since you're truly and totally married, I advice you to face your front, mind your business and talk to God.... as a Christian, especially as you haven't hinted in anyway that the marriage is life threatening.
It is well.

Time and opportunities don't come our way everyday.
instead of wasting your time here, go where your skills would be appreciated, where there is a system that works, where you can school and earn at the same time. where you can get s qualification that would be respected anywhere in the world.
It may not be easy at first, but it would get easier

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far from it, I don't show people I have money. I remain my normal person when I hav and when I don't. My colleague only pleaded base on our monthly cash we just received. Thanks for contribution[/quote

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you both received monthly cash and your so called friend thinks adding yours to his or hers is friendship abi, maybe they feel you've got nothing to do with money.
make a budget of your monthly expenses, add emergency expenditures , add miscellaneous subtract from your salary.
Also decide the percentage you're willing to dash out maybe in form of loan or assistance,once that percentage is over that's the end.
The remaining is your excess or available cash, save some and invest the rest, that way you can sincerely look at people in the eyes and tell them you've got no money to give.

ejibaba:


I disagree with you sir! This mind set is wrong...He will win and we are set to make it possible else there will be revolution.

The revolution has begun already, it starts with the mind of the people.

Am I the only one that noticed that the man's English grammar needs help?

@op, nice post but sadly my spouse is not around . All this kind of posts that make someone to be feeling somehow .Chai

If So wore doesn't win at least we know he made an effort, raised awareness that it is possible to put up a fight against the political bull dogs being recycled.
And am sure he is giving hope to another youth somewhere in Nigeria to believe and do something about his political ambition.
#Get your Pvc
#Youths are not inconsequential
#The battle is at the election grounds not the social media

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you came out from under us or within us in the case of CS birth,
you sucked and we nurtured you with milk from our mammalian gland, which is close to the heart.
Even you, you might love your father and male siblings but am sure when it comes to your mother and sisters it's a bit more

mine is a single slap I'll never forget, we went for a wedding in Ibadan, after the couple left, some people started forming their own table usual owambe, I sat down with the other bridal train and grooms men, I was a teenager and part of the bridal train, that's how they brought out palmwine o and started serving, me I said no but they said I shouldn't worry, they put sugar that it won't intoxicate, hmm
That's how my able mother saw a cup in front of me from a very far distance, reached my side like Hussein Bolt, gave me just one sharp slap like that who off the light kind , I was young but even now that am older, whenever I see palmwine I hear the sharp slap.

Alexk2:

Greedy man; useless culture! She's your sister and no matter what that your culture says, she shouldn't be treated like an outsider until she's at least established in her husband's house. There is alot that's just too wrong with African cultures.
That is not to say I'm supporting her indecisive attitude.

I agree with you, useless culture, annoying thing is she moves to the man's house and then his culture too might be t
wives don't inherit anything.
@op have you even considered if the man is good for her or not, his character and background, if they love each other or if he can make her happy, you don't mind pushing her into the arms of a stranger you only read about on her phone as long as she's out of your inheritance, Biko go and advise yourself.

what has gender got to do with your problem,
Am female and have got three brothers, two of them are the best brothers anyone would wish for despite the fact that the other one is still an undergraduate he is a multi instrumentalist and huzzles hard.
summary... Gender has nothing to do with your situation, get a life!!!!!

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omocalabar:
Waste of funds,..when ur Yoruba people will be pooing and peeing everywhere

I have a dream that one day tribalistic bigots on Nairaland would learn to intellectually and constructively express themselves without resorting to offensive tactics that expose their mental incapability to intelligently decipher and analyse socio political issues, or maybe they would just suddenly increase their cognitive ability and understand it's alright to just read and walk away.

GavelSlam:


Please tell me which advanced nation doesn't have a high debt profile or at least 35% tax on its citizens.

As soon as you give me a list of advanced, developed or civilised nations where the debts incured are looted with impunity, not fully or judiciously used for what they were earmarked for, while at it sir include the list of the nations where monkeys, snakes and animals in human form swallow or guzzle money changing their diet all of a sudden, thanks.

Difference between Lagos and other states is simple... Lagos governors steal money intellectually, use part for capital projects that all can see then spend or invest the remaining money to increase the value for themselves.
Before you start applauding just remember that you will pay and your generation unborn would still keep paying the debt Lagos has accumulated.

Marriage is too long a journey to force anyone along
your wife has to make up her mind where her loyalty lies
Your business is not with your in-laws but your wife, off she doesn't give the opening they won't have a way to come in and disrupt your marriage.
if you use every persuasive technique you know and she is still adamant ,please leave her to realize her mistake.
marriage is too large a burden for only one shoulder to carry, the shoulder would either suffer dislocation or get broken
take care

Op is one of those Nigerian doctors that a sick person visits and all they treat is malaria with typhoid all the time, every time test or not test

Go get natural soap, with no chemicals.

hausadreturn:
Like some had said, NOUN is for people who are busy, who already have a job, etc. Like the person whose housemaid is a student of NOUN. You dont necessarily expect a 16-20 year old student to attend NOUN. It wouldnt make sense.
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It's also important to note that conventional universities offer a wider experience than NOUN. There're people to see and to communicate with, there're sports, religious activies, social life, etc.
All these helps to promote learning.

I believe serious NOUN students most have more experience than the conventional university students, because they have the time to engage in other activities, different from academics, some are already working in the field so they have theoretical and practical experience, there are 16- 20 yrs students in NOUN, some rent hostels and attend private tutorials like conventional schools, at least I know of Ibadan, in Osogbo they even get lecturers from conventional universities, while some in Lagos take lectures with them in Unilag or Lady, everything in life depends on individuals, there are serious and unserious students in every institution,as per settling lecturers I won't say never because nothing is impossible though it's hard to believe my response is that it can't be as bad as it is in conventional universities,that is if it is happening in NOUN, since myself and most comments here show that we don't know about the sorting of lecturers. In all what matters is how much you can get into Your bank account not necessarily your certificate.

I remember a classmate then in Lasu asking me to go bribe the lecturers, because I had C in a course and she had B, we both knew she wasn't that brilliant. I was single
I am writing my last paper in NOUN now with 4+ point, second class upper ,married with kids and am proud because I know it is the work of my hand totally plus I never for once attended any form of private tutorial some organise.
Nothing is perfect, but NOUN is near perfect also don't forget that conventional or not, your experience also depends on the kind of person you are,in NOUN am more assured of being awarded the score of what I wrote and no intimidation, victimisation or cult related issues. There are lazy students everywhere, but NOUN makes it near impossible for lazy students to survive.

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Chikita66:
Do you know that my dream man might differ from another woman's dream man, her dream man might be to marry an oil company worker that is tall, handsome this and that, and my dream man will be another thing entirely all together which is plausible, having said this, a lady can marry her dream man.

How possible is it for your spouse to be exactly exact what you dream of,in every aspect, to the exact extent you want it, at the exact place and time and in the exact way you want it?
if it does happen, there shouldn't be quarrels in relationships nor high rate of divorce