Education / Re: Physics ABU Zaria Bad Result (Photo) by Bonjelomo: 8:23am On Apr 13, 2019 |
Noblemarce: O boy! Its a normal thing in ABU. This one is even fair lol. ...... I think chemistry has the highest failure. Chemistry has always been known for bad records |
Crime / Re: Lady Burnt In Ilesha, Osun For 'Stealing Manhood' Was Mentally Ill - Sister by Bonjelomo: 9:34pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: Deji Adeyanju Regains Freedom From Kano Prison(pics) by Bonjelomo: 6:49pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: Police DPO And Army Captain Snatch Election Materials In Rivers State - INEC by Bonjelomo: 11:10am On Feb 23, 2019 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: INEC Commence 3 Days Training Of Ad-hoc Staff by Bonjelomo: 9:23am On Jan 30, 2019 |
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Family / Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Bonjelomo: 5:30pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
realtalk19:
do u mean an irresponsible and violent father? what proper development ar u talking about? when a child is likely to be psychologically damaged when witnessing violent scenes.
welfare office in ikorodu is ineffective and I say this because I was dissapointed with their actions.except u av money or connection.
plz stick to what u know not what u Havnt been tru Violence usually involves more than one party. We have to hear the other side of the story. initially u claimed that ur baby father isn't responsible, and I suggested that u move the case to Family Court, via the Child's Rights Office. If the Welfare office isn't taking ur matter serious, walk down to the Office of the Public Defender, Surulere, beside the National Stadium. The case will not only be charged to Court, u will be given a lawyer if u desire, AT ZERO COST. Peace be unto you |
Family / Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Bonjelomo: 5:24pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
realtalk19:
so u expect me to kip wasting my precious time chasing shadows. a man just wants access to the child and no contribution at all. such man doesn't av shame and dignity.
the op side of story still doesn't justify the story.the other side is needed to conclude..
I still stand on no access to the child u av no responsibility on until the child is 18yrs. don't just type and feel u ar right till u find ur self in the same situation whatever u chose to stand on, according to the Nigerian Child's Rights, BOTH PARENTS HAVE ACCESS RIGHT TO THEIR CHILD AT EVERY STAGE OF DEVELOPMENT. Go get ur facts. I can quote many cases 1 Like |
Family / Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Bonjelomo: 4:46pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
grandstar:
I'm a firm supporter of Justice and for some reason, this isn't Justice but conquest.
He should sit down and talk to the woman and see if a marriage can work. He should suggest it to her and see her reaction. If she seems kin on it, that's some progress. He should even go ahead and pay the bride price.
However, all parties must work on resolving all hurt feelings. The man must open up about how her parents have hurt his feelings and they too must open up and see closure. All must be ready to truly forgive and move on.
If there's a dramatic change in the lady's behavior and she becomes loving, respectful and submissive, then he should go ahead and formalise the marriage by registering it in court. Bride price isn't marriage under constitution(Read Titus 3:1)
What is best for all 3 parties (the child most importantly) is marriage. I'm sure they'll all be happy, most important the founder Jehovah to whom every family in heaven and on Earth owes it's name! Baba u can't be more catholic than the Pope. Not every relationship ends in marriage. And the child deserves good access to both parents! 1 Like |
Family / Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Bonjelomo: 4:43pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
realtalk19:
welfare office in ikorodu is crap,I confided in them when I wanted child support and after sending letter of invitation 2wice to him.he Neva showed up.only to be told I av to wait till whenever he decides to show up or I settle tins wit him in peace cos there is nothing they can do since he refused to show up.i got relly pissed off and dissapointed.
as long as the man isn't responsible and contributing anytin then he has no business asking me to agree with him on when to see his child.he shuld wait till the child is 18yrs then the child decides.
( I agree only responsible father's shuld be allowed access to their kids peacefully. Both parents shuld reach an agreement concerning the child's welfare not feelings between them) Don't twist it! The father of the child has equal rights to the latter, just as d mother does. This will foster the proper development of the child. The child's rights office will ensure this! |
Family / Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Bonjelomo: 4:32pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
realtalk19:
welfare office in ikorodu is crap,I confided in them when I wanted child support and after sending letter of invitation 2wice to him.he Neva showed up.only to be told I av to wait till whenever he decides to show up or I settle tins wit him in peace cos there is nothing they can do since he refused to show up.i got relly pissed off and dissapointed.
as long as the man isn't responsible and contributing anytin then he has no business asking me to agree with him on when to see his child.he shuld wait till the child is 18yrs then the child decides.
( I agree only responsible father's shuld be allowed access to their kids peacefully. Both parents shuld reach an agreement concerning the child's welfare not feelings between them) SUPERPACK: i blame your dad for not using condom the day they made a fool like you. realtalk19:
welfare office in ikorodu is crap,I confided in them when I wanted child support and after sending letter of invitation 2wice to him.he Neva showed up.only to be told I av to wait till whenever he decides to show up or I settle tins wit him in peace cos there is nothing they can do since he refused to show up.i got relly pissed off and dissapointed.
as long as the man isn't responsible and contributing anytin then he has no business asking me to agree with him on when to see his child.he shuld wait till the child is 18yrs then the child decides.
( I agree only responsible father's shuld be allowed access to their kids peacefully. Both parents shuld reach an agreement concerning the child's welfare not feelings between them) If the father of the child refuses to show up, then apply to the family court, via the office of Child's right. Child's right whether denial of responsibilities or access denial is a serious LEGAL mater in Nigeria. Don't confuse the OP. He has full access to his daughter ANYTIME ANYDAY, even b4 d child is 18. He she just be ready to take responsibilities as a father |
Family / Re: Impending Child Custody Battle: Baby Mama Preventing Access To My Daughter by Bonjelomo: 1:16pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Bro!
Na u get ur pikin, according to Naija's Child Rights Law! B'olode o ku, ojude re o le wu koriko..l'ai ku egiri, ko si baba eni to le f'awo e se gbedu!
I don't understand how your state manages child's welfare issues. But over here in Lagos, the odds are in YOUR FAVOUR.
The case is called Access Denial. It is usually handled at ZERO COST. You don't even need any damn lawyer.
Walk down to the Child Rights/Welfare office. Make a case.
Dem no born dem well make them no show up with ur pikin.
You will be given ACCESS RIGHTS at your desired venue. Most likely 2 hours, 2ce every months, u go just gatz buy Jedi for the Officer wey go dey in charge. lols.
But be ready to pay the regular monthly upkeep, cos the office of child's welfare office doesn't play with that.
As a female child, when the child is 5, she will start following u home for weekends.
Baba u are the winner here.
When ur child is 7, u will apply to get her Custody. All you need to prove is Responsibility. Lobatan!
I swear, just negodu...na u get ur pikin. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Charlyboy, protesters storm US Embassy over Buhari’s removal of CJN Onnoghen by Bonjelomo: 9:37pm On Jan 26, 2019 |
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Education / Re: ASUU Strike: Lady Loses Masters Admission In Cape Town, South Africa by Bonjelomo: 9:35pm On Jan 26, 2019 |
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graduate! 40 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: INTERSOS Nigeria Job Recruitment (4 Positions) by Bonjelomo: 6:55pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
tufiakwa!
Let the Northerners tame the monsters they invented.
Shebi dem sabi religion wella 4 Likes |
Health / Re: 10,000 Nigerians Regain Sight Through Free Cataract Surgery By Federal Ministry by Bonjelomo: 9:47pm On Jan 15, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: Apc Thugs Stab Man While Installing Sdp Candidate's Banner In Kogi(photos) by Bonjelomo: 9:16pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
Sorry young man. APC is an occultic society. Stay away from them
APC did same thing to themselves in Lagos today.
I thank God for their lives. God is answering our prayer. 7 Likes 2 Shares
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Celebrities / Re: Toyin Lawani Celebrates Her Son, Lordmaine 5th Birthday With Cute Photos by Bonjelomo: 7:40pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
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Celebrities / Re: Toyin Lawani Celebrates Her Son, Lordmaine 5th Birthday With Cute Photos by Bonjelomo: 7:40pm On Jan 01, 2019 |
Chai! pesin wey dey wear earrings for 5yo pikin sef dey call Jesus.
Jesus we love u for your mercy and patience. Help us to be more and more like you |
Celebrities / Re: Davido Flaunts Imade And Hailey Necklace, Customized With Names Of Her Daughters by Bonjelomo: 10:49am On Dec 29, 2018 |
A generation that makes so much noise, while doing nothing! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Udom Emmanuel Hosts Daniel Olukoya Of MFM (Photos) by Bonjelomo: 7:51pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Udom Emmanuel Hosts Daniel Olukoya Of MFM (Photos) by Bonjelomo: 7:50pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
I know Dr Olukoya. He doesn't mingle with politicians. And he won't support evil for whatever reason.
I know another blunt man who won't pamper evil doers - Baami Dafidi Oyedepo. These 2, and just these 2 I hold with high esteem.
But one way or the other, paths must cross. 5 Likes |
Programming / Re: Hurray....a Yoruba Programming Language Is Here by Bonjelomo: 6:12am On Dec 06, 2018 |
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Crime / Re: Lautech Final Year Student Arrested For Allegedly Killing Her Boyfriend by Bonjelomo: 9:01pm On Nov 26, 2018 |
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Crime / Re: Herdsmen Kill Delta Man For Attempting To Prevent Wife's Rape by Bonjelomo: 1:14pm On Nov 26, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: Soldiers Massacare: Buhari Sends Defense Minister To Meet Chad's President by Bonjelomo: 7:27am On Nov 24, 2018 |
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Politics / Re: EFCC Chairman, Magu Meets UK Authorities, Begins Diezani’s Extradition Process by Bonjelomo: 7:58pm On Nov 23, 2018 |
one thing I know - this administration will also END! ANOTHER administration will expose all their corrupt withdrawal of money from nnpc and nlng
Life is turn by turn |
Romance / Re: Photo Of Guest House In Kwara State That Got Nigerians Talking by Bonjelomo: 8:30am On Nov 23, 2018 |
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Crime / Re: Togolese Cook Accused Of Killing Ope Bamidose Makes Shocking Revelation by Bonjelomo: 3:56pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
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