abayomi93:
Hello,my friend.please just try to free your mind.I suffered from this,and it almost cost me my life.if u want to think about something,just think about it and put it off your mind.if you check your Blood pressure now you will see that it is high.because you are overworking your heart.I had an attack in 2015,and I am still recovering from it now.

May the good God bless you with quick recovery. Thanks

TakeMeSerious:


Of course, you are the kind that people that people will never understand. It's a great treasure, trust me.

Exactly. I already gave up on trying to make them see things the way I do.

TakeMeSerious:

Am good, how has your day been?

Nothing out of the usual. Yours??

TakeMeSerious:


What if I told you I understand exactly how you feel? Would you believe?

You really do??

TakeMeSerious:

Hi

What's up??

I know you haven’t met me yet, but I wish I could give you this letter to let you know what to expect. I’ve already had my heart broken by the wrong men, and I don’t want it to happen again. I know we’ll meet soon and fall in love. If only I could prepare you so things would be easier, I’m sure we’d both be happier. I’m excited to work through our ups and downs — I just hope you feel the same way.

I’M GUARDED AT FIRST, SO GIVE ME TIME.:

I don’t trust easily, but I’ll get there if you just have patience. I have to test the waters and make sure you’re worthy of my trust. It’s nothing against you, so just please be patient.

I TAKE THINGS SLOW, SO DON’T GIVE UP.:

I’m not one to have sex on the first date. I can’t tell you when it’ll happen, but we’ll get there. I’m also not interested in getting married quickly. I’ll bolt if you move too fast. Stick with me, though — after all, slow and steady wins the race (or something like that).

I’LL BE FAITHFUL, BUT I EXPECT NOTHING LESS IN RETURN.

You’ll never have to worry about me cheating. When I commit, it’s with my whole heart. I’ll never stray. Just remember, I expect the same type of commitment from you.

IF YOU CHEAT, IT’S OVER — NO SECOND CHANCES.
I’ve been cheated on before and I don’t want to go through that again. If you cheat, even if it’s just one kiss, our relationship is over. I don’t give second chances, no matter what excuse you give .

I’M NOT PERFECT AND I WILL MAKE MISTAKES.

I have my flaws and I’m sure I’ll do things to annoy you or piss you off. Neither of us are perfect, but I’m willing to apologize when I screw up and I hope you are, too.

WE’LL FIGHT, BUT WE’LL WORK THINGS OUT.

I’m not exactly a quiet woman. If you piss me off, I’ll let you know. Yes, that means we’ll fight sometimes, but if you give me a few hours to cool off, we’ll talk things out and figure out how to fix what’s wrong.

I’M READY TO COMPROMISE… TO A POINT.

I know relationships require compromise, but I won’t compromise on everything . Ask me to sleep on the left side of the bed and I might agree. Ask me to give up my career and we’ll have a problem.

I’M NOT ALWAYS THE EASIEST TO LOVE.

It takes patience, a good sense of humor, and forgiveness to love me. I won’t always make it easy. Sometimes you’ll wonder why you’re with me. I’ll do my best to give you plenty of reasons and memories to always give you an answer to that question.

I OFTEN GET CARRIED AWAY WITH MY CAREER.

I never mean to put you second, I’ve just always gotten easily carried away with my career. Even in school, I have a single-minded focus on doing my best. Just get my attention and remind me what’s most important.

I WON’T BE AROUND 24/7.

I love you, but I don’t want to be around you 24/7. I need time to myself to do things you might not enjoy. It doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy your company. I just need some alone time now and then.

I’M SARCASTIC, SO DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY.

I’ve mastered the fine art of sarcasm. Please don’t take it personally. If it’s ever too much, just let me know and I’ll try to ease up. Did I mention you’ll need a good sense of humor to be with me?

I’LL GIVE YOU MY BEST, BUT YOU’LL ALSO SEE MY WORST.

I promise to always try and give you my best, but it won’t always work that way. You’ll see me vomiting with the flu or bitching over everything when PMS gets the best of me.

I’M NOT GOING TO LIKE EVERYTHING YOU LIKE.

I know you want me to love all your interests, but I won’t. I’ll like some of them and I’ll happily do those with you. The rest you’ll have to do on your own or with your friends. I already have my own interests and I’m sure you’ll dislike some of those too.

I’M DEVOTED TO MY FAMILY.

My family loved me before I even knew you. Don’t ask me to give them up. They’re important to me and I won’t stay if you ask me to choose.

ALL I WANT IS YOUR LOVE, RESPECT AND HONESTY.

I know it sounds like a tall order, but in the end, I just want real love, your full respect and of course, honesty. If any of these are missing, we don’t have a chance at a lasting relationship.

IF YOU CAN’T MEET THE ABOVE, PLEASE DON’T LEAD ME ON.

I’d rather you tell me now that you can’t be the man I need you to be. Don’t lead me on. It’ll hurt more the longer you draw it out.
I hope this helps you understand me and what I need. I look forward to falling in love with you.

From your future wifey **wink**

ikp120:

Alright

Şơ, ɧơɯ ɖơ ɯɛ ɠơ ąცơųŧ ıŧ??
ı Şɛŋɖ mყ ĆơŋŧąĆŧ ơř ų Şɛŋɖ ųřŞ ??

ikp120:


Lolzzz

Lady my ass

You can lie

ı ɖơŋŧ ɧą۷ɛ ą קřơცٳɛm ɯıŧɧ ყơų ცɛٳıɛ۷ıŋɠ mɛ ơř ŋơŧ, ı ơŋٳყ ɯąŋŧ ყơų ŧơ ɛҳקٳąıŋ Ćɛřŧąıŋ ŧɧıŋɠŞ ŧơ mɛ

ikp120:


Lolzzz

Onye oshi!


It is not as easy as she dey tell you o... That's a gift that drive many crazy if not well handled... Start doing guided meditation (not just thinking about any shiit).

I used that shiit back then in school to top my department every semester, consistently... Graduated as the best in the department. That shiit still happens to me till date. I don't fight it, I just leverage on it by guiding it.

Guy no go craze o.

Onye bu onye oshi

ikp120:


Lolzzz

Onye oshi!


It is not as easy as she dey tell you o... That's a gift that drive many crazy if not well handled... Start doing guided meditation (not just thinking about any shiit).

I used that shiit back then in school to top my department every semester, consistently... Graduated as the best in the department. That shiit still happens to me till date. I don't fight it, I just leverage on it by guiding it.

Guy no go craze o.

U mind chatting on WhatsApp

Almost everyone is saying something similar.....I'm kinda confused...

I'm a lady

the doctors shouldn't stress themselves. Chopping the trees off with an axe wouldn't do the man any harm, would it??

I'd recommend Tetmosol soap for bathing. Apply Neoskin to the face of the infection day and night after bathing.

econome:
...not only idle hand is the devil workshop but an idle mind is a devil machine

...........Basic Solution........
1**Firstly, you need to turn to God, pray to him to set you free from all ungodly/bad thin kings

2**Be a good reader and listeners to the word of God

3**You must find yourself a work, you need to have job that will be taking your time, so by the time you get off from work, you are tired(that brain weh deh think anyhow would be tired as well). Then you will sleep deeply each night.

4**May the good Lord heal you!!

Amen. Thanks

I've recently noticed uncontrollable thoughts popping in my head and it's happening more and more. It seems that whenever I plan on interacting with someone or going somewhere, I'm coming up with different scenarios and running through the dialogue in my head. Half the time, I don't even think I realize that I'm doing it. But, I've caught myself doing it more and more.
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This is something I think I've done my entire life. And it's pretty much the only thing I'm thinking of. It's not thoughts of what I should do or will be doing, or any negative thoughts of me etc. What I do in my mind pretty much 24/7 is making these fake scenarios in my head. It's either about past events where I edit the conversation to things I wanted to say or should have said it, or it's about scenarios that "may" happen where I imagine what I would say (I'm always so witty and cool in these made up scenarios).
I sometimes feel cut off from the world, just looking into it but not interacting with. My social life has been ruined by this as I do not feel comfortable doing the gisting gisting thing, all I wanna do is to be alone and travel to "Thinkland". It is very difficult to socialize with people because I'm never there.
I make scenarios in my head that might probably never gonna happen. I seldomly wander off into my thoughts, fantasizing about things happening paying less attention to the outside world.
I know this is a psychological issue but the question is "HOW CAN I GET MYSELF OFF THE HOOK OF IMAGINATIONS". IT'S DRIVING ME NUTS ALREADY.

Sissy3 , dominique, lalasticlala

Informative

Benita27:
You may have to see a shrink since yours is an impediment to your social life.

Was actually thinking of that. Thanks, I would

igho003:
start smoking weed it ones happend to me bt right now am okay
the advice may look extremely stupid to u

You're advising a woman to go on weed

I'm arrogant and snubby...**sighs**

ladypearl45:
I do that alot I just left imaginary land to check here. just do like I do. try converting into writing or play music or watch movies cos too much of it is bad.....

Thanks

I need more advice from you guys. .... Lalasticlala

Ayodeleseyi65:
Do You Listen To Music At All?

I do

stupidity:
ah ah. With this kind moniker??

Yea

OK. The thing is, most friends(girls especially) talk about meaningless things. I'm not into all the things they talk about; fashion, boys, gossips....latest this....latest that. That's why I feel I have a big problem. I'm just so boring

For boys, I don't feel secured around them

TrapQueen77:




Ur not alone...imagining things too much is quite frustrating tho especially u know things are not even possible to happen...

Juz make it sure u still have ur social life... Don't be a loner..

Thanks babe

stupidity:
Try hanging out with friends often. Your idle time should always be when you sleeping at night. If you have brothers sisters, spend more time with them. Gist, gossip. If you have a girlfriend, do same.

If you have a job, always get yourself busy with anything when at work.

At home, get yourself a PlayStation or an Xbox and play away those thoughts in your head.

Always get your self busy.


Or if you are really good at it, it's best you start creating a scenario on how to make millions. Make e for no waste

Ok......I'm a lady.

Admin401:
why don't you put your thoughts into words? and become a writer?
you have a very active imagination, why not exploit it for monetary gains?
you might be the next JK Rowlings.

Your opinion got me smiling ......' would try it

Ximenez:
If you get yourself a job and keep yourself busy, then you are 80% there.

I'm a full time student and I don't want to get involved in a job that would disrupt my education (at least not yet). It's not like I get less-busy at all times but I tend to travel into thought at the slightest chance.

I've recently noticed uncontrollable thoughts popping in my head and it's happening more and more. It seems that whenever I plan on interacting with someone or going somewhere, I'm coming up with different scenarios and running through the dialogue in my head. Half the time, I don't even think I realize that I'm doing it. But, I've caught myself doing it more and more.


This is something I think I've done my entire life. And it's pretty much the only thing I'm thinking of. It's not thoughts of what I should do or will be doing, or any negative thoughts of me etc. What I do in my mind pretty much 24/7 is making these fake scenarios in my head. It's either about past events where I edit the conversation to things I wanted to say or should have said it, or it's about scenarios that "may" happen where I imagine what I would say (I'm always so witty and cool in these made up scenarios).

I sometimes feel cut off from the world, just looking into it but not interacting with. My social life has been ruined by this as I do not feel comfortable doing the gisting gisting thing, all I wanna do is to be alone and travel to "Thinkland". It is very difficult to socialize with people because I'm never there.

I make scenarios in my head that might probably never gonna happen. I seldomly wander off into my thoughts, fantasizing about things happening paying less attention to the outside world.

I know this is a psychological issue but the question is "HOW CAN I GET MYSELF OFF THE HOOK OF IMAGINATIONS". IT'S DRIVING ME NUTS ALREADY.

Lalasticlala, Rocktation,farano

Space booked

...

refiner:


Isokay,kwantinue...it's getting interesting tho but that was just an opinion...

Opinion appreciated. Thanks