@ firdaus4us
the whole point of spirituality and religion is ur supposed to have faith. u cannot understand things about God and stuff with human thinking. if u do alot of things won't make sense.but thats the beauty of religion, we have faith and we believe in whatever or whoever we want to believe in. mind ur religion and leave others to mind theirs.

i still dont understand ur post, so far u make it clear to the girl that ur not for relationship and just sex then she has no reason to complain.i know what u mean abt talking to ur Xs but there r ways to handle stuff like that.

hello hotstepper(nne*m*k*)

i think u were right to stand up for urself against the twa*t that was giving u Shi*t. mayb u shouldnt have hit him but if he was being an ass then. . . . but as others have said, not all black men r woman beaters. there are basta*rds out there black, white , asian, etc . i gather from ur posts that the scars haven't healed yet even tho u say ur over it, the truth is they will never heal completely but they will heal enough for you to trust men again and have solid relationships where ur partner does have to be worried about treading on egg shells. u'v got 4play now so be happy, chillout and enjoy yourself.

@ diddy4.
i had the same problem with the weight thing abt a yr ago. i  tried to gain weight so much, i was just a skinny Bleep. Try 'WEIDERS CRASH WEIGHT GAIN'. it's wot i used and i put on enuf weight in like 6 months. it was so scary i had to hit the gym to cut it bak. now i'm all balanced out.

sorry 4 diverting from the topic.

ok

Why yall african males don't like cooking, yall always depend on ya mama or ya girlfriends!!

i dont know they do it where u live but here in the uk, alot of african guys can cook.at least all the nigerian guys i know can cook. My babes family prefer my cooking to her own cooking. it took me a while to learn but since i live alone it was either that or starve to death. i remember the first time i attempted chicken stew. i fried my chicken whole so it was really undercooked and i used tomato puree instead of blended tomatoes. it was a disaster. ended up calling my mum all the way in naija to give me instructions step by step over the phone. lol

lol, i'm off to bed now, got wrk 2morrow or should i say later 2day. goodnite everyone, sweetdreams.

lol
or when u look forward to havin cereal in the morning and u wake up and realise u havent got milk. can b so annoying.

lol,  u guys have made my night. but u do realise i was only joking right?

yes

ever put rice and water on the cooker thinking u switched the gas on only to come bak_{10 min later} to find out your rice is still soaking in the bloody pot?

going to school with white socks and coming bak with brown, dusty ones. lol, it used to drime my ma up the wall. now she just says 'if you get any girl pregnant, don't come bak to this house, before you spoil our family name'

@ iice
tutus r great.i wear them with stockings. lol, i swear i'm not weird, i just like to do a little bit of crossdressing during the weekends. lol

Catch butterflies??  U must be a loner

u should try it sometime, lol. and you r right, i am a loner but its by choice though.

when i'm not on here, i like to wear my tutu , go in my bak garden and catch butterflies specially since the summer is here. the net is a bit heavy but i manage.

the thot is unthinkable , this is a nightmare inducing topic.

ur childhood must have been fun

so does this mean we can do whatever we like with animals?

we can't do woteva we like e.g grab a cat by its tail and swing it around in the air _{like we just don't care} but killing an animal for food is justified as long as we respect nature and take into consideration animals that might become extinct if we over-indulge.

@ seun
u also said that cats kill mice for fun, how do u know it was for fun?

i watched his testimonial yesterday, too awesome. so many great players came to show respect. the guy is just a genius. i'm a man u fan but u have to respect a legend when u see one.

only 1 person springs to mind, has to be retro, i really get her sense of humor

Ever heard of a food chain? no animal kills for fun. animals attack when they feel threatened or when they are hungry, its just a game of survival.

submerge her head in a bucket of ice cold water, permanently.

some people have been sayin only virgins deserve a white wedding gown. who set those rules? no one knows, its just an idea passed on thats all. if the person who decided on this said all husbands to be who have lost their virginity should attend their wedding barefoot or wear shorts instead of trousers, how many men would follow that 'rule'? at the end of the day its your wedding, feel free to indulge in woteva color scheme takes your fancy.

its cool sometimes but what if the guy is just an opportunist or doesn't fancy the girl ? the girl askin him out just makes it easier for the guy to play along abit,get what he wants and then get out. its ok 4 girls to ask guys out but they should be careful about the type of guy.

@ hugoboi

i only agree with ur 3rd point. ur no1 point depends on the pple in the relationship. my gf and i tease each other about our exes but we know how far to push the teasing point no2 is perfectly normal. in fact if my chick doesn't find other men attractive then something is wrong somewhere. she might b in love with me doesnt mean all the other guys on the planet suddenly become ugly. same way us guys acknowledge when we see a fine ass babe, it don't mean we stopped loving our girlfriends.