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Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Blendy77(f): 9:08am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Abeg park one side and reason like someone who found hersef in the same situation. The step mum has no obligation to that child if the biological mum cod abandon her and leave. We dont even have details of why the man didnt marry her after she got pregnant or had a child for him, cod even be d mum absconded wt d pregnancy to punish him and only showed up when she saw d child is disabled. That is if its even d man that is responsible. Women do all sorts these days so leave gist. If taking the child to an orphanage will make life easy for the stepmum so be it. Offer ur own solution to the problem on ground and move. This is the last response i will giv u even if u quote me 100 times cos you are not worth my time with ur reasoning. Go and carry the child better still and save both of them the headache. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Blendy77(f): 8:55am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Nozino: Many orphanage homes especially in Lagos accept kids wt disability. It's d reason I asked for her location. I visited one recently on children's day at Badore, Ajah axis, a section is for kids with challenges while another one at surulere too is for disabled kids. |
Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Blendy77(f): 12:36am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Put ur sef in her situation and advise what u will do in this circumstance and leave people's advise if they don't suit you. That's my own advice, give yours and stop turning yoursef to monitoring spirit. She needs help on what to do cos shes depressed and pregnant at the same time. If shes your younger sister, advice accordingly ehnn and move on or better still go and help them take the child. Have a nice day jare. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Blendy77(f): 11:13pm On Aug 04, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Did u read where she said shes heavily pregnant and can't take care of the child? for now it's her sanity that matters the most, since d mother abandoned the child and they can't afford a maid, Sis inlaw refused to help, her best option is Foster care till they are able to find their feet. Wod u rather they kill the child or abandon her n disappear? Hav u tot of if she leaves as planned the husband can do somethg terrible just to be free of the child? What is wrong wt an orphanage home in this circumstance if I may ask sef? I own an NGO where we visit orphanage homes regularly, 50% of kids there are not even adoptable, they will tell u the parents kept there on Foster care and will come back for them, many of these parents are either single girls who don't want to throw away d child or single fathers whose wives passed on and they just want the child to be taken care of till they find their feet. Its better than abandoning these kids like we see daily in dustbins n gutter so there is nothing wrong with orphanage home so far d child is taken care of there. |
Family / Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Blendy77(f): 7:48pm On Aug 04, 2022 |
What state are u based? Why not look for an orphanage home and drop the child? Most accept kids with disabilities and am not sure they charge this much. Your husband made a mistake by not telling you before marriage but he probably thought its because you will leave him. Forgive his mistakes and help to find a solution. Both of I should look for a government orphanage home or school with boarding facilities and take d child there |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 6:35pm On Aug 04, 2022 |
Lagbenjo: That's the primecare Doc and he's in Abuja. Gentle on the supplements since ur tubes are patent. Even at that you need to flush if u are taking them for adhesions. All the best. |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 3:10pm On Aug 03, 2022 |
cutiebum17: Olive branch Dr Emeka is very good. Though expensive now due to d dollar hike. U can also try Dr Ivie if cutting cost. She's sound and knows her onions. But if u really want to cut real cos and do ivf half d amount Lag Drs charge, your best bet is Abuja, Primecare. The results from there is somethg else. |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 5:31am On Aug 02, 2022 |
PossiblityGod: No. This shd be okay but endeavour to check ur amh if there is improvement or not. How old are you? I always advise those over 40 with very low amh and poor response with boosting to embrace donor and save themselves d headache of whipping their ovaries. Thank God for science and tech which has made everythg possible. If u still hav age like in ur 20s or early 30s with low amh then ur best bet is to find out and tackle d underlying factor responsible for the low amh. Once you can trace what's responsible, the rest is history 1 Like |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 10:14pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
[quote author=PossiblityGod post=115288244] Please mama,do you have idea where I can buy coast science in Lagos and the cost? Unfortunately all d people I kno who used it ordered from amazon from d US. Where are u based? let me see how I can help. I kno Quinol plus is readily available but coast science am not too sure if people sell it here cos of the price. But do me an email lemme see how I can help. Ruonar2000@yahoo.com. I hope u kno Quinol plus does exactly the same job? 200mg Ubiquinol in Quinol plus = 400mg COq 10 while the COq 10 in coast science is about 600mg COq10 so it's close and over twice d price of quinol plus. Secondly a lot of peeps who use COQ10 equally got very good eggs both in quantity n quality but u need to boost for a while, depending on your age and AMH, minimum 3 months is recommended. If you still want d coast science do me an email stating ur location let me see how I can help. But check d prices of both on Amazon.com to infor ur decision 1 Like |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 2:31pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
[quote author=mimitoosh post=115280703][/quote] Yes you can |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 2:30pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
Lagbenjo: I think we have a couple of people with same condition who overcame this thru IVF. Zoladex for 3-4 months helps a lot with this condition. Are u considering Dr Ese as well? He handles such critical cases too. Heard d injection is expensive but it's worth it since it freezes ur natural cycle while ur egg quality is being preserved and improved. In all of this, do not take loan sha, save gradually for ivf as advised by others 1 Like |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 6:27pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Lagbenjo: Pls don't take loan for ivf o, the outcome is not cast in stones so loan is a no no. Better to save little by little while boosting both ur eggs n sperm. What are ur issues? Are ur tubes open? How old are u? What about sperm iss? Do u hav any? The suppys u hav listed are all in d right direction so it should happen soon. Keep hope alive n keep trying naturally while saving gradually for ivf. U can also try flushing ur tubes even if they are open. There are times, little adhesions might not be picked up by hsg but ordinary flushing, with serra and even castor oil can handle it. Then praaaay! All the best Sis. 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 6:17pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Osoderi:3-4 months is very ideal 1 Like 1 Share |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 6:16pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Emaaaaaaa: For Abuja try Primecare. That's where it's happening now at a very good affordable rate. The results my people are getting from that axis cant be compared to many expensive centers in Lag. Dr Ese knows his onions and very sympathetic to this cause. He also experienced infertility so treats every case like his own. All the best 5 Likes |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 6:10pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
wonyi: Try Quinol plus and vit E or coast science and vit E. They work like magic 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 6:06pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Kayma2000: For PH try Care Women Clinic off Peter Odili Road. Most of my people in PH got results here just that he's over 1m. Check online for his full address |
Politics / Re: Atiku Once Depended On Me To Counter Obasanjo – Sowore by Blendy77(f): 3:58pm On Jul 26, 2022 |
This one just dey seek for relevance by all means 1 Like |
Food / Re: Who Knows The Name Of This Fish? by Blendy77(f): 4:41pm On Jul 23, 2022 |
That's mud fish. It's very expensive compared to normal catfish cos it's very tasty n fleshy. The dry/smoked one doesn't get scattered in soup so classed alongside barracuda and red snipers hence its more expensive than normal catfish 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Is Peter Obi Gradually Breaking The "Structure Jinx"? by Blendy77(f): 8:40pm On Jun 20, 2022 |
TooNoisy: Keep deceiving yourself. Who wants Okowa in Delta State? What project can he point to as his project in 8yrs? Atiku picking Okowa as his running mate is d beginning of his downfall. Obi all thr way 4 Likes |
Education / Re: Bereton College;old Boys And Girls by Blendy77(f): 1:11pm On Jun 13, 2022 |
Bright2: What year |
Politics / Re: Deborah Samuel: Court Remands Two Suspects In Prison by Blendy77(f): 9:28pm On May 16, 2022 |
Kazeem47: So ElRufai who spoke about Jesus sleeping with Mary Magdalene is not a Muslim? or the Sterling Bank MD who compared Jesus resurrection to Agege bread is not a Muslim since you claim no Muslim insults Jesus. Life is sacred. If your religion teaches you to commit murder whenever anyone speaks ill of your prophet then somethg is wrong somewhere. Can you give life? What right do you or your religious brothers have to end someone's life cos of religion? You guys should sit down and ask yourselves, why world over only one religion causing havoc everywhere. Live and let live. If your God is truly God, you don't need to kill for him. No true religion serving God encourages spilling of blood of human beings. Know this and know peace. One love! |
Crime / Re: Deborah Samuel: 34 Lawyers Arrive Court To Defend Suspected Killers by Blendy77(f): 2:06pm On May 16, 2022 |
Just imagine the number of lawyers coming to defend murderers. It is well with Naija. The sooner this people understand life is sacred the better o. BTW, I thought news said she's been buried and showed her corpse being lowered? Which corpse come dey morgue again? 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Tinubu: Sheikh Khalifa, Great Reformer, Visionary Leader by Blendy77(f): 6:51am On May 16, 2022 |
Politics will not let him send condolence message to Deborah's parents. Bunch of use'less polithiefcians. May God help this country 12 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: Bereton College;old Boys And Girls by Blendy77(f): 11:03pm On May 01, 2022 |
nedujizzy: Hav you seen your classmates now? I finished in 1994, the pioneer set. Started JS 1 in 1989 and my set has a WhatsApp group. If you remember those in your class I could help you ask but I kno most sets now have their WhatsApp group where they coordinate their affairs. Also check Facebook if you haven't found your classmates yet |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 6:15pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Tripletwins222: Do u have quinol plus? 200mg coq10 +250mg Omega 3. Pls do let me kno if you hav it in stock as a lot of sisters need it urgently. Thks |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 6:13pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
cutiebum17: Hello Dear, do u mind sharing the type of blockage you have? If its at the uterus side then you can try ivf again or take serra n flush to hav them opened but if the blockage is at the ovary side, then there's likely build up of fluid which prevented ur ivf from working. 2 options u can try out if ur tubes are blocked close to the ovaries, either you hav them tied, gummed, removed or try opening them with serra n flushing (though not easy with this type of blockage but in this journey, everythg is worth trying). Its not just about changing hospitals but about investigating what caused the first failure and taking care of it before trying again. All the best 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Anyone Trying IVF/IUI/ICSI (Fertility Treatments)? by Blendy77(f): 6:05pm On Mar 27, 2022 |
Beautifulsenora: So so sorry Dear, please resend the email to ruonar2000@yahoo.com. I have issues accessing the email registered on NL. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Lagos Seeks Understanding On Lekki-ikoyi Tollgate by Blendy77(f): 5:47am On Mar 17, 2022 |
Upon the suffering in the land and salary not increasing, these people still want to add toll. It is well 1 Like 1 Share |
Health / Re: Is There Any Solution For Blocked Tubes? by Blendy77(f): 1:45pm On Mar 11, 2022 |
Bosjack: Hope ur wife is okay now? Obviously she had an infection after the HSG and it's best she treats it before it gets complicated. Depending on the type of blockage she has, she can take Serrapeptease, the Chinese teas and castor oil massage and flush. Many hav gone thru this routine and gotten results. Pls note hydrosalpnx are a lot more difficult to treat cos the blockage most types are at the ovary end so it take the grace of God to open it. But she can still try it out, otherwise the best is to face ivf n tie d tubes to avoid interference with toxic fluids from d blocked tubes. |
Properties / Re: Huge!! 4 Bedroom Detached Duplex + 2 Rooms BQ @ Lekki 67m by Blendy77(f): 5:33pm On Mar 10, 2022 |
Is it fully detached? |
Family / Re: Am I Spoiling My 7-year Old Son? by Blendy77(f): 9:26am On Mar 09, 2022 |
Truth is parenting is not for the faint hearted. I have a set of twins boys and they are 9 years old. I see of lot of this drama daily and honestly it's not easy. Get his Dad to be more involved in his life, keep talking to him and let him know kno you won't need to shout at him if he didn't preempt it. I have different sizes of cane at home and my boys know where they are kept. They kno what warrants flogging and what offence warrants talking calming and what office warrants shouting. Atimes when I say some things they might even respond that this is a new generation, that if its America they would have called in the police. I'll respond and say till u go to America na, for now you are in Nigeria so behave like Nigerians if you don't want more cane . Haaaa parenting is not easy o, many times I get tired and go in to report to their Dad to talk to them man to man, maybe they will understand. Don't give up Sis, don't be too hard on him and at the same time don't be too soft too. Instead of slaps get a cane and let him know the reason you have a cane. Reward good behaviours with goodies like small salary in their piggy banks, icecream and other largesse but let them kno that d reward for bad behaviour is cane so they have a choice to choose their behaviour Parenting is not for the faint hearted I repeat. 4 Likes |
Business / Re: Where Can I Buy Wedding Invitation Cards In Lagos? by Blendy77(f): 12:55pm On Mar 06, 2022 |
nnamdiosu: Can u help me with contact of a printer at Shomolu? I have already designed card so its just printing I need |
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