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Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Sudan: TV Channels That Will Broadcast It by BAYKEM(m): 4:36pm On Oct 15, 2014
SlimSkipper:
super ducks of nigeria
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Family / Re: Is It Healthy For Parents To Display Romance Act Before Their Children? by BAYKEM(m): 5:06am On Oct 15, 2014
mikun:
I have 2 boys 4 and 6 and yes my husband and I do kiss in front of them, not full snogging and the younger one will always go eew to get a reaction from us, but the older one will tell him we are allowed.

For example dad comes in from work , kisses/cuddles his children or they hug him first and then he does the same to me , the only difference is I get lips and they get cheek or forehead.

They already know that they are not allowed to kiss anyone on the lips not even mum or dad, even my 4 year old will tell me my lips are only for his dad.


I believe there is nothing wrong in moderate affection, i never did see my parents displaying any affection to each other.

If we can kiss and hold hands outside, I see no reason why we cannot do the same in front of the children.
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Family / Re: Dealing With A Snoring Partner by BAYKEM(m): 4:58am On Oct 15, 2014
oops. I hate it. God Please, kindly save me o coz I wouldn't like one
Romance / Re: What Do You Do When Your Parent Detest The One You Love by BAYKEM(m): 4:39am On Oct 15, 2014
First, you must ask ur parents for their reasons. if the reason is reasonable, dear, she isn't the only lady in the world. but if they have no reasonable or tangible reason, you must not enforce them to accept her, u will only need time and patience to convince them. You can also invite few highly respected people(that they respect ) to help u. Mind u, in a case whereby 80% of those around u rejects it, my friend, release her.
lastly, prayer can change all things, even hearts. Pray over it and let God get involved. He is the greatest solution. Thanks.
Romance / Re: You Will Be Surprised. Some Things Guys Look At First On A Woman. by BAYKEM(m): 1:59pm On Oct 13, 2014
Ladies, Just maintain ur dignity. Too much make-up renders u fake. Be ur natural self (u look simple and original when u do). Put up ur standard. Let no man make u inferior. Dont give in to pride. Let not ur beauty deceive u. And when u meet the Mr Right, Honour and respect him. I can see u in a happy, lovely and enviable home. it is well with u
Religion / Re: How Can One Identify A True Born Again Christian? by BAYKEM(m): 10:05pm On Oct 12, 2014
sonOfLucifer:
I identify them by their lack of commonsense. Born again Christians are the most impoverished, ignorant and braindead religious sect in the world. They preach love God and hate his creation. They hate earth. They hate homosexuals. They hate pleasure. They hate sex. They hate themselves. They hate their flesh. To thesr fucking retarda, earth has no value and thus they continie to be stuck in a world of confusion and deep hypocrisy.
May I simply say Christ loves you. The devil has nothing to offer u than eternal doom and destruction. What profit has a man that gained the whole world but lose his soul? Christ as always been calling. He has already conquered the devil. he is the way, the truth and the life. He died and shed His blood on the cross for you and I. And for your information, He so much loves you. He promised to by no means cast away all those who come to him. He is saying to u tonight come unto me ye that labour and are heavy laden and I will give u rest. Please allow him into your life today and he will give u rest and peace. NO OTHER NAME HAS BEEN GIVEN UNTO US ON EARTH WHEREWITH WE CAN BE SAVED EXCEPT THE NAME OF JESUS. Accept him today and you shall be saved. I pray this message will touch your heart in Jesus name, Amen. Have a wonderful night and do dream about Jesus in Jesus name. Amen.
Romance / Re: The Ten Biggest Mistakes Women Make In A Relationship. by BAYKEM(m): 9:42pm On Oct 12, 2014
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Good write-up
Romance / Re: Types Of Women, Men Should Date by BAYKEM(m): 6:19pm On Oct 12, 2014
Girls with the features do exist but incompatibility/taking her for granted can blindfold you in seeing them. I pray you find your match and appreciate it when it comes
Romance / Re: Types Of Women, Men Should Date by BAYKEM(m): 6:11pm On Oct 12, 2014
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Girls with the features do exist but incompatibility can blindfold you in seeing them. I pray you find your match.
Romance / Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by BAYKEM(m): 6:02pm On Oct 12, 2014
You dont remember to include shy ladies. Do you think they can also be recommended to guys?
Romance / Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by BAYKEM(m): 5:35pm On Oct 12, 2014
Courtship is not a university course that has a definite period of time to be spent on it but a training which should end as soon as the qualification is attained.
Now the qualifications:
1. Mental, Spiritual, Psychological and financial maturity.
2. Ability to remove ego in dealing with each other
3. Readiness to serve and be with each other even during hardships.
4. Understanding the difference in nature and parental upbringing.
5. Ability to quarrel and reconcil quickly and without external help from third parties and lastly
6. Ability to focus and plan the future together with a mutual view.
Dear, u can be done with a courtship in a matter of a year, two, three or even more. But remember we do not have the same opportunity. A courtship that began at the age of 17 stands the opportunity of going on for 8 or more years. But the one which starts at the age of 33, I beg, u wont dare tell me I should marry at the age of 40.
Pray and study yourselves. Remember marriage isn't something to manage but one to enjoy. Dont push yourself to marry someone you are hoping would later change. Current financial status is of little importance if u see a man with visibly sensible dreams. Keep a close watch on your partner and never jump into conclusions. Dont let him/her blindfold u with love. He may love you but you may not be compatible. Compatibility will help u to run the race. Lastly, put God first and let him be the foundation. The Bible says there is a way that seemeth right to a man but the end thereof is destruction. LET GOD LEAD YOU AND YOU WILL SEE HOW SWEET GOD'S DESIGN FOR MALE-FEMALE UNION IS.
I Remain my humble self.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: "How Much Do We Pay You?" Interview Question by BAYKEM(m): 5:08pm On Oct 12, 2014
Rilwayne001:
[b] Truth is, if you’re interviewing for entry level position, you have practically no say in the pay. Almost 100% of companies have their pay structure and know how much they will pay you already. If Zenith bank, for instance, pays entry level employees N3m per annum, you can’t get more than that,except you have relevant experience. So most times, at entry level positions, this question is inconsequential, but it may be your undoing. Imagine asking for N10m as entry level in GTB – it can annoy your interviewer and an otherwise inconsequential question can mar your chance. Personally, I –and people I know that are top management staff in big organizations – always advise that you don’t say an amount. Respond with something like: “ABC Plc is a well-structured organization and I believe you will fairly place me where I fit within the structure (knowing full well that you’re entry level), with commensurate remuneration.” But if pressed further, you can state a sum, preferably a range, which you must have researched. A good way to research is to ask people that work in the organization what entry level pay is or you put a thread in a forum like Nairaland, where you are guaranteed of good
response. You may add 1 or 2m on top. For example, you know Ecobank pays N3m for entry level position, you may call 4m for them at the interview. If however you have some special skills or qualifications, you can charge a premium for that. For example, you have CFA, very marketable qualification, you can be daring and request for pay that is more than what is ordinarily obtainable for that position. Or you are coming withImperial or Harvard certificate. Experienced hires are also in good position to negotiate.... [/b]


www.nairaland.com/1245277/common-interview-questions-answer-tips

This is wonderful and helpful. thanks bro.
Religion / Re: How Can One Identify A True Born Again Christian? by BAYKEM(m): 4:18pm On Oct 12, 2014
Having glanced through all the comments, I feel indebted to add my view.
To start with, the term born again has its origin in the book of John 3vs1-5. It signifies a new birth; one which is totally different, greater and life-giving than the initial birth. It is the very basis and foundation of Christianity. It gives a man membership to God's vineyard and kingdom. A born again Christian is one who has confessed Jesus as His/Her Lord and savior (Romans 10 vs 9-11). One who has totally surrendered to the will of his saviour and new master; Jesus Christ. One who no longer fulfils the desires of the flesh (Romans 8 vs cool.
NOTE
1. A person may have being born again and yet struggle with sin if he/she lacks proper nourishment, knowledge and the grace to carry on. And as a result, backslide amd return to his/her vomit.
2. Many are so vibrant, religious and hard working today but are yet to be born again.
3. There is difference between a born again christian, a growing christian (after being born) and a matured christian. A Christian may be born again and not grow and as a result, he/she may die. A christian may be born again and be growing but not yet matured. And lastly a Christian may have undergone the three steps.
4. A person must always remember that after birth, he or she is a new creature which must grow each day to avoid stagnancy and extinct. Let me ask you my reader, if u are truly born again, are you growing, stagnant or dead?

NOW TO THEIR IDENTIFICATION
1. Be not deceived, their outer appearance, willingness, zealousness and eagerness to do God's work and position in the church has nothing to do with being born again. It is very difficult to discern them. First and foremost, you will need a spirit of discernment in order to discern the actual spirit that operates through them. Peter used that in Acts 5. A person who lacks the spirit of discernment would be easily deceived by the amount Anania and Saffira brought to the house of God. They will think they have great passion to serve God and therefore they are truly born again. But alas they are not. Your close observation may not work here, but spirit of discernment would work. Paul also used the spirit of discernment in Act 16vs16-18

2. They will focus on heavenly things and not wordly things. They will always want to be fruitful in order to expand God's kingdom and hence a great reward in heaven. They will no longer live the formal life of their old self. They will become new in their actions, speeches, behaviour, relationship, and so on.

3. They will portray Christ-like characters. The things you would see in them would reveal Christ. They will be small-Christs.

Lastly, judge not anyone. Underrate no one. And do not pit ur trust in any man. Man may fail you (even the true born agains), that doesn't mean they are not born again. Men fail only God do not. Allow the Holy Spirit to guide you and u will be able to discern who the true Christians are. The Mr and Miss "Small Christ" to you may be the Mr and Miss "Ahab and Jezebel" to others who knows them better and closer than u do.

Love your neighbour, Keep up your faith in Christ, be mot weary by the situations of things in christiandom nowadays. And always remember there still exist true born again christians (Romans 11 vs 4).

Remain blessed.

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