never be hard evidence.

Bro trust me. No matter how she try to hide some details go still play out. Only if her guy is smart and vigilant. Check her blocked contacts and confirm too. Bro I smart for anyone to deceive me wit deleted messages. I go still fish am out there’re ways through this things before she go spill scatter start to confess

thesicilian:

Are you saying this because your instrument is smaller than every other person's?

.

Lol is saying it because of experience

there are two things you must do to find out

1) Chrome her whatsapp unknown to her, to see if she is chatting with any man. if she is cheating on you it will be in her chats. check her archived chats as well, dont forget her text messages and recent call logs. none of these should be ignored.

2) Take her to a pregnancy test. some women can become pregnant when their husband is away and when you come back they will try to pin it down on you after sex so you will not know. A lot of men have fallen for this. dont bother if she gets upset by the pregnancy test because if she does, then she has a skeleton in her cupboard. if she comes out negative simply apologize to her and life goes on.

if she passes these two tests, there is a 60% possibility that she didn't cheat while you were away

siverspooon:


Hello..
Please how can I meet you
We need to chat
Please

Ok, bro drop your Whatsapp let me chat u

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

Foolish question to his wife from Mr simp.