I will not lie I have gotten to meet a few people from nairaland. Some of the ladies are sincere and some dont just have a plain idea of what they want. Some are for the adventure and mystery of getting to know someone from the blues. A good shag in return is not a bad turn of events.

Thanks guys for all the advise. However 9star's advice will be passed on to the babarian club. I heard they are meeting on saturday.

My babe is not in town with me. She is not due for another vissit untill just before NYSC and this is about a month away. My ex called last night, with another line and asked for a meeting. Ofcourse I let her know im not in town at the moment but she cross checked with my secretary who was not in on the act and found out I'm not due to leave town until friday for a lagos working trip.

I know a little bit about attritious breakups. They are not the best for we live and die in this world together directly or otherwise so im ok with still being able to help out an ex once the lines have been drawn for good.

Almost a year ago, i had a beauty that betrayed my trust. We had set the date for the wedding and three months to that date she did an about turn. I was grief stricken for weeks and every one that was close enough to me rallied round me to keep me afloat. Out of the blues while trying not to be rash in my dating I had a strong urge to get in touch with an old flame. After a few calls I got her number and we talked for a couple of weeks and she came over to vissit me in the town I live in. She had not only matured in outlook, the years were kind to her as her beauty shown like a million stars. She also was ready as she was not in any current relationship. I woke up one morning weeks backand asked her to marry me. she said yes.

On the other hand, my ex has been on my case asking for a reunion. I have tried avoiding contact with her until she now decided to trap me at the office. Im weak at her sight as she truly is a beauty I had. She knows this and has been doing everything to make sure i see her.

Im commited to this other lady and I dont want to break my comittment. PLEASE HOW DO I SHAKE OFF MY EX FOR GOOD.

no one seems to want to help out a nicotine ad.

Hi,

Been a smoker for the past 15 years but want to give it up. Its been a struggle. Was sucessful for three months one time and then one month and 10 days later on. it seems to be my friend that doesnt fail . It will always light up. I know the health risks and i want to turn it of. Will like helpful tips and a link to any quit smoking anonymous groups within abuja area.

Thanks.

hi,

Been trying to quit smoking for so many years. I live in the abuja area and will not mind helpful tips and any quit smoking anonymous groups within abuja.