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Travel / Re: Canadian Federal Skilled Worker Program-timelines Here by Bplati: 9:51pm On May 17, 2015
Can't only transcript suffice? I sent only transcript of my highest qualification which is undergoing evaluation at the moment.
Education / Re: LASU Vs IBADAN POLY : Nairaland Interschool Debate: WINNER: IBADAN POLY by Bplati: 7:07pm On May 16, 2015
I agree with you. Also it's "wandering about and not wondering about

Wealthyone:
Despite the fact that I will never abort a pregnancy or support it, I believe ibadan poly is still convincing with points.
Though, he made errors by spelling Rid as Ride , yet, his article is concise despite few references.
LASU, I support ur notion and u started well by defining what abortion is but the write up didn't lipsrsealed lipsrsealed [s]I'm already writing too much when I'm not one of the judges[/s]
Education / Re: UNILORIN--FUNAAB: Nairaland Interschool Debate: WINNER: FUNAAB by Bplati: 4:34pm On May 16, 2015
Funaab for me..... Straight to the point and orderly.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Federal Skilled Worker Program-timelines Here by Bplati: 8:11pm On May 14, 2015
Thanks

JesusDWay:


Your IELTS result is eligible(your hubb's own is better) but there are other factors that are considered. Go to CIC's website to find out the other things that are required - http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/immigrate/skilled/apply-factors.asp. You must also have sufficient funds
Travel / Re: Canadian Federal Skilled Worker Program-timelines Here by Bplati: 7:29am On May 14, 2015
With this tweets https://mobile.twitter.com/expressentry looks like we may be eligible.

Gurus pls respond.
Travel / Re: Canadian Federal Skilled Worker Program-timelines Here by Bplati: 10:21pm On May 13, 2015
Hello guys.... I just saw my IELTS score L-7,R-6.5, W-6.0, S-7 -----CLB 6.5
Also hubby's L-6.5, R-8, W-6.5, S-7.5 ......CLB 7.0

Are we eligible for EE?

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by Bplati: 10:28pm On May 11, 2015
Gurus,
How weighty is MIS (Masters in Information System) in the U.S.? It seems I'm changing my mind to study that against HR? Pls advise.
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by Bplati: 11:18pm On May 07, 2015
Type exactly what you are doing at the moment except that you are into something shady which will backfire on you in the long run. NL doesn't encourage lies. So be sure of what you are doing.

udeyokay:
Guru in the house please I need your advices ,is it okay to change primary occupation from business to using the OTHER column specification in the application .Then I wil write that I'm doing business pluss teaching.
I need some suggestion I want to submit my application please
I was delayed on Dec last year
ThanK you.
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by Bplati: 10:49pm On May 05, 2015
Yes Yaba axis.

Walspring:


I think there is weekend and week days, dunno if they can beat it down and also do you stay in Lagos
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 11:33pm On May 04, 2015
Thanks Richyblink and Bashbabe2
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by Bplati: 11:30pm On May 04, 2015
How many weeks will the study take for me to ACE the exam?
I work week days undecided
Can you beat it down a bit? sad
I'm looking at writing by June ending /early July.

Any hint on how to shoot a video essay?

Walspring:


Can you afford #30,000
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by Bplati: 11:07pm On May 03, 2015
Yes ma'am if it's within the price I can afford.

zeezahbee:
Do you want to pay for that ?
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by Bplati: 10:33pm On May 03, 2015
Hello,

Pls I need a GMAT tutor that I can help me prepare for my exam for a month and half as my application is being held until I submit my GMAT/GRE result.

Also, has anyone submitted a video essay before? I need help on that too.

Thanks
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 10:49am On Apr 19, 2015
taryour:



Nothing makes one religion better than the other. It all depends on your choice of religion and your belief. Serving one true GOD and doing unto others what you want done to you.
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 8:31am On Apr 19, 2015
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Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 11:52pm On Apr 18, 2015
I need more advise o. Pls help
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 9:25pm On Apr 18, 2015
What really makes one religion better than the other?
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 8:31pm On Apr 18, 2015
juman:


Study both religions.

I am a muslim and I know much about my religion. I am pleased being a muslim.

Yes I've studied both and I prefer to be a christian. Fanatics tend to be hell bent on imposing their choices on people. I really wish they can be liberal
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 8:29pm On Apr 18, 2015
mhonghorll:


@op

i understand your fears completely. The truth is when i read your post this afternoon, i showed it to my wife and asked if she's the one that posted it. what i am trying to say is that i am in the same shoes as you and ur hubby( my wify and i are from Islamic background but we chose to be Christian). Same way ur inlaws are begging you to convince ur hubby is the same they are begging my wife to convince me but I STOOD MY GROUND VERY WELL. She (wify) was even promised a car grin. Some things i would like to share with you regarding my experience and how we (wify and i) managed the situation. Pls PM me so that we can talk privately

Whao! I'll PM you. Thanks

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Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 4:36pm On Apr 18, 2015
Bplati:

Hmmm, sometimes I wonder what's attached to this religion such that I was seriously begged to convince him and promised me that I'll get anything I want in this world. This issue no be small matter o. I'm just scared not to offend anybody else I'll look them in the face, then one will be tagged as a bad wife... One can imagine the extent they can go spiritually. I don't want any attack or whatsoever. Scared they can manipulate my hubby into marrying a Muslim of their choice.

Do you understand some of my fears?
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 4:03pm On Apr 18, 2015
bellong:


Parental curse can only have impact if the child did something wrong... "As birds by wandering.. curse curseless shall not come."

When you are pressured, tell them their son is the head of the family and whatever he decides is what you will abide with. So they should talk to their son.

Hmmm, sometimes I wonder what's attached to this religion such that I was seriously begged to convince him and promised me that I'll get anything I want in this world. This issue no be small matter o. I'm just scared not to offend anybody else I'll look them in the face, then one will be tagged as a bad wife... One can imagine the extent they can go spiritually. I don't want any attack or whatsoever. Scared they can manipulate my hubby into marrying a Muslim of their choice.
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 1:47pm On Apr 18, 2015
taryour:


Op please let the word DISOWN sound to you like they are going to wipe you out of the surface of earth. You are no longer bearing your maiden name and your husband is now man enough to make decisions. You both have your own families now and responsible for every actions you take.

Go ahead with whatever religion you choose too and feel very comfortable with. No one has any right whatsoever to threaten you on which religion to go by.

You don't have to do anything, just keep your stand and remain confident. Best wishes

Thank you for this advise. We will go stronger and be steadfast. Appreciate
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 1:25pm On Apr 18, 2015
bellong:


Are you guys still dating or married?

The constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria accords the right to every individual adults freedom of choice of religion.

I want to believe you guys are above 18 and I don't see any reason why non-violent threat from another adult should disturb you.

It is left for you and your husband/boyfriend to take a stand and stop being diplomatic about issues. It has not been resolved because they know you guys are weak in your decision. Therefore, the pressure wouldn't subside but will keep increasing.

Once you take a known stand and defy their threat to do whatever you want, they will either disown you or allow you to practice whatever you choose. There is no need of entertaining fear, the ball is in your court.

Thank you for this. We are married o.. Before they agreed with the traditional rite sef. Na wahala, hence the diplomacy. I'm extremely tired of their domineering behavior. I'll get my family back and stand on what I believe. Just scared of the Yoruba culture thingy. The family believes I'm the one that can help convince their son and he affirmatively said NO. I can only support my Hubby's decision. Worrisome.
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 1:08pm On Apr 18, 2015
wakacome:
Disown you people because you are practicing the religion of your choice as married people??some families are pathetically ignorant!!!!!!as long as you people do believe in GOD and they do not believe in the devil then i do not see any reason why any family should do such....nonsense....

Exactly what I thought until I found myself in this domineering family. I wish they can just let us be... I'm tired angry
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 11:00am On Apr 18, 2015
The good people of Nairaland, I'm counting on you as usual o.
Family / Re: Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 10:37am On Apr 18, 2015
Just incase of what?
Family / Life Issues Of Religion Differences by Bplati: 10:16am On Apr 18, 2015
I'm from a Muslim background and so is my hubby. We have two children. My family is liberal and allowed us to practice whatever religion that pleases us. I'd been going to church even before I met hubby who was also a church goer. Hubby's family is very strong in Islam and had threatened to disown us if we don't practice the religion. They even want to sponsor our pilgrimage to hajj but we are not interested. We started playing diplomacy by pretending to be who we are not especially when they are around or we go visiting. Right now, I'm not even going to church neither am I practicing Islam because I'm fed-up. Isn't religion about serving God? Why the superiority in religion? Can people serve whoever God they prefer?. I fear for my kids because I really want to raise them to know God. Its really affecting me psychologically and contemplating relocating with the kids.

Pls advise me.

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