leisuretym:


To be honest there is nothing you can do about it even though she will go and ended up regretting everything she has done to kill the joy in her marriage , she has seen you finish , no spice any longer, and you sounded too weak to take the only way out, she’s got your mumu button

To revive your self you must first be a man, right now you are sounding like she’s the man of the house , you are too weak now, not saying you should use power or get physical

Do not demand for bedtime from her henceforth

Improve yourself , both in look, dressing and attraction

Spoil yourself with good things and create happiness within

Do what makes you happy to regain your self back first, create happiness within.

Do you work? You sound like the woman of the house because I don’t understand who take care of the kids if she comes back home late around 9pm.

Get a maid and free yourself, that way you can hang out with friends rather than thinking about her ugly behavior .

She will notice the changes in you and know you are just being responsible because you have a family , go haywire and take advantage of this to enjoy yourself with friends or create a hubby that will take you away from those thinkings . E. G swimming 🏊‍♀️ 🏊‍♀️ Will improve your physical fitness and soul .

I hope the OP will be reasonable enough to listen..

GeorgWashinton:
Thank you for these words of encouragement.

I will fast and see how it goes.

Bro don't waste your time and energy any longer, be in charge of your emotion's. you really need to pull yourself together and act like a reasonable/responsible man!
The bitter truth is your wife is gone, let her be for your emotional/ mental wellbeing.
At this time be more concerned about your children's custody.
BE A MAN for ones and move on.

Eriokanmi:
Guy, please don't listen to advice of all those small boys using their mum's phone to type trash here. If you believe God, pray and fast over this. It could be a sign of imminent crisis. The enemy is at work, going by your story, if true. God is lacking in many homes today which is why they divorce anyhow. No marriage without crisis bro. I was once there and I overcame it. I almost lost my beautiful home I built for over a decade.

Fast and pray for 2 days, at least and see changes. Don't over react. She'd come back to her senses. Good luck

I am sorry but its you who is sounding like a boy! Your advice is wrong, you are not being realistic at all.

gasparpisciotta:
Bros you should understand that your wife needs someone close by to run things through before she can her decide on what to do.

The bottom line is she carried out your instructions but earlier than you planned.

On the other hand, tell your wife to inform you if she plans to amend any part of your instructions that seem unclear, instead of running it through a third party in this case your mum.

Would you have preferred she runs it through her own Mum, or somebody else?

Lesson: stop leaving your wife to live alone...if your mum no dey to be her company, neighbour go take over, your friend sef fit take over.

Loneliness is the enemy of a married woman

So what should he have done, Considering the nature of his offshore job?

sapele914:
You are asking someone on Nairaland to ask President Buhari to elaborate on what he is saying, or that they should explain to you more since you have a hard time comprehending?

Bitter truth! 👍🏾

AntiChristian:
Ìyàwó tí a fi'jo fẹ...

Lets be reasonable enough to appreciate good deeds when we sight them!

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