smileysmiley:
what do you men actually want was she expected to leave her job and relocate all the way to mowe... if she had done that now you guys will still flood here and call her a low life, a gold digger, a woman with no values for leaving her life behind to follow a man, its not called pride my brother, its integrity. If the guy cared he would have allowed them to get to a point of compromise, 4 years no be beans... and pleeeaaaasseee about her feeling like she's better than the guy's wife, who wouldn't? its no hidden fact that we all feel really cool if our ex gets someone below us as the new bae, even you should be guilty of that too, so free the babe abeg

Rollar:

Ehn
See dis yeye pikin oh. Na ur papa nyash you dey open for public lyk dis?
You're right, but I maintain, anybody that goes to such great lengths to prove she's over somebody that jilted her, is obviously in denial. Whatever her reason for going to that party, to show the guy what he's missing or to rattle him, she's clearly bitter that he left her.
I understand the fact that moving may have been detrimental to her business, but calling his bluff to go and meet another lady, just because he hurt her ego by insinuating he could get someone else was reckless. She has no idea what made him so adamant. Maybe his parents/family members/peers were unaware of the consequences of her moving and were mocking his manhood for his inability to 'be a man.' Bet that possibility wasn't taken into consideration. You know as Africans, our parents have great influence over our actions (whether we like it or not) she says they could afford a house in Lagos, but what if the guy doubted his ability to keep up with subsequent rents and didn't want to risk having to depend on her to put a roof over his head? She sounds like the type that would still turn around to open a thread about how her useless boyfriend was depending on her for rent. The dude had a free house to stay in and he saw no sense in passing up the opportunity. It was left for her to calm him down and make him see things her way in a mature manner, instead of lashing back at him for bruising her pride

Alezy:
This is the reason why some girls won't get husband's for themselves till they re 45.

move with him where he is moving to u said no, u started giving attitude.

You shouted on him to go marry a lady who could move with him. probably because you where pissed but you forgot to say sorry if u really was still interested in him.

He moves out to get someone else who is ready to move with him and be at peace with it.

He even came introducing her to u, and you gave your go ahead to it.

He is getting married now ur going to disturb. to what end?? let's wait and see when u get married, as u wanna create pains in someone else's marriage.

And people are cheering you up......Na Wa

DeMekus:

Did rape my mother?

MarieSucre:


Are you a female? No. so how can you say for certain that females are not hardhearted. Here women are telling that they can be hardhearted you're still arguing blindly. Its just like arguing with a Chinese man whether Chinese are hardhearted or not? Are you Chinese? let the experts who have been female all their lives teach you. humble yourself and learn.

fitinwell:
[size=18pt]Nigerian single ladies..I hope watching too much of Hollywood movies... Won't finish your lifes[/size]

Alezy:
Who is this, what's up with ur deal with it replies up there??

so what the op did now is just very correct to u right??

DeMekus:

Mumu, are you not supposed to be a mother yet? Keep living in delusion, MENOPAUSE awaits you.

Eliba:
you did that just to mock at him and make him feel bad. It's OK just know that what wasn't meant for you, is not for you no matter how u force it

sainty2k3:

hello op.(don't tell me you are not we all know with the way you are jumping all over replying and attacking people.)

pleas take Note.
what you had at your ex wedding was a show of shame born out of hurt and broken heart. when you recover from the hurt you will deeply regret ever going so low to that extent.

your ex was stupid for ever shedding a drop of tear. if that's part is not cooked up .
you sound very proud and arrogant, no man will ever marry you with that attitude.( reasons- you feel your beauty or figure is enough to make him miss you, you think you av more worth than the akwaibom babe. you think guys only want pretty face, so you left your heart unkept with arrogance and proud)

move on with life. make sure you learn as much as possible from this mistake or else you are not far from having another ex

Bigcake:
sounds more like a true description of my mother.... sounds more like a true description of my mother....

HIV1:

Thunder fire you na your mama you dey refer to.Anyway , I don't blame you truth is bitter.

ewizard1:

icedbeatz:
why do you have to involve his mom in this when he never mentioned your family? Why?

safarigirl:
so all the people living in Mowe are jobless?

Did she seek some transfer or check for available job options there or was she more concerned about her status of 'working and living on the island' being depleted?


Anyway, the man is now married to the village girl who doesn't mind living in Mowe and she still has her job so I guess everyone is contented

Like I said, having suitors is one thing, but going by our Island big girl's standards, having eligible suitors will be another for her.

morganacanta:
But he left you for that local akwa ibom girl?
Your ppoint?

HIV1:
The guy don chop your pomo tire, go get new and better orisirisi and you are here feeling proud. You sold yourself cheaply living with a guy who had not paid your dowry. You need to pray very well to get husband on time. Besides what makes you think you are better than the other lady. I will rather marry a woman who cam pound yam than one who is fluent in English

Bigcake:
Do i look like your playmate?

DeMekus:

Keep hiding your pain behind that Nokia screen. Better go and marry.

Eliba:
admire what?that she spoilt someone's wedding day. I know is painful but the girl is innocent

Bigcake:
she just came to announce her single status. Who knows she may be lucky to get a husband. But the truth is, not every lady can be so favoured like Olajumoke '' the agege bread seller''.

DeMekus:

God bless you! Who could believe that a girl of such poor beginning would be the talk of the moment someday? I pity the Miss Queens English and her arrogance. It will soon dawn on her that the village Akwa Ibom girl is, by marriage status, her senior. LMAO!

icedbeatz:
acting or pretending is a game every female sure knows how to play. Being self centered nevers plays well in relationships now she's crying blue murder, hope the spiritual suitors are already there with her though ;-)

DeMekus:
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Or better go get yourself laid by street dogs if you can't find a wet transformer.

DeMekus:
[s][/s]
Is there no wet transformer in your neighborhood? Go give it a hug.

menix:


why is it that kids whose parent are stup1d then to suspect others...

Yes am violent, no doubt, check my signature to confirm violent is an understatement, if not u re behind a computer, i would ve taken you to Jaja...

safarigirl:
moving to Move is part of compromise.

He's probably paying rent in that house on the mainland she was willing to move with him to as opposed to his father's house that is free. I would rather move to the free house and take a Lil extra stress than worry about house rent yearly.

Help your man save, not spend.

Has other suitors that you brought for her abi?

The man sha don marry, a woman can have 50 suitors but none is marriageable, she should continue feeling like Miss World at other people's weddings. Next year, she will jam that guy and the 'village' girl with a protruding stomach at some other event and she will be there with a 'suitor'


Make Una dey clap for her, eventually she will either marry her career or probably move to Ota with her eventual husband.

Her act was the actions of a pained woman.

creamylicious:
The man is just scared that the lady has got excellent career goals,, she therefore may not 'submit' to him... He has found the one to show his macho manliness to.

icedbeatz:
neither did i type that men are hard-hearted, females are very emotional and fragile and needs to be handled with care. The ones that acts tough are the insecure ones, hurting, hrtbroken, bitter and so on who feels like they have to prove something which really makes no damn sense. Case file, the op. She felt she had to dress up and pay for makeup artiste or someone to make her look very pretty so that she can go and showcase and prove to their friends that she wasn't hurt and she actually feels great and shitt when she really isn't i guess maybe she still cries about losing the mofo but just gotta pretend to herself, living in denial. Its 4years ffs a player would feel something let alone someone you claim you love and been hustling with. I bet her defence is up like a mofo against guys but she is delaying her healing process thereby hurting herself more and as for you, you can relate to her situation thats why you feel the need to defend her like a lioness or something y'all need to forgive them niggas and not let the bitterness linger. The world is too beautiful for one to waste time on shitty things.

safarigirl:
Quite childish. If he meant any malice, he wouldn't have told you of the wedding.


You opened your mouth and told a man to go find some other lady that can move with him to Mowe and you thought he wouldn't? Even if na you be Beyonce sef, you don't dare a man.


Anyway, after making a fool of yourself at someone else's wedding, I hope you now have a man who lives on the Island?

You're 25, not 15. Act your age

DeMekus:


And I was beginning to believe your epistle until I got here...




You're a pathological liar, a Nollywood star wannabe. To think you're any better than a girl from Akwa Ibom makes you a conglomerate of intellectual constipation. If you were half as beautiful as you want us to believe, you would have your DP in your profile....or at steal one from Facebook like they do in the Romance Section. And you condemned her English, calling her a "village girl" when you can barely make a complete statement without blunders. To sum it up, your incapability to be a wife is the reason your ex dumped your ass. You faked this story to console your pains.