Why do some parents insist that their children must marry from their Place causing their children heartache

I think the reason is more of a long standing tradition and ethnic bigotry. Parents sometimes tend to assume they have the authority to dictate on this issue, whereas the opposite is the case. I believe the decision is yours to make and once your parents see your seriousness, they'll back out.

However, getting married from your place has quite a number of benefits, but the benefits are as well available when you marry the love of your life, from any place.