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ifyalways:

Me i no sabi deutsh but cant u see the bolded parts?
One of the inefficiencies of babel translation.

ok i understand
i understand wetin d guy yarn sha
but d babe will find it a bit difficult 2 comprehend.

ifyalways:

rofl
u see ur life,Mr Over sabi.

y u dey yab d guy na
abi d deutsch no correct

justwise:

Don't stop her, but keep an open mind about the whole thing. One of my female friends here is going home next month to marry her bf of 7yrs. She has being here for more than 6yrs now but still love this guy, sends money to him,

, tried to bring him out here last yr but he was refused entry at the heathrow airport, though they are both Malawians.

u didnot tell us d other side of d story
within those 6yrs,she go don nack enough.
body nor be firewood,i hope d poster understand.

mugu must fall
when will people learn?

jumie:

@ Berit,

I think there are a lot of issues you did not understand before going on with the marriage. The fact that an African walks up to you and seeks your hand in marriage without having his papers should have been an indication that he only wanted to use you to get his papers. And after that be free as a bird.

I will advice that you prayerfully (if you believe in God), talk to him about it. Tell him you want to get a clear understanding of where the marriage is headed also let him understand that his behaviour is not the best especially for the kids. If you have mutual friends, ask them to help you talk with your husband.

Finally, is your new boyfriend an african without papers? if yes, please run as fast as your legs can carry you. If he is not, then you have to ask him for a little break so that you can put your life in order.

What will be your husband's stand if you told him that you wanted a divorce? Will he refuse? You could just try to see his reaction to this.

funny!if she like make she run go heaven,mugu must fall.
if she doesn't want to give him paper,other women will .
perhaps she met d wrong man or her attitude suck.

FerrariGP:

@ jesoul and fhemmy u guys have said it all,

To all the young single ladies screaming careers and jobs now on this forume, when ur boobs start to sag u will be singing a different tune,

I wonder the kind of careers we have in naija thats making most em scream, bank marketing or wat,

no mind dem,
there r millions of single women wasting all over d world all in d name of career.

labba labba! bla bla! too much talk
i want a woman that stays at home
she may get a part time job in future,if d need arise.

7.10. naija time.
justin.tv,playandwatch.co.uk and tv7(astra 1,19degree east)

honor2011:

Pls woman ignore most of the chatters that you hear from the nairaland. Though it might seem as if you made mistake by having kids for the man in the first place, the second mistake will be for your to go and look for another man. Mind you, most of the single guys you see out there are mere gold diggers. So if you don't get another single, reliable man to replace your "husband", are you going to marry another married man? Search your mind very well, I am sure your present status is what is disturbing you. or you have seen some new potential or real lover(s). I have had a personal experience with an ex that i got a job for in a bank. Once money started to flow in, she forgets her past and how she got the job in the first place. So please remember your kids and make the sacrifice for them. After all you never mentioned that the man was maltreating you. Leave all those who are making you feel as if you did quite unusual things. We are in Africa and we have our cultures and traditions.

we r in africa indeed!u can as well advise ur sisters to marry a man with 2 or 3 wives .

PERVERT9:

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,na so shoki shoki shonbolo dey take start, you just dey take style toast men for nairaland,i pity your toto,_{you go hear weeeeeeeeeeeeeen}

dat na understatement.
by d time i finish,i go boil egg on top her toto,

tpiah:

oh, I thought you were telling me I'll end up as a multiple wife.

I'd be much happier remaining single but needed to clear that fact with you in case na curse you dey type.

cheerios.

no wahala!nothin do u!
u've self-esteem,
u know ur worth,
go in peace.

tpiah:

Indeed I can and will.

make una carry una African polygamic mentality comot my face oh.

if na curse then back to sender! I rebuke you in Jesus name.


Do I sound like the type of person who will make a good multiple wife?


Shine your eye!

i was referring 2 d poster,u drink palmwine or wetin?

michelin89:

Those are lame.

wetin dey lame,
D guy just dey disrespect ur pusssy
abi woman no dey finish man again,
u need sister woman 2 help u out cos she'll do it better.

@michelin89- i was expecting u 2 say u banged him,he cannot even perform,he acts like a pusssye.t.c.