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To me long distance in any circumstance is a NO GO area.

Long distance is very challenging! only the strong go for this. If you really love him try to be a little more patient with him and see if he comes around. The guy might be feeling the strain of a log distance relationship and might be thinking of saving himself from heartbreak so try to get him to talk about both ur fears.
Try to organise a meeting as soon as possible for you both ANYWHERE at all, its important. If he is getting worse by the week then its up to you how you end the relationship. Good luck.

I have a feeling you already knw wat u need to do,yet,u stl brought it up here. U dnt need no advice young lady. U knw wat u got 2 do!

girls, girls!! girls!!! 4 Christ sake, if a guy starts showing no interest in you, its time 4 u to vehemently dust your dunlop slippers and waka comot....*besides, mk sure you shake your butt vigorously while catwalking out of his life, humming to the song you'll think of me by Keith Urban*

Shollypopz: girls, girls!! girls!!! 4 Christ sake, if a guy starts showing no interest in you, its time 4 u to vehemently dust your dunlop slippers and waka comot....*besides, mk sure you shake your butt vigorously while catwalking out of his life, humming to the song you'll think of me by Keith Urban*

Hmm...its not that easy o... :'

OP,

The guy wants you to talk a walk but he doesn't want tell you. Please take a cue from his actions and stop calling him.

Btw, why not edit the title of the thread.

Skii: [size=13pt]My goodness?!

Is this why you would label yourself as potentially being dense?!

For what na? This is only normal

Geez!![/size]

Help her see sense pls!

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mizztee234: Thanks guys...I think i know what to do hard as it might be.

It will be alright so take heart

mizztee234: Hey guys,

He finds it really difficult to say sorry even when he is wrong.

Ding ding ding!!!

Even if he's right, he'd still apologize. I was like that, thought arguing/ stubbornness was cute. Until I met a male version of me. It was terrible.

Girl do the walk and find that special someone. If you're below 25, go party with ppl who matters.

He doesn't give a damn about u! U could ignore him for a couple of weeks and see what come out it.
And their's a probability the guy is dating the girl next door that possess same qualities as u; he would be like "why going to sokoto when what am looking for is in my sokoto". Understand?

mizztee234: Hey guys,

So I have been dating this guy for a few months and it is long distance.

Lately, there have been a few issues, I would call him and he won't pick. He would give excuses like he was asleep and the worst was "I left my phone in the office"

He hardly ever tells me he loves me or misses me. He puts the reason for this down to him not being emotional.

He finds it really difficult to say sorry even when he is wrong. I have asked if he still wants the relationship and he says yes.

Initially I felt like he was the one for me but I am not so sure any more. I think my biggest mistake is letting him know how much I love and care about him. He is most definitely taking me for granted and playing mind games with me.

It hurts because I am not cheating and to be honest I have the oppotunity to However i'm beginning to feel it might be time to move on and accept the fact that I have made a mistake by letting the depth of my feelings known.

What do you guys think? I am so confused because I really do love him.

dats wat they call a total control guy. Dat guy too much.Dats how all nija guys suppose dey

I once had it, but wont encourage it. Gives room 2 unfaithfulness. Only Gods strength can uphold.
U need 2 move on!
In ds era of gsm, distant relationship survives with regular communications. If he ignores u, he has a plan B.

Riodiao: dats wat they call a total control guy. Dat guy too much.Dats how all nija guys suppose dey

Really? Lol u think a lot of girls have the patience for childish mind games? Carry on deceiving yourself o...

Thank you to all those who have contributed constructively the more I read my post the clearer the writing is on the wall.