I Escorted a friend to go get his lunch, after a long day of hustle.
He decided to buy bread and mineral, because of bottle, he had to eat it there.
As he was eating, within a second he say make we dey go fah.
I say what about your mineral now?..
He replied that he fill like to vomit, so he pour away the mineral and took the bread.
As we were walking back, I noticed he was continue staring at one albino on the roadside. that same albino walked passed us, not quite long.
Damn, then I knew what was wrong.
I was pissed, but what am I to say,

nigerias are the most bias creatures on this planet earth, you see them treat an individual like a lesser man Once they know is deaf and dumb, talkless an albino, or cripple that needs no introduction.

Peaceagain:

Why put someone in the family way when you are still a child. Let this girl go, don't go and spoil her life. Don't be the reason why she will end up selling akara by the roadside. If you truely love this girl as you claim, then sit for JAMB, get admission, get a job by the side to help yourself, finish school and make something good of yourself. I bet you, her mother will be your number one fan. That you have a d**k does not make you a man. When you understand life, you will know how best to make decisions. But biko, leave the girl and her mother alone. Hoping to hear that you have gained admission or learnt a trade. Anything short of this bro, you will always be considered less of a man.

Have been feeding and fending for myself since I was 15, I don't know who you are calling a child here.

Is it because I said I still live with my parent's? Do you think because I live with them I rely on them fully.


My friend come down from your high horse and take a trip to the street and see self made men.

I No be butter o.

Agbebakun22:



I hope so too, I have a friend in similar shoe like u oo, I no say na love dey shack u well but I'm happy ur parent's are willing to take responsibilities, sha go hustle hard and be supportive to your parents cux u raising a child while going to sch is a big task and besides u just delay that girl dream too maybe that's why her parents what to abort the foetus

Yes I love her, and she loves me back for her to call me last night with a teary voice, hoping I do something about it.
I was the one who even pester her to tell her parents, she wanted to keep it hidden, till they find out by themselves.

Honestly speaking, reading comments from nairalanders castigating me because of what I do to sustain my self (tearing ticket working for my local government council) saying am a tout obviously brought me alot of motivations to do better.

Agbebakun22:



Thank God you're still a teen, if go do anyhow forget am dem fit lock u for cell since u no wan get sense so. If u like carry ur community youths go commit nuisance in their house it will definitely show who her mom said u are.. My advice for u is to tell elders that her parents respect and carry dem go see them and assured them u are willing to accept responsibilities

No, not to constitute nuisance, you all got me wrong.
I spoked with the street vice chairman about it which he suggested we should go and have a sit down with her parents.

Since I have limited time to convince my own parents to go and plea on my behalf.(especially my dad)

The thing is you all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

Offpoint1:

Whatever you do, her parents have the final decision. You're not legally married to her, nor do they have your consent in impregnating their kid, so you have ZERO right.

Thread carefully or it might end very badly for you.

I think I understand now
thanks.

Newboss:


Deceiving myself? You don't know how much Nigerians hate the word "abortion". They can even lynch a person for abortion.

If the guy wanted the abortion, no problem. But the girl's family cannot make that decision alone. He did not rape her. He should get the community involved. It's only at community level that there is justice for the common man because Nigerian police can be bought

Exactly, which I spoke with our street vice chairman, he said we should have a sit down with her parents.

The thing is they all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight a war, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

Please don't respond to that guy again, he has quoted me several times, which I ignored.

Offpoint1:
The audacity...
You ruin my baby girl life and still have the audacity to bring thugs to my house... I'll have you murder in the most gruesome way never known to mankind.

No, not to constitute nuisance, you all got me wrong.
I spoked with the street vice chairman about it which he suggested we should go and have a sit down with her parents.

Since I have limited time to convince my own parents to go and plea on my behalf.(especially my dad)

The thing is you all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

paprika212:
Easy nah, gosh

Bitter truth my brother, laugh wan finish me





You see why her mom said you're a tout?

You want to take boys to their house to constitute nuisance.

Gbola = Active
Sense = inactive

No, not to constitute nuisance, you all got me wrong.
I spoked with the street vice chairman about it which he suggested we should go and have a sit down with her parents.

Since I have limited time to convince my own parents to go and plea on my behalf.(especially my dad)

The thing is you all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

Anyways, have heard all your inputs.

Tombilly:
Life is sacred and the dignity of every human must be preserved whether at birth, adulthood or as foetus. It's God's commandments that we shouldn't kill. Though the process might be unauthorised but to God belongs mercy and forgiveness for we all have sinned.
My advice to you;
Instead of taking community youths, I'll advice you to take the elders instead. If you go there, prostrate and remain there as you beg for their mercy. Tell them you have wronged them beyond what words can express, that for this singular reason you're ready to turn a new live. That they shouldn't take away this opportunity from you that they'll remain in your gratitude forever if they forgive you and let your baby live.
Every parent have ambition for their child your act (though collective) has and may affect that ambition so their anger now is understandable but not justifiable because no one can justify murder especially that of the innocent.

Thanks sir.

HelipsTech:
Everyone is attacking you, they forgot that you had a consentual sex, so the mistake was done by you both.

Most person would not understand until they impregnate a girl.
It takes a lot of courage to terminate your child regardless of the situation you are.

Bro I will not condemn you, because I am in your situation now, but I am older than you.

Abortion is never an option, never allow her go for it because her life is at the line, and you could enter a bigger problem than this if she dies.
The deed has been done, go with your family to meet her family, and a common ground should be reached. If they insists on abortion, sign an agreement not to be held responsible if anything happens to her.

Try and figure out how you take care of them.
On the long run you be happy seeing your child.
No go fight den

Some persons claiming saints here aborts all there children without remorse but are quick to rubbish you.
Some persons would not also have children too, but God has given us, although we facilitated ours at the wrong time,

Trust me we can still be what we want to, she too can, dreams die when we die.

Thanks very much.

generalwo:
..... You do menial jobs... U tear tickets and instead of you to face your life and see what you can make of it..... U decided to tear someone else's child pvssy.... I don't know what is wrong with children of these days.... You know say you no get money.... U dey find woman....as if e no reach, you give am Belle join..... So if the girl delivers, where will the child and the mother stay? Under your parents roof abi? And who will be feeding both of them? Abi you think say na 20k a month them take dey feed new born baby and her mother? I earn 6 figures every month, I am in my early 30s and I live alone..... I got my girlfriend pregnant and till today, I still find if difficult to make certain provisions for both mother and child.... My daughter is a year plus and I have not had sex since then because I dey fear pregnancy like another thing these days..... talkless of you wen dey tear ticket...... I am not trying to scold you or insult you but you fvcked up..... I don't support abortion as the way out but I won't blame the girl's mother for how she thinks because no woman will want to see her kids suffer.... If na dangote son of 16 give that girl Belle..... I bet you, her mother will protect that pregnancy with her life....the mistake has been made.... Pray for forgiveness and hustle more..... At your age, your education should be top of your priorities not women..... But as e Don be like this, na for you to continue to plead with the woman make she no abort the Belle.... Nobody like inlaw wen no get money....

Thanks, I understand.

Charisma01:


Don't mind all these stupid comments here.
Go with your family & some elders.
Appeal to her family that you with the support of your family are ready to take care of your child & their daughter.
Tell them how you plan to better your life so they can trust you.
If you intend to settle down with the girl, on no account must you disrespect her family.

Thank you very much sir.
I will

Prenonjebose:

How old is the girl?

We both same age group

24brains:
have you paid her price? NO! did they arrest you for impregnating a minor? NO! at 19, can you carter for a family while still living under your parents? NO!

She's not a minor, we both same age group

od501:


Sorry oo op, how old is this your girlfriend?

We are both same age.

DBestDoc:


Lol, this boy is so entitled ee,
So you do not care that you’ve almost ruined that girl’s life? She’s also a teenager I’m sure and you want her to be burdened with the responsibilities of motherhood.

People do very abominable things with so much confidence these days that I can’t help but shudder in dismay.

If it were in the days when things were better, the parents of that girl would be the ones coming to your family with the community youths to discipline you for bringing them so much embarrassment and pain today, you the offender is contemplating going to their home to add salt to injury. Hahaha, I’ve seen it all.

Please don’t go causing that family more trouble, let them take their decision as they deem fit ‘cause they’d be the ones to bear any consequences that may arise from this mess you guys have created. Give them some space and use a condom next time.

You’ll have your offsprings when the time is right.

It's because am not a rich Yahoo boy that's why.

The girl loves me, her parents just forcing her to do the abortion.

When she called yesterday she was crying, I can tell from her voice she don't want to.

Yes am entitled, it's my child.

I won't let it happen.

Magnoliaa:


What about the girl? Does she want to keep the child as well? Can she not convince her parents? You mentioned her parents being wealthy and so I know it the matter of helping their daughter in taking care of the child wouldn't even be a problem, but they are are against it because of the social status and ''stigma''.

She called me yesterday crying, I can tell from her voice, she don't want to do it.
She's almost same age as I am but we both still live with our parents.

It even took her days before she told her parent.

Favfables:


You're missing the entire point OP, this is not a matter of being a Yahoo boy or a rich dude, ask yourself one question, do you have the capacity to PROPERLY take care of a child? (Without support from anyone)

Please if the answer is no allow that girl and her family be...

You're lucky the family are not intending to make trouble with you...

What if they allowed the child to be born and force you to pay a child upkeep, will you be able to meet their demand?
What if they force you to marry her daughter, would you still "love" her this much in the near future, abi you go transfer agression for her body?

Let's be real here, the presence of a child when you're not ready will put a halt in your growth in all areas of your life...

You may not be able to further your education, you may not be able to make certain life changing investments, you may not be able to achieve your goals...why??

Because the resources you have as well as your time and energy will go towards the child and the left overs (if any) may not be enough to grow yourself as rapidly as you'd want to...

So brother, walk away...
Her parents have already decided, don't force it, let this be the fuel that drives you to becoming better...

Because if you make that girl go against her parents and they disown her, what happens next?? Will you be able to bear responsibility??

Take a chill pill bro and walk away...

I can't walk away, it's my child
Even though am young, I still do menial jobs.

My parents are happy they are ready to assist me in raising the child.

We both are not ready for marriage yet, so that is ruled out.
I just want my child, then she can go her way.

Thanks for your input.

Magnoliaa:


I honestly don't know what to advise you, but I can feel your pain and spirit and drive. Yes, I think you should do this. Really try to convince them, no don't be confrontational by going the tout-ty route.

My dad is a hard man, my mom I can get to convince but my dad it will take time for him to see reasons.

He might even decide to say, I should leave it for them.

I haven't even told them yet about the
Abortion, figured I should handle it myself, have even spoken with our street chairman.

chatinent:


What do you do when you are kidnapped in a jungle about to be killed tomorrow but notice there is a way out today?

Would you wait to confirm if they'll kill you or think through the dense jungles?

are you saying I should go myself?

Do you think her parents will listen to me, they've already concluded am no good.

Should I go there and start crying, weeping for my own offspring?

No sir, I rather go to the community youths and make it a public matter.

I didn't kill anybody, it's my child am fighting for.

Favfables:
When you were nacking, you dinur call community youths o, you didnot involve the chairman neither did you remember that your nacking partners mum was a troublesome woman ...

Lemme not derail too much...

You have ABSOLUTELY no say in whether or not she chooses to abort, I'll tell you why:

1. You guys are not married
2. You still stay in your parents house and thus I doubt whether you have what it takes to meet the needs of a child (or children if na twins, triplet et al) and your baby mama... I mean, which parent would want their child to suffer
3. The family may not accept you since you're regarded as a community tout and to avoid you causing wahala in the near future, thus the need to abort.

I don't in anyway support abortion, but rather than bring a child in this kind of situation (no money, family problems, etc), abortion is a go for me...

But OP, you sef no try o...
Why didn't you zip up??
Or at least you should have used protection to avoid this wahala...

Because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz?


All is well

chatinent:


No, I don't see abortion as the alternative. It could endanger the life of the girl...and this has nothing to do with whether you are a rich yahoo boy or not. I don't even understand how you attributed underage wealth to fraud!

Speak to your father to speak to her father.

Thanks.

I don't know if I can get my dad to go see her father this evening, that's the issue.

They are going to do the abortion tomorrow morning.

JovialJune:



Yes I will tell you same thing, cos those rich yahoo boys are not fit to have kids, money doesnt automatically qualify one as fit to have a child, there is more to being a father than money,

You're allowing emotions cloud your head/mind, think this through deeply so that you won't have any regrets.

I have thought about it, I won't let them abort my child.

JovialJune:



I was right, you are a teenager you are not ready to be a father, the girl's parents wants what's best for her, you are not it at all, accept the fact that you're not ready and focus on improving your life.

This really touched me, if I was one of those rich Yahoo boys that drives benz, would you tell me to let them abort my child.



All is well.

JovialJune:



I was right, you are a teenager you are not ready to be a father, the girl's parents wants what's best for her, you are not it at all, accept the fact that you're not ready and focus on improving your life.

So you are supporting the abortion.
They should kill my child, because am young and poor.
Is that it.

Sorry I will not let that happen.

JovialJune:



Chain lawd have mercy with the kind of guys some girls choose to open their legs for, how old are you? Are you working?

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.

JovialJune:



The bolded shows you're actually a tout, a community tout, you're living under your parents, how do you want to take care of the child?

My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get admission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

arsenic33:
It's pathetic her mom would opt for abortion. Why?

Are you what her mom says you are?

It's her assumption, yes they know me in the street we all live in, am popular and active among the youths.

When our light transformer blew few months ago, I was among those people who collected fees from compound to compound to get it fixed.

No am not a tout, haven't steal before.
Haven't been tied And flogged before.

Bluezy13:
Police.
Provided you're both above 18.

Her mom is wealthy, won't she turn the case against me.

Yes am above 18, but I don't know her age yet

Pierocash:
It shows you are really a tout. You want to take community youths to their house. This is how touts behave.

Nah you born the girl,leave them alone to do whatever suites them .

Sorry I can't.

Davash222:






You see why her mom said you're a tout?

You want to take boys to their house to constitute nuisance.

Gbola = Active
Sense = inactive

So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

Preshmane:
You are proving the woman right by doing that

Please advise what should I do.