i think it\'s more of a personal decision.
personally, i don\'t fancy rings!

i guess it\'s only my wife who can force! me
to wear the wedding ring, when i\'m married.

i don\'t see any compulsion in it [apart from my
would-be wife who insists!].

three days after his death jesus was resurrected.

please, when did he return to heaven? on that day?

like jesus said, wait till harvest time!

i think it depends on individual witness to discern whether
one has an interest in reading the magazine or not; seriously
speaking, i don\'t think they\'re keen about your cash.

one thing i noticed is that, if you\'re the type who says, when they
approach you, i don\'t have money, they\'re more likely to conclude
you aren\'t interested in the mag!

why, because you\'ve not directed your attention to what they have
for you, they\'ve not come for peddling!

you know, as humans, they\'re imperfect folks: they can make mistakes.
and it may interest you to note that amongst them are inexperienced ones
striving to learn the rope of evangelism; they may miss the mark sometimes.

all in all, they are a wonderful group of folks,

jesus\' ressurection was as a spirit not human [ consider paul\'s argument as regards
those who\'re raised to life in heaven; they shed corruption to inherit that which is
incorruptible]. so how come his disciples could see him afterall?

as a powerful spirit person he could materialize into human body.
but be that as it may, the most important thing is that he was raised by his
heavenly father.

what else?

dear,

since this is a church thing, carefully consider what the scriptures say.

first corinthians six verse eighteen; ephesians five verses three to seven.

so, what can help after establishing your guilt?

i think confession is vital and true repentance is inevitable.
confess to whom? a spiritually mature person, who will help you
and the pastor to get out of the spiritual and moral wilderness you\'re in.

someone who\'ll solve the issue without raising more dust.

something to ponder on:
how will you feel if you were the innocent wife
of the pastor?
do you think it\'s true love for a man to break his vow to his
marriage mate?
do you think he\'ll not eventually fail you too?
don\'t you see the relationship as an illusion?

act wisely and very fast too!

and as a postscript: is fingering not sex? not a sexual act?
it is!

may God help you out.