obyrich:
Lovely. You got a good head. Are you into script-writing?

No,basically I just do article writing. I am thinking of venturing into it,used to write stories before I took a long break.
scriptwriting aint a bad idea,buh I really don't think am prepared yet.

obyrich:
Welcome. Also take punctuation seriously. I see a little laxity there. I hope you are not averse to criticism?

lol,its welcome. Thanks

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iAmCharis:
Lol I lost your contact.

yaf lost it again abi.

aii,I will try sending it via Facebook, buh u hv to message me first o

jabojafa:
yeah dt is why we are warned to flee fornication

huh

iAmCharis:
What proposal are you talking about? Ever since you started living in the main quarters of my heart, I can barely stay a minute without thinking about you. How then will I have the zeal to want to propose to someone else?

Baby mi, my love ain't scam, neither is it made in Aba. It's straight from Taiwan.

Am turning pink am so flushed.

chai...is a lie ooooo,I refuse to fall again oya ooo,let's go before they cash us here.

obyrich:
This succinctly captures the experiences of many young ladies. Unfortunately, we blame and condemn rather than help them become better. I love your style of writing.

Thanks,I appreciate.
Dats very true,if we can't help them,at least we shouldn't hurt them and leave them worse off.

iAmCharis:
Been waiting for you all the while. Bought a diamond ring and kept it in a safe my grandmother bought for me. It's right here waiting for you.

Lol..baby love. chai,ya still a big scammer sha o.

eheh,so d NL proposal never happened? better start talking o.

JoeCutie:

For real? I didn't read down before oh. Wait, did they do it with or without?

hehehehe,lazy reader, better beg me first oooo.

Anyways, he did say they did it with kini,which she initiated.But,then wah if something went wrong.. of course it would be another story.

iAmCharis:
Daayuuum!
I've been to London to see the Queen.

How have you been?

Lol...enduring here in 9ja o,since I can't go to london.

u married now?

iAmCharis:
Ann..?

ssssssshhh...agap?
OMG...where hv u been?

jabojafa:
do u thing it is easy to tell someone you dnt trust abt ur status? If she tells every wooer on their first date then be rest assured she is indirectly publicizing her status.

of course its not smart to say it on the first date,op said they met since 2014,now two years is a long time to keep quiet about something this delicate, to think she allowed him have sex with her..that's highly insensitive.

byvan03:
She is working, I don't know why she is so interested in a stipend when you foot all the bills. She strikes me as greedy, she should be grateful. If she is not accepting the 20k, keep as part of your savings. Don't go trying to convince her to accept it anymore, you give your people money and it's a problem to her? When she isn't lacking? Some women sha.

now that's the word..GREEDY.

I sincerely see no reason why she should ask for the 20k at all,talk more of anything more if she is working,when its not like the money is in abundance.For heaven's sake that's why she's working to supplement the family's finances and not to drain from the little available.Op its good you have lofty plans for the future, try discussing it with her once again, she needs to see reasons to completely support you in those plans,you both should be patners working together to secure a better future.

JoeCutie:
Why aren't you close by? I'd have given you one better kiss. Your head is correct biko. I'm a strong advocate of spontaneity. Sometimes, life is far better that way. And here they are showing me their asses (and their selling points)... Ka m mezia gini? Ka m tabazianu ya nu? Mtcheww.

Lol .still blow the kiss jhr,I will catch

BTW..dah Igbo was thick oo.

This is overwhelming.. it would have saved you both a lot of stress if she opened up earlier, at least it would have really helped you prepared well emotionally and spiritually for the task ahead.
we are all humans, it's easier for anyone to say"love conquers all"and similar hogwash like that,love is never enough sometimes, you don't want to take a decision you would regret in the long run,and then depression and hatred sets in.
Remember, this is a life changing decision and trust me its not even yours to make.This is the point you bury yourself in prayer to God or whatever you believe in.They say everything happens for a reason and the universe has it all planned out,trust God to reveal to you whatever reason this is happening to you, he would give you the grace to come out of this fix in one piece.
for now... its your cross.

JoeCutie:
So the bottom line is...that you must shoot your ass out? Ladies! It's always about that ass, isn't it? I give up.

Lol as in eh,most of the poses are aimed at accentuating the ass and probably any other selling point
I really wouldn't remember all of this when I want to take a picture,most times the best pictures are d spontaneous ones.

Jbond:
Infamy

hey

where went her curves?

she was so perfectly made.

Lsofdk:

i feel she's going about it the wrong way but i can't say, who knows she might eventually find love down that route.

nice write up btw

Thanks... dah was probably the only way she knew.

Am sure this wasn't the first slap.

It was just the slap that killed her,its clear enough a woman beater is a potential murderer. RIP

rubsaphy:
Babe for this post you've earned a fan. It's awesome.....

And you making me beam with smiles.

Thanks

Lnxxxxx:


Hmmm

Personal encounter, know people with similar stories, write-up to help people understand (with deep know of emotions and feeling)
I refuse to connect the dots and judge someone (you)

Don't mind me am just messing with ya. Nice write-up

Lol thanks.


am sure somehow u can relate to it, we all know someone init?

refiner:

Nice Piece dear...

Thanks a lot. Awwwn,so you read it again.

Lnxxxxx:


Aiit, noted.

So what inspired you to write this?

Lol..I just knew someone would ask.
gehgeh...basically it was a personal encounter I had with a girl,my findings about her stunned me,and I did happen to know people with similar stories so it all just gingered me to write it.

refiner:
I really dont get the story line sha .. Maybe a little explanation would do

lol..I thought it was straightforward enough. Basically,the theme is about girls that have probably made bad choices as a result of ugly experiences or circumstances, most people can't relate to,and how they've condemned themselves as a result.

please do try reading again.

Lnxxxxx:
Hmmm,

I am not bashing ooo, just an objective observation from your write-up.

So sluts choose not to learn and are addicted to being loved (or needed or something), thus, use sex to get it. All in an effort to avoid being alone. Right?

well,this is for some classified ones,that are probably suffering from esteem issues, no self love, and so on,which could be attributed to probably ugly experiences or circumstances,but not totally out of choice.

Morning all,so I just finished a piece i have been writing, thought I should share,I do hope someone learns from it.Enjoy!

Oh,here she comes looking all flushed and giddy like she just had it really good There is this one girl,we tag as the hussy and cheap one,the "casted" one we mumur,well it is easier to make assumptions.
She is probably that girl that has been denied love all her life, jumped from one bad relationship to another.It is expected for her to have learnt, but it's quite hard, unfortunately,she feels like she has given it all away, bare and empty with nothing left to give. Instead of starting over,she buries one mistake under another, so the original wounds won't look so bad,its easier for her to run from one sexual relationship to another,to resort to pleasure to fill her need for love,for her poor deprived heart sex equals love. Yeah,the party and hook ups,is it really fun? nah,for a minute when those guys hold her,it feels like love, which is definitely not,the joy is short lived, but at least she feels wanted,she has learnt to settle for it that's all she can get.
As a little girl she must have dreamt of the perfect love,with it's happy endings and deep romance. She is so scared it's all gone now,just one mistake and her dreams would remain a dream.
She isn't that dirty, cheap slut you have written off,she is only LOST,her innocence drifting away.That girl is not a slut,she is a woman with a heart identical to yours and mine,longing for love in it's totality, REAL AND TRUE. Would you give it to her?

ehixking:

I will with pictures sef, am meeting with Lorretta in Festac next week Godwilling.

Dats great...here is something u might need.

Don't be too expectant, don't try too hard, be yourself and in all try to enjoy yourself. I repeat don't be too expectant,good luck.

ehixking:


Thanks dear. You are the best!!!!

Awwwwwn,you are welcome
sha don't forget to share your success story with us.

ehixking:
Hello everyone, I just schemed thru this thread from the beginning to the end....men!!! It was really interesting and I have been sharing it with so many people-

I would like to implore Nigerians to always be themselves and speak out no matter what.... the number of emails I received from various girls yesterday I didn't even believe it.

Some went ahead read thru my profile got my no and started chatting with me on whatsapp...in the end I got more than what I actually wanted....i haven't even called some and I have a date already with about 4 (the closest/most convenient)

But must you guys always bash an OP? My post is similar to a request for something, you should either help me or let me be.


That aside...I think the whole drama started when I posted something I wanted,i went to the social media choose the most appropriate section- (and what are you self-righteous people doing at the romance section sef) and the first comment by @Madridguy was get money first- I was like you barely even know me neither are you my account manager - why would you even see me as someone without money


....na him I vex oh... and I sabi nairaland people well well.....i had take it to war and it's was indeed "me against the world" but I didn't loose the battle in my own opinion. It would take a nations of soldiers to hold me down plus my power bank was fully charged ( in Falz voice).


But reading thru now the only person I should have really battled na @chiwetel but I didn't see her comment on time...
well it's all gone.



Cheers guys....
Am still gonna read this throughout today
And would laugh out loud if I can


And some people also came later after the battle has ended na those ones come sound astonishingly mum pass as them no fit read till the end.



By guys!
One love.

Lol..good for you,I really was just having fun on the thread. its laudable that you were bold enough to open a thread like that, Buh I just had a little qualm with your responses and all,I felt it was uncalled for.

buy hey it worked for u...

ehixking:
Hello everyone, I just schemed thru this thread from the beginning to the end....men!!! It was really interesting and I have been sharing it with so many people-

I would like to implore Nigerians to always be themselves and speak out no matter what.... the number of emails I received from various girls yesterday I didn't even believe it.

Some went ahead read thru my profile got my no and started chatting with me on whatsapp...in the end I got more than what I actually wanted....i haven't even called some and I have a date already with about 4 (the closest/most convenient)

But must you guys always bash an OP? My post is similar to a request for something, you should either help me or let me be.


That aside...I think the whole drama started when I posted something I wanted,i went to the social media choose the most appropriate section- (and what are you self-righteous people doing at the romance section sef) and the first comment by @Madridguy was get money first- I was like you barely even know me neither are you my account manager - why would you even see me as someone without money


....na him I vex oh... and I sabi nairaland people well well.....i had take it to war and it's was indeed "me against the world" but I didn't loose the battle in my own opinion. It would take a nations of soldiers to hold me down plus my power bank was fully charged ( in Falz voice).


But reading thru now the only person I should have really battled na @chiwetel but I didn't see her comment on time...
well it's all gone.



Cheers guys....
Am still gonna read this throughout today
And would laugh out loud if I can


And some people also came later after the battle has ended na those ones come sound astonishingly mum pass as them no fit read till the end.



By guys!
One love.

Lol..good for you,I really was just having fun on the thread. its laudable that you were bold enough to open a thread like that, Buh I just had a little qualm with your responses and all,I felt it was uncalled for.

buy hey it worked for u..hopefully you find someone deserving.cheers

This is so true...Biology was sweet,plus our teacher was very raw eh,no sugar coating.

it remain to do practical