ojun50:
I will blame the word love,
love na scam them dey take use each other

Preciousgirl:



Hmm thank you oo, though not easy

Yigiyaga:
Nna the boy mumu na endless .

greatnaija01:
it is a SOUL TIE. what is usually called BONDING but on a very HIGH LEVEL.

you would need a THERAPIST, PSYCHOLOGIST and a strong MAN OF GOD to help you break free, REPLACE him with your HUSBAND again and MOVE ON FORGIVING YOURSELF.

Yigiyaga:
Nna welu nwanyior! Ndi ana akpo Amaka kwanu?

starring:

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

SalafRider:
Ups and down in relationships doesn't necessarily mean someone cheat or got cheated on. It might be financial struggle, compatibility issues, cultural differences or stuffs like that. It might not be cheating at all sha, just saying...

JoeMaddog:
Whenever I hear a 'hoe say I've been through a lot.

I'll be like "shut it bittch, you mean a lot has been through you"

Gaspardd:

Lol, no be so but just imagine your daughter comes home with a man shes been talking about, and he says he's a zoo keeper, how wud you feel?

WilliamsChelster:
You tell a lady you’re a zoo keeper and expect her to instantly like you

Gaspardd:

Hmmm good, but since the places you meet ladies are limited maybe church or sth which is good. But some ladies will just fùck your brain up when you see them across the street or sth, in this case i just assume you would just look the other way or just have a fit of stare.

MariaLavina:
but there is currently a break in transmission.

Marvyx:
Chronological age doesn't determine emotional maturity.

Are you ready for a woman now? Because trust me, they come with a lot of baggage. They can kill you before your time.

So... Are you ready? If yes, meet Ubunja.

lefulefu:

MissRaine69:

Tired of reading about these whining ninjas who are in relationships with kids.

shogsman:


What does not kill you makes you stronger ke,e be like day you never get accident b4.

MissRaine69:


Can you two kindly break up and do all of us a favour? This won’t end .
This tit for tat behaviour is what juveniles do not adults.
You are both immature if you cannot resolve your differences. You beg , she pretends, she then goes and does something to get even and nothing gets resolved .
Neither of you is emotionally intelligent enough to realise that there is no trust here. This is not a relationship if there is no trust.
She needs to move out.

Dipsie:


Thank you, she going the extra mile is an issue to be worried about.
She has made mistakes too which hardly led to anything extra like this has.
Thanks for your response

Margy:
OP!

I am going to write a few things for you!
First do not, I repeat do not listen to most advise you see above.. some people are broken and speak out of their brokenness! They never say anything good.

I do not believe in judging a case from one side, if only I hear her part of the story, then I'll advice accordingly!

But, from this single story of yours, why on earth will you destroy the trust you both built for 3 years in a twinkling of an eye!

First, you invited a female colleague to your house, and never deem it fit to tell the one you love forehand? You broke trust,
Secondly, you commented on a post you are available, that means you don't appreciate and value the woman you have!

No girl, no girl will take this likely, it takes time to build trust but this trust can be destroyed in seconds. You broke the trust. Now, she'll never forget!.. some thing in her will keep telling her to act fast. I am not surprise she already found someone taking her to work! Trust me, she is trying to find solace! She might not even like that dude.
I guess, this is the only time she has defaulted...
Now, you fix it. Fix what you've broken! Make your ways straight, value her and stop trying to compare her!. Tell her everything, nothing is hidden under this earth. If after 3years because a man picks her up you want to breakup with her!!! Then you are sailing on a wrong boat.

Read my lips: There is no good girl out there! Mould the one you have, stick to her.... las las..na the same anatomy all girls have and na the same werey all girls have it all depends how you press the button.

That girl loves you! Fix this

Trendytessy:


I always like your comments
Good day ma