Dude! Have we met Before? You just described me to the very last punctuation. But I have learnt to just be me. Stray true t you. You are my twin, bro.

Honestly, I’ve got two, at least. The first one is religion. Sorry I am not trying to be rude, but I was so much into religion and all. I believed everything Bible back then. In fact, by the age of nine, I’ve read the Bible back to back twice in two different languages. I really wanted to be a Pastor.But now I see it as all lies. The second thing I now hate is gender wars. Even as a child, I always saw it as healthy competition. But now, it has become something else. We now seem to be promoting hate against the other gender. The thing is even putting me off social media.

Bro, it is very normal. It only shows You can think for Yourself. I have studied the entire Bible countless times. I have been an ardent and a serious Christian for years. I still LOVE the Bible and I enjoy everything Christian. I study the Bible everyday and I LOVE Hillsongs and Casting Crowns and Jmoss. I will sing worship songs every day with tears in my eyes. In fact, I always love having Hillsongs playing while I sleep in the night.
But,

I do not believe anything in the Bible.
I love the raphsody and the euphoria of worship songs.
I don't pray, except to thank the Universe (God, if you like) for existence and all the good things of life.
Nature is my god. Science is my religion. Humanity is my faith.

Dude! Stop spreading negativity. Yes! People doing less or worse than us will always make us feel luckier, but that doesn’t mean we actually want them to fail or be worse off than we are. Guy, clean your evil mind abeg; Your own na witchcraft

I have always told those who cared to listen that why relationships nowadays are hard is simply because one half of the relationship circle is only looking for some ass, and the other half is only looking for a catch. We do not value people any more; we only value cruise!!!!!!

Glory2DLamb:


How many Nazirites do you know in the Bible? What were the conditions of being a Nazirite? How many people today can submit to Nazirite demands? Are Nazirites Christians?
Go on and keep deluding yourself.

Yo! It is not about being a nazirite. It is about the fact God himself was never against men leaving long hair or plaiting it. Even apostle Paul in his admonition about hair says he’s only speaking from his own personal view, not from the spirit. Hair or no hair, to plait or not to plait is a purely cultural thing. Let’s stop this hypocrisy of tying spiritual matters to unnecessary cultural and personal things

A man Plaiting his hair is not wrong Biblically. Samson plaited his hair into seven locks. Other Nazerites left their hair to grow long and so it is reasonable to assume they plaited their hair, at least periodically. Some nazerites in the Bible includes
Samuel the prophet and
John the baptist.
Some others made a vow and a requires demands that you leave your hair uncut until

I have heard this rumours a lot, but, for the love of me, common sense, makes me doubt the rumours. I never really believed it. And I also do not believe Tiv women are mostly prostitutes. Though the number of the uneducated among Tiv women is alarming; prostitution is a thing common to all people. I have seen a lot of chaste Tiv women.

I so not believe in life after death. I do not believe in spirits, ghosts and magic.

They may all be real, but I do not really think too much about things like that.

All I know is that "All Men Must Die". What after happens after death should be a topic for after we are dead. For now, I just want to first Live before I die.

BentizilL:

No man is a failure unless he give up...
What happen, can you tell your story?

It may serve as lessons to others..

Hey! Thanks for this. I want to give my story when the time is right. But for now, I just converted my memoir into a book that will be released very soon. I went through hell in my first stint in the university and I was forced to drop out. Now I am rebuilding myself from scratch on my own. But You will here me someday

Life has no definite manual. We learn on the job here.
Just live Your life and enjoy every moment of it.

But one truth I learnt is that it is in Your thirties that You will begin to be aware of the reality of Your mortality.
Because this is when You actually begin to realize that You can never really go back again.
You only really get older from here.
This is when You either learn to accept who You are or the mid-life crisis will only get worse.
By accepting who You are, I mean: Your hairline is never getting better, it will only recede further back from here on.
Your skin is never getting any more smoother or softer than You would like,
Your meager N30 or N50 salary will no longer support the reality You want for Yourself,
You are no longer comfortable with mere handouts anymore because earning some respect
suddenly becomes more important to You than whether or not You have eaten. etc.

But it is also the time You will actually learn to be free and accept life.

So enjoy Your life.
This is advice from a 32 year old failed man who is just about to start the university.

God, I love this. This is beautiful. I love the Igbo culture. It is very vibrant. Although it is mostly built and is "overdependent" on materialism, it is still a proud and beautiful culture. Igbo culture to the world. Yoruba and Hausa language to the world. Tell me why I should not be proud to be Nigerian.

I don't get it. Why do people listen to heartbreak songs When they are heartbroken. Instead of listening to something joyful so you can forget Your predicament, You are choosing to something that will worsen it. Humans are funny wallahi.

I sometimes feel may be it is because I grew up in a village, but this all-back cornrows have always been my favourite. And I love it on a man too. I even wore this style on my head a few times.

Narcissists are just self-centered people and I have made a promise to always avoid people like that. And those entitled mofis too

Now this is one thing we idiots should learn from. They see us all as Nigerians. They hoisted the Nigerian flag, not the Oduduwa, Arewa or Biafra flag. Dem no know and dem no care who be Igbo, who be Yoruba, or who be Hausa. See! We are all Nigerians. I love Nigeria and I am proud to be in the same political area as Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa people. God bless Nigeria.

I really hope Our Igbo brothers understand that why the IPOB was proscribed. Their activities are illegal because they have to enforce it against the will of the very people they claim they are fighting for. If the sit-at-home, and the ESN are supported by the majority of the people in the South-East, then it will be a completely different thing. But for now, IPOB activities are illegal and so, the group is proscribed.

siofra:
Well, better than Nigerian men. Anything but Nigerian men 🤷

I swear. I am a Nigerian man too, but most of us are terrible, just like our women.

People generally want to be around people whom they can relate with on an emotional level, and You so happen to be such a person, likely. I am like that too. They will so open up to You more than they do to their parents. And I love this initiation idea of a thing.

I love piercings and tattoos. And I pray to marry a lady who is open to doing them.

Reflect7:


Spoken like a typical naive, thoughtless Nigerian youth.

WHY MUST YOU USE THE 'N' WORD?

Just give me ONE good reason.

Is there no other word you can use to address your mates apart from a RACIST, DEHUMANISING, FILTHY WORD that was used to mass murder, lynch, and enslave your people, and is still used by racists of the Ku Klux Klan and neo-nazi white supremacist groups till this day?

Why should the world respect you if you don't respect yourselves?

when I was younger, growing up in a typical Nigerian village, we use to taunt ourselves calling each other names. Any of us who gets offended and cries or gets angry is only asking for more trouble. Crying and/or venting does not make the taunting stop. You only give us a weapon to taunt You more. So why should I let a single word determine how I feel about myself. Yes I am a Nigga, a Gorilla, a Monkey. Stop been a cry baby over something so insignificant. Only the black man still wants to play victim and complain over something that happened centuries ago. May the gods help the children of the Nagasaki and Hiroshima people. In fact, like Ye West, I blame our own parents more for the slave trade than the white man.

I think our low self esteem is the only thing that's making us still enslave ourselves to slave trade trauma. Origins of words don't bother me anymore. What and how you choose to use it now is what matters. Any white man calls me Nigga, I answer; a word does not define me. If You want to disrespect me, I leave or I disrespect You too.

YES! A BBC survey finds that Nigerian girls generally are already sexually active by the age of 13. But legal age of consent is 18 in most countries. The US is even proposing to reduce it down to 16. So, dude, she is ready to explore sex. And I will encourage people to teach their kids sex education and allow them to be sexually active at 18. Sex is good for us and we know it. But we all prefer to be hypocrites in public while we screw all these secondary school girls in private.

Tofax:
The North seems to have 11 appointees, the South West has 9 appointees, and South East 1, and South-South 1. That is fairness and equity?

. Bro, I see Your complaints. But "the North" is not a geopolitical zone. There are Three geopolitical zones in "The North" and and they have , as You said, 11 appointments, and there are also three geopolitical zones in the South and they equally have 11, based on Your analysis.And You also forgot that about 80% (this is just a personal view) of Nigeria's 400 ethnicities are in the North, ( Southern Kaduna alone, not even the entire Kaduna, has about 63 dialects from about 23 completely distinct ethnic groups), so how do we satisfy all of them. No be Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa be the only tribes in Nigeria, and Christianity and Islam are not the only religions here.

I so much love this Charly Boy like crazy. He lives his life the way he wants it.

Funny enough, I fxxkxxg love snakes. And I so Loooove tattoos. So this, to me is a dream. I wish to marry a girl like this. And what's more, the girl is beautiful. I am already in love mahn.

Benjaniblinks:
If 9ja people get your time. Just forget it

I swear! Nigerian online community is the scariest horde that may ever face anyone. But if they gat Your back for just a day, guy, You are made for life. Ask Burna Boy, Wizkid, Laycon, the two Aishas and Obi.

Padipadi:

You see you Pessi fans like twisting matters like elupeees.
It was in this thread, those that posted in the early part. Many bashed Ronaldo.
CR7 isn't my God. I no send him papa or mama. But I v seen the good trait from him as a motivation to those that the world look down upon.
I called Messi as Pessi cos some dogs here called CR7 Penaldo. So if I go further to call Messi a midget, it's not an abuse, it's his attribute. Abi I lie, Messi tall reach 6ft?
No be 5 ft 6 him be? In Argentina and Nigeria, he no go qualify for police job except he get connections.
No mind me say I savage, na your fellow Messi minions causes am.
If you want people to respect who you like, you don't disrespect others. It's so simple like election matter wey some elupeees ll abuse Tinubu but start crying when they abuse Obi. That's childishness!

Yeah! I get You shah. But two wrongs don't make a right. No matter how hard people insult one of my favorites, I will never stoop that low to insult theirs if he is good at what he does. And I understand You; we almost always try to make it look like Messi is some kind of god simply because he won a World Cup. But let's get this straight, Messi is not a midget. Midgetscare shorter and usually have large head to body ratio and sometimes shorter arms.

Padipadi:

Are you on colos?
You guys should kuku declare that CR7 should not exist or he should be wiped out of history!
Was Messi's juju finished when Ronaldo ate 5 out of his possible 12 balon'dors?
Which player gave him tough challenge like Ronaldo?
No be all awards and records Messi go break if not for CR7?
I ll mention Ronaldo a billion times. Not just me, billions of people in the world ll compare them till eternity.
Infact, to pepper you, I won't tell you who's better btw them.
Your jealousy filled life Messi said he was pained in 2017 that CR7 drew balon'dor with him at 5-5.
He's a pretending pained midget that try to appear good to the public but devilish at heart. Just like you and all his crazy fans here that can't celebrate good things.

Whoa! Calm down man! You do not wanna say who is better, but You are calling one a midget. You look pained! Kpele o. All I am saying, though, is that Ronaldo should not find his relevance in relation to Messi. Ronaldo is a Legend and one of the greatests ever. He did some things that even Messi and Pele could not do. We should all be able to talk about Ronaldo without feeling the need to have to bring Messi into it. And vise-versa. The topic was obviously about Messi; You have no reason to bring Ronaldo into it. If the topic was about Ronaldo, I will praise Ororo without feeling the need to bring Messi into it. I love these two guys mahn. But stop flexing Your muscle simply because You hate one whom You consider a midget though he has more accolades than Your god, Ronaldo. Learn to stomach the [bitter] truth that Messi no get mate!