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Romance / Checkout Crazy Facts About Kissing You Never Knew by chikayobi(m): 10:17am On Mar 10, 2019

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Business / 20 Legit Ways To Make Money Right From Home by chikayobi(m): 2:52pm On Mar 09, 2019
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And whether we choose to acknowledge it or not, our financial situations have an enormous impact on almost every facet of our lives. The misuse of money can have devastating effects on our collective mental, social and emotional health.
Being short on cash often means being late on a utility bill, foregoing holiday gifts for a loved one, or missing out on activities with friends.
Worse yet, some of us continue to spend and rack up debt.
Even a few hundred dollars is often the difference between making it till the end of the month…and falling flat on your face.
If you feel like you are a part of this group, there is good news – we live in a pretty incredible age.
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Science/Technology / How To Read Deleted Messages On Whatsapp Messenger by chikayobi(m): 2:42pm On Mar 09, 2019
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Business / How To Make Money Online: 5 Things I Do To Make $50,000+ A Month Online by chikayobi(m): 3:53am On Mar 09, 2019

Business / Five Main Reasons Why Men Love Women With Small Waists by chikayobi(m): 3:45am On Mar 09, 2019

Family / Is It Right You Stay Friends With Your Ex? (i) by chikayobi(m): 3:32am On Mar 09, 2019

Sports / How Manchester United Stun The World With Comeback Win Over Psg(goal & Highlight by chikayobi(m): 11:11am On Mar 07, 2019

Politics / CUPP Reveals What Buhari Plotting To Do During Governorship Elections by chikayobi(m): 10:58am On Mar 07, 2019

Nairaland / General / How She Lost Her Senses After Wearing Pant – Physiotherapist by chikayobi(m): 10:49am On Mar 07, 2019

Family / Communication: What Should Couples Talk About? by chikayobi(m): 5:11pm On Mar 05, 2019
They say that communication is a major pillar of any relationship and that we should talk about EVERYTHING with our partners. But how do we go about that? What do you really say?

Opening up can be hard for someone who is not used to doing so and you may be a loss as to what exactly you should share. Well, I have taken the liberty to group them in different categories.

1. Goals

A major thing that you should let your partner know about is where you see yourself in the future, your hopes and aspirations. This is important because it tells you two if you truly have a future together and helps him know where he fits in in your life.

2. Fears

It might not be so easy to open up about this one. When it comes to goals, it is easy to be enthusiastic and talk about these things but with one’s fears, one will most likely shrink away and try to pretend like they don’t exist. However, we all have fears and you should trust your partner enough to share your fears with him so you two can work through them as a team.

3. Feelings

It is very important that you don’t hide this from him. You should definitely share your emotions with your partner so he will be assured of how you feel about him or other issues. It will help you guys draw closer to each other. Feelings here may include love, fear, jealousy, pain, sadness, frustration, peace, and relief.

4. Little things

Well, you two can’t be serious all the time so this is why you should be gist buddies. Be comfortable enough to talk about anything you wish with your partner e.g. your pet peeves, your day, your annoying colleague, and politics.

Making a conscious effort to talk about each of these makes your communication process much richer.[https://www.dailyworldtips.com/2019/03/communication-what-should-couples-talk.html]

Nairaland / General / Davido Nominated At Nickelodeon Kids Choice Award 2019 by chikayobi(m): 4:50pm On Mar 05, 2019
Nigerian pop star, Davido is on the verge of achieving another big win, as he has been nominated at Nickelodeon Kids Choice award 2019. With the help of his loyal fans worldwide to cast votes in his favor, he could bag home the award.

The popular music star is nominated alongside music stars around the world at Nickelodeon Kids Choice Award 2019. To bag home the award, he will be up against global stars like BlackPink from Asia, Troye Sivan from Australia / New Zealand, David Guetta from Europe, Taylor Swift from North America, and J. Bavin from Latin America.

On his IG page, Davido wrote: “Feels good to be nominated alongside the greats. Mekuna no jonzeoo. We fit win oo. Vote for me as your Favorite Globa Star at the @nickelodeon kids choice awards 2019. Africa, let us take this one.”

Many have congratulated him on the nomination. However, not many are positive that he will win the award, as the stars he is up against are far ahead of him in the global music game. Secondly, in a world where racism still has an upper hand, it’s hard for a black man nominated alongside whites to emerge a winner of an award hosted by whites.[https://www.dailyworldtips.com/2019/03/davido-nominated-at-nickelodeon-kids.html]

Health / Why Do People Gaslight? by chikayobi(m): 4:33pm On Mar 05, 2019
Lately, I have been writing about ‘gaslighting’ to answer the numerous questions you may have about the appalling behaviour and this time around, I want to focus on why people do it.

To be clear (in case you have not read the other posts on this subject), gaslighting is a manipulative behaviour used by someone to wield influence over you by making you accept the reality they present to you (which is fictitious). Anybody who seeks to control someone could use it like cult leaders, dictators, and even some friends and boyfriends.

Now, this is something really terrible and you may be wondering why someone would engage in such behaviour. There are various reasons but this is what my research revealed.

1. Parental influence

I think many of us experienced this without realizing it. Some of our parents were gaslighters and it seeped into us because that was the environment we grew up in. Let me give a typical example: your parents had a fight and one of them decided to recruit you to his/her side by feeding you with stories about how the other person messed up. Before you know it, you are not thinking objectively.

2. Anti-social behaviour

Certain people develop anti-social personality disorder from early in their lives and when unchecked, it could become a flagrant disregard for norms in society and a twisted desire to make others bend to their wishes.

3. Insecurity

There are other people who feel terrible about themselves so they attempt to gain some control over their lives by wielding control over others.

4. Narcissism

Someone who thinks excessively high of himself may have an authoritarian personality and so try to influence others to defer to them.

Most gaslighters are aware of their behaviour but a few may not, like someone who does it because he/she is insecure. If you recognize it then try to convince them to get help.[https://www.dailyworldtips.com]

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