ubunja:

you really need to chill and stop taking things personally.
these same fools are the same fools u will have to deal with shud u decide to get married.
winning a war of words doesnt really change anything. no matter what u believe WHETHER RIGHT OR WRONG u cant change what men think.
it doesnt matter what u believe unless u planning to marry yourself.
relax now.there are no prizes for internet debates.

You are still responding to me? lmfao, It's not about winning an INTERNET debate, I proved how brain washed you stupid, arrogant African men are. You are very quick to accept European religion, ideologies, and propaganda even when it has proven times without number to be detrimental to your wellbeing.

You guys most be ignorant. Rape and pedophilia is not on the increase, rather, people are hearing more about it due to (social) media platforms. PATRIARCHY IS DETRIMENTAL. THOSE WHO HAVE EAR LET THEM HEAR AND FIGHT AGAINST IT.

Debating with fools is such a waste of time.

onward4life:



Check my pics and see
Yu are definitely sliding onto the wrong Dcikk yet again!

Confused sister!

Lmfao, my point exactly. Aren't you living in a country that was carved, named and is being indirectly ran by a Caucasian? lmfao, they sanction the killing of the African indigenes. The more black Africans die the richer their economy gets. Do YOU have self determination in Nigeria?... hahhahaha.

ubunja:

take off your bra and see whether your breasts are what they were 5 yrs ago.then get back to me.i wont do long texts coz u are determined in your points.

You are indeed a fool. Sagging breast have a lot to do with genetics, Weight loss, smoking, large breasts, pregnancy,aging etc. There is no correlation of sagging breast to sex. You misogynistic men spread propaganda about the female anatomy to sway the ignorant masses into believing your lies.

I will not be responding to your stupid post, because you have no scientific evidence to back up what you are saying. You are just regurgitating a sexist rhetoric.

ubunja:

just name ONE matriarchal society i can go and google. just one.

Naming matriarchal societies is not a problem, you have not brought in any statistics or scientific proof to back up what you are saying. Is your brain lacking oxygen? Or are you part Neanderthal?

ubunja:

u speak like there is something special about being a woman in africa loooool
u are just a womb on legs

Of course there is something special being the first human on earth. The mother of civilization, the trend setter etc

Dcholeric:
madam shut up and face this situation stop crying gender thing. ..
women are more devils when it comes to child molesting ...because no one suspects them and male children generally don't have the courage to come out.

I was a victim ...(three different women at different stages in my life and these are close relatives or friends of family)....becoming an adult and discussing these things with fellow guys I found out that many guys were also affected while still young..

say no to child abuse (gender isn't the ish)

She is right it is a gender thing. After all majority, if not all ethnic groups in Nigeria are patriarchal. WE do not live in an EGALITARIAN society
I feel your pain and hope you were able to talk to a psychologist.
Your experience (horrendous) does not negate the fact that the ratio of male molesters to female molesters are unequal. With patriarchy comes the abuse of power and enforcing that power on those you view as subservient. That is why some religions allow 50 year old men to marry and SEXUALLY molest girls under 12 yrs old. If most of us look at our grandfathers, or, for some even fathers you will notice that a lot of these men 25-70 years marry girls that were 10-18 yrs old. A lot of us come from families of pedophiles and sexual molesters. Now mind you it was not viewed that way, actually it was normalized because of patriarchal culture.
So, to eradicate this problem, we are going to have to annihilate all Semitic religions and patriarchal cultures that are detrimental to the girl child and persecute those who fail to comply.
To stop female molesters, they will need sexual orientation to educate them why molesting of any sort is unacceptable. After that if they stray again then harsh punishments (like molesting them back) would be used...

ALL IN ALL, SEXUAL EDUCATION IS A DIRE NEED IN NIGERIA AND ALL OVER AFRICA. CONSEQUENCES OF MOLESTING SHOULD ALSO BE HIGHLIGHTED.

ubunja:

Patriarchy keeps the world turning.
nowhere in the history of the world has there ever been a Matriarchal society (led by women) that ever lasted.or prospered.
its not coincidence or chance that EVERY NATION in EVERY AGE in EVERY CONTINENT has always been led by men.with women playing a secondary role.men are capable.just as Adam was capable on his own.and Eve was created just because ADAM WAS LONELY. not that Adam couldnt make it.
Dear women dont f*ck up the one job nature gave u(childbirth)while u try to do a job nature never assigned u(ruling).
stay in your lane. Hilary Clinton learnt the lesson.Grace Mugabe is learning the lesson.Theresa May is being ejected by her own party.Angela Markel just royally f*cked up her own country.

Your are only echoing a European ideology. Matriarchy is very much part of Africa. I see you using the religious narrative in your rebuttal, but it is futile because that religion and many others are fake stories put together to conquer African psychology.
Every nation has not always been led by men, and women did not play a secondary role. Do you know African history at all? What is foreign to Africa is patriarchy, most certainly it's European form.

I do not get where your assumptions of me being a feminist came from. I AM NOT A FEMINIST, for in feminism there is also racism. Black and white women are not seen as equals.
I AM FOR THE SELF ACTUALIZATION/DETERMINATION OF BLACK AFRICAN WOMEN.

ubunja:

if " a lot if African men state patriarchal cultural and religious ideologies as fact" where will u find the men who will "exempt the biological truth"?
if the majority of men believe it does it really matter what biology says?
look Feminism is a western concept.and its already fading.coz women were given power then chose to use that power to stop getting married and stop getting pregnant.the result being that the West's population stagnanted and the active working ages between 18 and 35 became overburdened with carrying the old population relying on pensions and govermnent aid.the solution they devised: import workers,in the form of muslim men. but these millions of young men are from the most mysoginistic culture of all time.the very enemy of women's rights.and its a culture that never adapts.it demands the host nations change to accomodate it.not the other way round.what a cruel irony.women demanded power only to use that power to destroy themselves.
its like a joke what feminists are doing.LOOOOOOOOL.

What in the actual Bleep? lmao. So let me get this straight... you negate actual science and say the biological evidence that proves men do not have monopoly over sex is wrong? Ok... If men negate biology then they are living in denial.
If you do not know, the masses in Africa practiced matriarchy before the coming of semitic religions. There are still matriarchal religions in Africa today, though not as much as before. With patriarchy came religions that sanctified their beliefs, WARRR, RAPE OF WOMEN, PILLAGE, INFRASTRUCTURE, POLITICS OF SEX, HOMOPHOBIA ( WHILE STILL PRACTICING IT- HYPOCRISY), GREED, WICKEDNESS, SLAVERY, THE IDEA OF BUILDING AN ECONOMY TO THE DETRIMENT OF OTHERS, STEALING, CAPITALISM, LIEING ABOUT HISTORY, CONQUEST ETC.

ubunja:

guys never lose shape coz of sex.
women on the other hand...droopy breats, sagging bum, borehole pvssy.
u become just a mess

Arrant rubbish again. Provide the sources that claim the anatomy of the female changes to the examples you provided because of sex . Stop making outrageous claims out of your anus. Do you know about the female anatomy? Do you know the vagina is a muscle? Do you also know that vagina prolapse cannot be caused by a penis? A prolapse can be caused by weak vagina muscles and other factors, but believe you me the penis isn't one of them. You speak with so much pride for someone who is really ignorant.

. Have u heard of the lock and key principle ?
A key that opens every lock is called a "Master key" ; but a lock opened by every key is a useless lock...

My dear sister ; it is a man's world ; trying to reassert your feminist doctrine will do u no good, as u shall only find urself rigmarole a lost cause...

My 1 cent...

That "saying" is what misogynist say to stroke their ego. Where is your hardcore unbiased scientific proof that proved men have monopoly over sex.
LMFAO, a lot of African men state patriarchal cultural and religious ideologies as fact but exempt the biological truth.

Only fickle minded, docile black women can be bamboozled into believing this fallacy.

dhardline:
Some women have sold themselves for peanuts. This is poverty of the mind.

You are absolutely right. Patriarchy has caused a recline in the African psyche/society. It's a malignant tumor that needs to cutout with immediate effect.

onward4life:
Painful hw I keep begging ladies

To manage me

Just See these beaches eh

Later wan pikin go sing sweet mother

Dats y am not yet married

Can't make his hoe a house wife

Or d mother of my baby.

But If I Get Money eh..

Reasoning like yours is why white supremacist both overt and covert think you are beneath them, cannot run a society without them, kill you at will, say you are a monkey/unintelligent. They use their belief in the bible and biased scientific studies to prove their points. You see man, you are a misogynistic bastard who like most black men deserve the ill treatment of white men/women.

faruz:
I go use her act porn



Contact me when she's 15..... Aye le ooooo ...


Dem Don dey negotiate the gal future.......

You are a pedophile and a rapist.

2dugged:
that is another angle entirely,i am more concerned about keeping their issues of social media, let law or tradition take from its course, simple

Patriarchal laws or tradition that favor men? LMFAO...I JUST CAN'T

2dugged:
before the advent of social media, issues like this was settled in a living room with senior members of both the husband and wife present, and there and then the issues are trashed out, sometimes it takes hours of deliberation, bickering and tantrums from both parties, and finally the matter is settled,this is what I saw growing up

Honey women suffer in a patriarchal society. So of course problems were resolved because women are suppose to "know their place" or "understand" irrespective of the emotional, physical, mental, and financial abuse they faced.

Nukilia:
Wise women build their own house, but ....... Women use their own hands to pull it down

Weak women get controlled by patriarchy. Weak women perpetrate patriarchal ideologies even to their own detriment.

HsLBroker:
Getting tired of broken homes

You should be tired of patriarchy. It is the cause of most of the problem in Africa.

African/Blacks are demented. Only group of people with no self determination. Everything they are, are defined by Caucasians. Disgusting, You motherfuckerz should just annihilate yourselves.

Igbo people and inclusion? Disgusting!! They will forever be at the bottom.

bigfrancis21:
Oh yes, I think it well does. Another example woukd be Yorubas, especially those living in Lagos or the SW, who are known to be unwilling to learn other Nigerian languages, because several non-Yorubas understand and speak the language. Some Yorubas would even speak Yoruba to you not caring if you are Yoruba or not, and expect you to understand or speak it. Thus, many of them do not feel the need to learn other Nigerian languages when others understand them when they speak.

If you choose to call it ego as you see it from your distant point of view, it is your wish but as an insider, my Anambra people I know do not see it that way. I speak from experience.

It has a lot to do with ego and belittling. The yorubas were a perfect example because they are first to scream one Nigeria but are not willing to do the needy to make it one Nigeria. Living with other cultures means that you learn theirs the same way they learn yours. Anything short of that is bullshiiiit. People need to stop lying.

ChinenyeN:

Let me understand, are you using 'Onitsha' as a general term for 'northernizing' one's speech? i.e. consciously switching from /h/ to /f/, as an example? If that's the case, then I can understand this statement. I've seen this happen, but it typically happens when /h/-speakers communicate with /f/-speakers and almost never when /h/-speakers communicate with /h/-speakers. In fact most /h/-speakers will tell you that they feel as though they have to go out of their way for /f/-speakers for two reasons:
1) /f/-speech is practically th only thing /f/-speakers have any real familiarity with.
2) /f/-speakers pretty much never go of their way to switch for /h/-speakers.

The general consensus is that most /f/-speakers would be lost when interacting with /h/-speakers. So, for the sake of intelligibility and to cut down time, /h/-speakers will go out of their way for /f/-speakers. However, in literary communication, that is not the case. Izugbe or Central becomes the mode of speech by which /h/-speakers communicate with /f/-speakers, and you will rarely ever see an /h/-speaker make that switch from /h/ to /f/, unless out of some courtesy or playfully.

If #2 is right, then the egos of those people needs to be eradicated. I don't get it at all... how F speakers cannot go out their way to H speakers.

Ihuomadinihu:
I would suggest we just stick to original pattern where Onitsha igbo is used in the Northern region and Owerri-Umuahia dialect is used in the Southern regions. I don't know where you got the impression that onitsha igbo is used in the South?
Biko,onitsha igbo is no where popular in the south. People just speak a mixture of Owerri,Umuahia and Aba igbo.
I prefer a gradual rise of a Standard igbo dialect instead of forcing a particular dialect on igbo people.

Gradual rise of standard igbo is not a good thing. We need igbo to rise fast. If you ask me every igbo person should be able to speak the popular igbo dialects. You should not only know igbo izugbe and your dialect but you should know atleast 5 other dialects.

loffyloffy:
Please don't lets get this confused

The lady Otobo is charged with blackmail..Not with sleeping with the Apostle..

She is charged with trying to extort Money from him illegally. It is not relevant wether they did have an affair or not. They are both adults,and there is no law in Nigeria against two consenting adults having an affair..But blackmail is a serious crime.

The Apostle may have or may have not slept with her(it's likely however that he did)..He has not broken any law of man. All he did is call the bluff of the lady and get her arrested.

The lady's case is not helped by the fact that she was caught in the process of withdrawing the proceeds of blackmail..That is like being caught red handed in a robbery.

Her subsequent attempt to expose their relationship would have been relevant if she had not been sing the facts to blackmail him.

This has nothing to do with wether they had an affair or not. The Apostle is faced with a moral issue while the lady is facing a criminal issue..This are distinct and separate

Isn't it disgusting that there are no man made rules to persecute people for cheating on their partners whether in a relationship or marriage?It is now normalized.

Jhasmin:
One thing I like about the Muslims is their loyalty to their brotherhood and to what they believe. Look at we Christians we are so quick to judge our own, to expose our own, to say nasty things about our own. You will think your doing the right thing, but we are making mockery ourselves. You will never see a Muslim man talking down at their own, or exposing their ugly deeds in public and they defend their belief to death but Christians don't even think there is need to do likewise.

And this is what is wrong with Africans, subscribing to foreign religions and using it against eachother how stupid?

sexaddict08:


you're right.
everybody dey fukk.
but he's a man of God and he is denying it.
why?
because he preaches against it n he's more of a hypocrite if its true.

Are you men condoning cheating? You do know he is married right? Women have suffered in this patriarchal society.

Women are truly suffering. She gets #50,000 while other babes get $50,000 and above a month. I wish ladies will wise up and be about their business. Learn life skills and tell a man to open business for you.

taiwoawoniyi:
When you are scantily dressed there will always be a man to take you out. When you are properly dressed, there will always be a man to take you home.

This trend of soft port in our country is a basing, annoying and embarrassing. Gone were the days where you had to pay the bride price of a woman to see her "feminity". Nowadays, it's on open display.
God help us.
My personal thoughts and opinions.

Why do African women need the validity of men to dress the way they want? Who do you guys think you are?

When will Nigerian lawyers stop wearing those white wigs? Is Nigerian an truly Independent Or is the thought of independence used to console their defeated minds?

ElsonMorali:


Oh yeah, you want us to get into it. I'm ready for you because I know that what you know about the civil war was what you were told by your folks or read from Igbo historians.

Are you denying that Ojukwu ran away?

Are you denying that instead of holding position at the east, He started matching toward the west?

By the way, I have modified my earlier comment to you.

Modified

Pray tell me, who was to blame for the war?

Wetin concern me if you modified your comment? Like I said earlier I know the objective truth. I do not care to know your opinions.