willybaby:
Op make inferiority complex no kill you o.. infact this post is very stupid and useless.. must we live our lives totally according to the dictates of the white man Ni... Construction is determined by factors such as design, wants, climate, etc
Eg streets designed for right hand drive we just also design and build in nigeria abi

why has the post become useless?

Why did you imply op is battling inferiority complex, when in reality he's clamouring for accountability and upgraded standard of living.

IamD18:
A man will come online to say he can't tolerate a housewife for liability related reasons, but he'll be the first to become insecure and intimidated if he ends up with a very busy and career woman who earns way higher than him and barley have time for the family. He'll lowkey wish for a housewife.

A woman will come online to form woke by saying that she can't be a housewife so as not to be seen as lazy woman and a liability to her man, but she'll in reality, wish to be a full time housewife to a very wealthy man who will provide all her needs and place her on a salary she didn't work for.

What am I trying to say? By default, men love housewives if they are financially capable to foot the bills, while women love being a housewife to the right men. Anything different is a result of circumstances which brings us to the conclusion that the positive outcome of cases as such, is dependent on the home, the couple, understanding, their goals, how they want to handle and achieve them.

You nailed it.

Pasima:
Yes

Op answer the guy question, was the operation related to the abortion?

And probably, the operation might not be through vagina, maybe it was just her assumption based on what she saw.

gloniks:




Sorry bro, I can feel your pain.......I spent 7+ years at home before gaining admission into the university, not because I didn't use to pass jamb and putme but because I was been denied admission every year, if I didnt use to pass people would have told me to go and marry bit thank God dad didn't give up on me.



But now he wants to give up because he and mum are not on good terms so he thinks the best way to deal with mum is through me since mum doesn't have the financial capacity to sponsor me.

Currently the house is always hot and I go through domestic and verbal abuse and I have thought about suicide several times but it ain't worth it.......I mean I can't give up my Life because of anybody.......my Life is too precious than that (although it's b3eh God that has kept me going coupled with discipline)

There's favoritism between the children and I get blamed for what the other does despite the fact that I am older but the favoritism didn't extend to the area of responsibility but now it's about to.
He still blamed me this evening for what my other sibling did


I am in my 20s and I still get beaten with blue black with belt and wire.

He said it before and he repeated it again few days ago that he was thinking of telling his doctor maybe I should go for injection to step down my brain that I behave like some one with mental disorder........I take all this harsh words in and behave like nothing is wrong because i dare not cry the next thing is for him to take his belt and say "you want to cry abi, you will cry well" so I suck everythimg in, I love to sing and he said I have a bad voice despite the fact that I know there's nothing wrong with my voice but I don't even bother to sing anymore. Do you know what he says? He usually say I sound like "osanyin" I asked him the meaning and he said a name of a demon in Yoruba land. I a lot of times feel choked up and frustrated. He can disgrace me anywhere, and he has started threatening not sending me to school which he does every time we are to resume.
If anyone has ever body shamed me it is him.


I know I maybe clueless but I know GOD understands.


So I thought, now that I am in the picture and things are like this I better not do something stupid because no one would care and my mom might be shattered, don't know of she will cope but is that GOD'S will? No so I will stay to see the GLORY OF The LORD IN THE LAND OF THE LIVING.



Sorry I don't mean to interrupt your story just that I have a heavy heart and I even cried this night so I just need to pour my heart out somewhere so saw your story and decided to share mine.

Thanks.

I'm touched by your story. It hurts alot when someone's behave as if they aren't your biological parents. Keep hope alive, I pray God almighty come to your aid.

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