zeestone99:
Sometimes it's not the fault of these kind of husband. These so called type of husbands might have had these traits for long, but the woman is blinded by the trips, materials things and comfort. They ditch the good guys and come back later to cry, expecting our sympathy.
Some men did go through a lot that after they eventually make it, they don't respect women. Especially when it's clear she's there for the money.

I wish the money is even there.
Am working so hard and am contributing my own part as a wife.

TheeDetective:
Your husband has no self control nor respect for you either and you must have seen these signs of a CHEAT in him whilst dating; but you decided to go ahead and marry him, now look at how he is treating you like a door-mat; what a shame. Go and report the home-wrecker to her husband for this nansense that she is doing with your husband. I hope that you saved ALL the screenshots of the messages you found on your husbands phone and sent them to your phone for evidence, so that when you report her to her husband you have the evidence to back it up.

My hubby is a green snake under green grass(But I don't know this before),I never caught him while we are dating,he was the one even pushing us to get married on time.

lilmax:
you forgot to tell us what transpired in the first month ma'am

Nothing transpire to this.We are the best couple until I found out he his cheating on me.
I ask him what I have done wrong so I can amends but he said am a perfect wife that it is him that is stupid.
That he made a mistake being too close to the lady and it's leads to them having sexual relationship.
But the problem here is that they never stop their adultery ways.

We got married married early this year,our wedding is not up to 6months then my husband is being cheating on me with his female colleagues.
He introduced the lady to me,we becomes friends,eat together,play together, gist together. she will visit me and I will also visit her family.
Mind you the lady is legally married with 2 kids.
So how do you except me to know she is dating my husband. she came to my weddings with her kids despite the long distance to the village for the wedding.
How I caught them?
My husband has been keeping his phone away from me since we got married but it never occur to me that he his cheating on me.
So on a faithful Friday night I do a vigil watching holy ghost Congress on dove TV which I slept late.I saw my hubby phone playing candy crush with light on,I checked his phone saw his chat with other girls found nothing so I decided to check my friend chat with my hubby only to receive shock of my life.
They had sex yes,everywhere,even in my matrimonial home,offices,the lady matrimonial house e.t.c
My hubby will told me that they sent him to ekiti from work only to find from their chats that he used to go with the lady to ekiti with the lady to have nice weekend.
To caught the long story short...my hubby beg me and the lady after being caught but they didn't stop.They continue their love affair's, always online at the same time chatting and my hubby still hides his phone from me.I even caught them on the road together while going to flex they were shock to see me and they claim they are not seeing each other anymore.
Have forgiven both of them but its hurt me that I haven't enjoy my husband to myself for a day after our wedding. Have been sharing him and they are not ready to stop.
Now my questions is,should I tell the lady husband? So she can leave my hubby alone bcs they believe is only me that sha know that the lady hubby didn't know.
Please advice me...am hurt,depress and frustrated