softapple:
bros as a man u must know dat there re tins in life dat requires action even though it involves hurting others. bros hurt her n move on with ur life. or is it a sin?

bros but their must be some other way to do it peacefully not gragra

andromida:


Tell her the bolded. She can handle it.

You know the way babes are shallow in their thinking? she mite feel used and i don't want that

I went to the movies with my bae and we sat at the back watching a popular soft p*rn movie. it ignited the mood we started to do the couples thing till the film ended even evryone around us where doing their own thing too so no one really care. But by the time the movie ended and people started leaving my peteru has risen so hard that if i stood up the whole world would just burst into laughter and it would be so embrassing so i sat down and people on my row couldn't pass cos i was a obstacle to them, some had to jump sits some wen to tell the security guys. even when the security guys came in i told them i had a running stomach just so that the little jay would go down. After it went down successfully we could not but laugh cos it was pretty an embrassing state for us. SO guys thats one am sure u guys have one time had ur embrassing moment pls share with nairlanders to elope the boring afternoon

softapple:
@op she is too too cheap to b ur girlfriend, if a guy with more money comes she will cheat on u so tell her 2 her face dat u dnt love her, if she likes let her go n hug a transformer.

i dont want to hurt her

I met this lady at a friend Bachelor eve and we got talking before you know it we actually blended loads so we exchange contacts i was feeling like a badguy while the party was on going she requested to leave and i offer to drop her home because it was dark and moreso, i was with my car and she didnt have a means to get home since it was late. She agreed so i drove all the way down from the island to the mainland some where in ogunsanya. I was happy because it felt like we have known each other years before more-so in our convo i found out she appeared single. so i was freaking happy that cute lady digs the me and you know sometin could spring up. The next day i called her up for lanuch since she claimed to work on the island not too far from where i work. She waved launch advances and told me that she rather have us go to a more interesting place like the mall movies and all. I was happy since it was what i wished for we went to the movies 1st after which we went eating and drinking and she insisted we go window shopping but i noticed her utmost desire to go to the mall i was suspicious but anywayz i had my atm with me then we entered the mall and she told me if i had like to have he pick a thing or two and she started picking ...OMG I started sweating so much that she even joked "why are you sweating in the cool environment" i chuckled and said that its not as cold my office lol. Deep down i know the reason bills have racked up but Thank God i had enough to cover the bills. After shopping i was happy atleast my end of the bargain has been filled then i told her to come to know my place she stylishly waved it i was like see this babe oh she collect Every now to sabi my place u say No. i accepted faith and felt that God would do wonders again Then after a week she called and told me how much fun she had the last time that she wanted to come again i was very happy Now you done enter am "for my mind" so she said we should meet at the galleria i said no problem so after movie we strolled into a mall and she ask if a particular cloth fit good on her i said yes but she asked if she could have iti said yes but my atm is at home lets go get it. She agreed ON GETTING HOME i asked what she wanted to eat. so i made her food and she was happy i moved close before u know it we started kissing and we got down on the koko. But the most annoying thing is after the whole ish she is now claiming we are in love and we have a relationship sincerely i don't want a relationship with someone that would use my savings to buy a piece of shoe? How can i tell her my mind without hurting her or make her feel i took advantage of her? pls advise

What happens? if you suddenly find out that your girlfriend you have been dating and having s*x with is transgender.....? would you freak or live or stay in the relationship?

MrNL:
ain't that too common?

I CALL HER EWU

kitnah:
Wow!!

This is awesome

thanks kitnah

Looking Through an Old picture I found out that decency has traveled a long way from our generation. Our mothers and grandmother's in their time had dop* swag and still kept a high level of decency. They always swagged up each and every time they hanged out and never revealed their bodies. Moving forward ! we are stocked in the generation of the nudes. Where Everyone feels you suck if you don't show some skin. where girls sag their pants and say its low-rise or fashion Smh Where men look at their wives going out half nak*d and complain she doesn't come home early? is she suppose to come home early after going out like that . Girls have replaced values with styles. We now have MORE Empty Headed beauties than BEAUTY WITH Brains. Where have they lost it? or Am i the one that has lost it? What has nudes got to do with been Hot? Pls share your Value to marry a Lady?

kitnah:
Blackett

Their relationship is up to 4years??

Well,she knows him better than anyone,more reason to tell her before the wedding

If he is faithful all those years,trust me she will definitely overlook it.

And if this is a first time,it makes it a plus

its the 1st time but it doesnt make it any better

vega84:
This nairaland people self. Always high on Pakistan weed. #vegatalks#

lol

kitnah:

lol
wetin i do??

nothing yet..... but i got my 3d glasses on... watching closely

kitnah:

Hmm...i see

I will stay away then

eyes on you 2

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Hmm...i see

I will stay away then [/quote eyes on you two

Mhizizzy:
I tink u Sud tell d bae..itz better she knows

Dnt keep tinz from each oda

Not as easy as you think

ronald4lif:
Tell her and risk ruining your marriage plans and possibly lose her forever.

Don't tell her now until you both must have married, the marital union won't be easy to collapse and the risk of losing her will be way lesser than this courtship period, should you tell her now.

But you 'must' tell her soon after the marriage, every details of what transpired between you and her bestie. Gather as much evidence as you can like someone earlier suggested you record calls made to her relating to the issue or chat messages. Failure to tell her what happened will be disastrous and could be considered that you are harbouring the thoughts of getting laid with this girl. She'll never stop making suggestive moves at you until you succumb. That is why it is pertinent you let your woman know everything. But not until after marriage.

Sigh thanks

Saimeritus:



http://www.e-expressnigeria.com/blog/2012/05/where-are-our-virgins

in the museum

Blackett:
Yes. He's not telling her.

lol i never said anything yet!

Blackett:
Nope. Nothing like she will definitely overlook it. . . Ladies don't overlook such so close to the wedding date. It sets off all kinds of alarm in their head.

Even you, kitnah. You would not overlook it. I know why I asked you the duration of your longest relationship. - I was trying to prove a point.

you know!!!

henribj:


i hope he really does o
and not just a case of trying to marry into a wealthy family #justsaying

Easy bro am no suffer head or from a broke home. Its genuine love...

LadyX:


So you decided not to tell your fiance?

If so, I don't know how you will tell her to change the lady because you've got to give a reason.
Maybe Blackett can help you there.

cc. Blackett

have not decided anything yet... It scary to think about losing some1 u want to spend the rest of your life with... You built d relationship to a point she is virtually everything and a family. You don't want to be in that shoes trust me . it more difficult becos she is fragile she would break... she not that strong.

kitnah:

Mr blackett

So you will rather build a marriage on lies huh??

I think the op should man up and face the consequences of his action.

If she breaks up with him,trust me it was never meant to be

btw,i'm enjoyin this,quite educative

Break up is a no option my sister. It ain't easy now it sure gonna be worse then.

LadyX:


I suggest that from now, don't allow any communication with the girl. She might be planning something. In the same way she planned the dinner, she can come up with something else. She could even lie that she's sick only for you to get to her house and find her n*aked waiting for you. or she could put something like viagra or similar drugs in your food. You will be the one begging her. You get the drift?

yh thnx i hope she just leaves us alone. But i don't know how to explain it to my fiancee that she should change her best lady cos i can't imagine looking at her that day... Knowing what has happened in the past. *sigh*

LadyX:


Bwon, you need to know this:

The friend knows everything about you: She knows how you treat your fiancee. She could be also knowing about your s*x life, etc. Therefore, she wants to have you to herself. She can do anything, including seducing you and getting pregnant for you just to be your wife. She knows you want to settle down and she wishes to be you wife.

If she is desperate is it your business? No! Don't allow her needness or desperation to separate you from your fiance. You are not the last man standing on earth, so she will get another man. Forget about the *love* antics she's playing on you.

Have you heard or read here about guys having done an introduction or about to it, then they discover another lady pregnant for them? That's how it happens. Then they are forced to abandon their fiancee and marry the baby mama.

oh! sigh

Blackett:

Dear Kitnah.

It is better for the girl to get angry and come back to her sense after they have married, than before they get married. . . Remember the wedding is 4 months away, no?

If she gets pissed, she'll call off the wedding. We don't want that to happen now, eh?

Exactly..... she is everything i mean everythingg

Mhizizzy:
Nawa o

lol

LadyX:


Who is desperate? The friend?

yh the calls the messages the pictures ..... and all proves that.. and it scares the shii outer me

LadyX:


What if the girl who wants op, goes ahead to tell her fiance that they are *having an affair* though it's not true?
What if she *fixes* him...She tells the fiance "To prove that we are going out, wait here then you will see us together"

Sadly i feel she kinda desperate. But Makes it all worse

Blackett:
Trust me, you do not want to tell her this _shit right now.

Stay true to her by avoiding her friend. Never ever reply her friend's chats in an equally seductive manner. Make sure you are never caught in a compromising situation.

If you tell her now, you'll lose her.

If you tell her later after you have married her, she'll get angry. But then, the fact will remain that you refused to sleep with her friend despite her advances. The fact will also remain that you chose not to tell her, not because you do not trust her, but because you know how fragile she is and you weren't trying to hurt her because you love her and you are concerned about her emotional well being. . . After a while, she'll understand your actions and you both will move on with your life. . .

Let me itemize what will happen if you tell her now.

- she'll get pissed
- she'll never believe you haven't fvcked her friend
- she'll ignore you and lock you out
- she'll ignore her friend and lock her out
- you will get lonely
- her friend will see her absence as an opportunity to finally get close to you
- you'll fall for her friend because of the attention she now gives you
- you'll fvck her friend
- you'll hate her friend after fvcking her
- her friend will tell her you both fvcked
- she erases any thought of ever coming back to you
- you remain miserable.

Avoid that _bitch with everything you have in you. Block her from every where blockable. . . Only you have this power.

Choose wisely.

Cc kitnah. This replies you, I hope.

Thnx Kitnah

sameer1212:
Damn! Can u stop being a pus*sy and act like a man for a second? Tell ur fiance now before it get out of hand.

Thanks bro but not as easy as it seems .it not the issue of been a pus*y she is my fiancee and i know how fragile she can be.. Am just scared i don't want to loose her she like everything to me .

akinsadeez:
For a lady you are about to get married to, I must say that the level of trust you have in her is very very low.

Let's turn the tables around. If it were to be your own best friend that was pestering your girl, telling her you're not good enough and doing everything possible to fvck her, would you be happy for your girl to keep quiet about it and even go on to kiss your friend?

You should have told her immediately the friend came out plainly with her intentions. Honestly it seems you are enjoying the notion of being chased by the friend and the tantalizing prospect of tasting the forbidden fruit.

If you keep quiet about this, you can't predict the length the friend would go, to end your engagement. A girl who can go after her best friend's man obvioulsy has nothing to lose. If you keep resisting her, she might set you up or go to her friend with lies in which case you will just lose both ways.

Thanks bro but am not enjoying it i feel bad about it but telling her hurts me but i feel telling her and losing her wold even hurt more. Try to understand she would freak she is quite fragille.

LadyX:


Are you waiting for your friend to tell your fiancee that you kissed her?
She wants you and she will do everything to get you.

Who knows, maybe she has already started telling your fiance that you are not good enough for her (the same way she's telling you your fiance is not good). Guy, open your eyes! If you are going to marry her, you better build on your trust (both of you should be able to trust each other)

sigh thnx