Have been in this relationship for over a year now.I met the girl while she was in her 3rd year in the university.We both accepted to go into the relationship though both of us just ended our previous relation.According to her, she had a misunderstanding with her BF(she didn't explain what happen
)Of 4yrs and both decided to call it off.Am done and dusted with my previous relationship but I have a feeling she is still holding back(maybe slightly) to her previous relation.I confronted her with this issue and she told me she still have feeling with dis guy cause dats d only guy in her life before me.She apologized for what she did in her words ?am good and you don't need to worry about it?.It looks as if she is stalking on her previous affair cause she send tag message to her ex.
I love this girl and I need your candid advice on it pls

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Brb too. Gotta say happy birthday to 190 first

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She is in her Finals now and well am not a student, working..

mcnepow:
CocoaLet, u are too sweet for dis kinda comment u dropped. His post was clear enof.

Aww this really touched me,but seriously i didn't understand it well enough.

Btw you didn't have to quote me.,modify osisor.

dotsa: She is in her Finals now and well am not a student, working..

Forgive my earlier comment,though you didn't find it offensive but someone else did so,i apologize.

Back to topic.

I honestly don't know the best advice to give but i think you should give her the benefit of the doubt and observe her,since she says she's done with the ex,don't pressure her about him,just watch her.

If her behavior towards you is not changing and she's not done anything to be suspicious of,besides tagging him in a photo,then i think you shouldn't worry too much.

freecocoa: Aww this really touched me,but seriously i didn't understand it well enough.

Btw you didn't have to quote me.,modify osisor.

Okay ma'am

@ freecocoa Apology accepted but I don't find it offensive anyway.

Thks for the advice but it not picture tagging it more of ?wish you here?, ?lonely without you? stuffs

It seems she is still attached to her ex and can never be truly yours until she can let go of her past. Why don't you try and find out what went wrong in her relationship with him? In the meantime give her some space as she admitted the truth to you. Some women are emotionally attached to their ex and takes a while to break free so be the best you can for her so she can move on with her life with you.

Mynd_44: Brb too. Gotta say happy birthday to 190 first

na so d birthday wish take long reach?

iyatrustee:

na so d birthday wish take long reach?

Yes

Thanks for the advice fellas but do you think patience will be good enough?

dotsa: Thanks for the advice fellas but do you think patience will be good enough?

Yes but not always

Hmmmm. Explain o cause I don't want to lose her

You can never completely trust anyone. Just cos she is in contact does not mean anything special is going on. But something might be going.
The best bet is to call her and talk to her about what you think is going. From there, you can deduce what to do

Hmmmmmm